Most mothers should have read the book "Little Doudou by the Window", or at least heard of this "Little Doudou".
Anyone who has read this book will remember a magical school called "Ba Academy" and this innocent, cute, individual and kind-hearted little girl - "Little Doudou".
The prototype of "Little Doudou" is Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, a famous Japanese writer, famous TV host, and UNICEF goodwill ambassador.
The reason why this book is such a best-seller is precisely because it is the true childhood experience of Kuroyanagi Tetsuko.
Only real life stories can make people so loved and moved.
In this introduction, we read about the brilliance and achievements of "Little Doudou" as an adult, and also read the very "weighty" sentence at the end: a child who was expelled from school in the first grade because of his naughty nature!
After reading such an introduction, I believe that no reader can suppress the instantaneous curiosity and wonder, and will definitely open the book immediately to find out: what kind of experience and power can change a "bad boy"
And achieve her brilliant life?
A good mother and a good teacher created a legend and influenced a child's life, allowing a child who was rejected and labeled at the beginning of life to maintain a curious personality and have happy self-confidence, thus laying the foundation for
The foundation and direction of her life.
"Little Doudou by the Window" is a true story, it is also a legend, and it is the educational "paradise" we yearn for.
The shadow of "Little Doudou"'s mother is actually not very large in the book "Little Doudou by the Window".
However, every time she "appears" between the lines, I can remember her deeply and be moved by her unconsciously.
When Tetsuko Kuroyanagi mentioned her mother in the postscript, she did not give a lot of words. She just said: In such "understatement", we read about Tetsuko Kuroyanagi's gratitude, and also read about a mother.
A wise, kind and great mother figure.
Tetsuko Kuroyanagi is undoubtedly very lucky!
It is actually not difficult to have a mother who loves oneself. It is natural for mothers to love their children.
The reason why her mother was able to cultivate her self-confidence and protect her nature was not only because of her motherly love that was as vast as the sea, but also because she was a person who was extremely kind and true, and knew how to do it!
like!
The child's mother!
Faced with a child with problems, she was able to hide her anxiety deeply and control her emotions so calmly. I don’t know how she did it. In addition to admiring and touching me, I also felt deeply for "Xiao Doudou"
"Proud and proud, she really has a rare good mother in the world!
Such a mother should also become a model for all mothers to learn from.
In the book, when "Little Doudou" talks about her various "dreams" with fantastic ideas and imagination, her mother does not think that she is naive or unrealistic, so she will attack her, ridicule her or deal with her.
Caring for her children sincerely and equally is the image of "Little Doudou"'s mother throughout the book.
Kuroyanagi Tetsuko's love for her mother is deeply reflected in these words describing her mother.
A mother who is under pressure from school teachers, a mother who silently controls her anxiety, a mother who is always gentle and patient and full of unconditional love, a mother who never changes her attitude of "respecting her children and encouraging them"... I have to envy this
A mother who is extremely nurturing and wise, I also hope that I can learn a little bit of educational wisdom from this mother... In this era of high-profile promotion of family education, most
All mothers have rich knowledge on child care. Many mothers are not only knowledgeable, but also have their own set of child care theories and practices.
However, not every mother can be as broad-minded and wise as "Little Doudou". She never instills her own requirements into "Little Doudou", does not interfere with "Little Doudou"'s own thinking, and does not regard "Little Doudou" as a child.
To modify, manipulate and even shape your own "work".
Being able to love children is a kind of high emotional intelligence and the source of true happiness for children!
It is precisely because of such a mother that she successfully protected "Little Doudou"'s curious nature and innocent and kind personality, and also allowed "Little Doudou" to not have to bear the impact of worldly vision and public opinion, thus protecting her perfectly.
of confidence and happiness.
Winning or losing does not matter.
A mother plays a crucial role in the growth of her child. It doesn't matter how high a mother's IQ is, nor how much material she can provide her child. What matters is that the mother will love her child's wisdom and intention!
The profession of mother has a long way to go, and it cannot be accomplished simply by relying on blood connections. On the long journey of accompanying the growth of children, mothers need to constantly learn, explore, and practice.
Mother's self-growth is a hot topic in family education right now.
In "Little Doudou by the Window", the person who occupies the most space is Mr. Kobayashi (Mousaku Kobayashi), the leader of "Ba Academy" and the soul of the book.