First, how to divide marriage and divorce? The bride price is the property given by one spouse to the other before marriage. It is essentially a gift, but it is different from the general free gift. It is a conditional gift, that is, a gift for the purpose of marriage. If the bride price received is personally accepted or purchased by one party, the property donated by one party during the existence of the relationship between husband and wife shall be the joint property of husband and wife without special agreement. Generally, it will not be returned, unless the man has difficulty in living as a bride price, and can return it as appropriate. The people's court shall support the request for the return of the bride price paid according to the custom if it is found that it belongs to the following circumstances: 1. Both parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; 2. Both parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities, but they have not lived together; 3. Paying before marriage and causing difficulties for the payer. Second, what principles should be followed in the division of divorce property? 1, the principle of gender equality. The principle of equality between men and women is not only embodied in various legal norms of marriage and family in the civil code, but also a guide for the people's courts to handle marriage and family cases. This principle is embodied in the division of divorce property, that is, husband and wife have the right to share the same property equally and bear the same debt equally; 2. The principle of taking care of the interests of children and women. The "care" here can not only give the woman extra points in the share of property, but also allocate the property that is particularly needed in a certain life, such as housing, to the woman in the type of property. After all, judging from the influence of habits, obstacles caused by traditional factors, women's housework burden and physiological characteristics, after divorce, women are weaker than men in finding jobs and making a living, and they need more help from society. 3, beneficial to life, the principle of convenient life. When divorce is divided, the utility, performance and economic value of the same property shall not be damaged. When dividing the means of production in the same property, it should be allocated to the party that needs the means of production and can give full play to its effectiveness as far as possible; When dividing * * * from the living materials in the property, we should try our best to meet the needs of individuals engaged in professional or professional work, so as to give full play to the use value of the property. To sum up, when young men and women get married, it is a folk tradition in China that the man gives the woman a bride price, and the standards of bride price vary from place to place. Usually, after the bride gets the bride price, she will buy some items or use them as a deposit. She later divorced, and the bride price will not be returned in full, but will be divided according to the joint property of husband and wife. That is to say, the man will not get back all the bride price money.