If you think that you are short of money in life and always want to pursue money, that is, you make yourself smaller and money keeps you down. We should learn to live in another realm, "I want to be bigger than money", and finally money will be willing to stay with us and make money.
This sentence was said by Mr. Jin Weichun. His book "There is only one thing in life" has brought me a lot of inspiration. I've read this book for 1 times, but I still don't feel bored. Every time I read it, I learn something different from it.
I think people are constantly practicing in this life. Including the ability to make money, it is also slowly practiced.
so how can you live more than money? To sum up in a word: it is to make yourself valuable and strong, and money is willing to be with you.
The result that money is willing to stay with us is obtained through slow practice. Because the display of value cannot be seen overnight.
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We are often caught in a dilemma. If we want to leave, there will be no right, and if we want to right, there will be no left. But I want to carry out the project on the left and the project on the right, but I can only choose one, so it is very difficult.
at this time, your position stays in the middle, trapped in this dilemma, and you can't get out. You are in your present position, and the way you think can't solve the problem, which will cause certain side effects.
However, if we improve ourselves, your lifeline will shift. You are no longer in the middle between left and right, and you will go up. In this position, if you look at the left and right projects again, you will find that you have the ability to do these two projects well. Even if you don't do those two projects, there are other more profitable projects waiting for you.
After the lifeline moves upward, the left and right are no longer Mao Dun bodies, but dispensable things, and its existence will not affect our future direction, because we have surpassed the left and right under our feet.
It's just like investing in financial management. Shareholders who just entered the market want to take this money and earn stable income by investing in bonds, and also want to gain short-term benefits by investing in high-risk stocks.
this is an impossible thing.
However, if you improve your cognitive level, make a little progress every day, master a knowledge of financial management every day, and the skills of research companies will continue to improve.
Then it will be no longer a problem for you to invest in individual stocks. You may even get excess returns by investing in individual stocks and share the dividends brought by those excellent companies.
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We always complain about why we can't make money, why our children don't listen, and why others don't respect us.
actually, the main reason lies in yourself. Change yourself, let your lifeline position rise a little higher, work harder than others, be more active than others, think more when things go wrong, and finally you will find yourself like a magnet.
Fan Deng once said that he never had to worry about his children's homework, and he wouldn't tell his children what to read today and what to do tomorrow.
Instead, as parents, do it first, love reading and thinking first, cultivate yourself into what you like, and the people around you will naturally become what you like.
Because parents are the biggest magnets for children, and the magnetic force is the strongest. Lead by example, better than any supervision and language education.
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Ask yourself what you want to be. Then in that direction, continue to create your own value, and you will find that the goal will be closer and closer to yourself.
like myself.
I like reading, investing and managing money, and writing.
In fact, I can't see any effect in the short term when I do this. Even at the beginning, friends and family members beat themselves up. Because for a long time, there is no income and no future.
when I started investing in wealth management in 218, I really couldn't stand it if I wasn't strong enough inside, because the market at that time fell more seriously than it is now. What you know most is that every day my account is short of money, and I haven't seen any profit in my account for a long time.
At that time, the only way to deal with it was to read more books and those long-term books, so as to improve your cognition and avoid thinking.
after the cognitive improvement, you will think in a different direction from ordinary people. When you see the stock market, it is not only ups and downs, but also intrinsic value. When you see people, you will no longer just pay attention to their face value and height, but more importantly, their values and cognitive level.
Therefore, improving yourself, practicing yourself more and making yourself valuable is the only way for your lifeline to rise.
I have always believed that a person's value is the greatest wealth.