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The sources of college students' love funds are as follows: 58% students said that the love funds mainly came from the usual living expenses, 26% students got the support of their parents, 16% people earned it by their own part-time jobs.
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It may still be bound by traditional ideas. Under normal circumstances, few girls pay the bill, but nearly half of them are willing to share the economic expenses with boys, regardless of AA system or taking turns to pay the bill. However, it is a bit embarrassing to haggle over every ounce in AA system. Taking turns to pay the bill may hurt the self-esteem of some boys at the moment when girls pay the bill. As a result, a more fashionable way of paying the bill came into being.
Li Dan (pseudonym) of Fudan University and her boyfriend set up a "love fund" to deposit their usual pocket money, part-time income and scholarships. This money is their property. When going out on a date, the boyfriend swipes the card to pay the bill, and the repayment amount comes from the mutual "love fund".
Xiao Dan said: "Students are not well-off economically, and men and women are equal. I don't want to see my boyfriend bravely draw his sword when paying the bill, but spend the rest of his life with instant noodles. In fact, both parties in love have the responsibility to bear the cost of love. We thought that whoever had money would pay the bill, but I think we should also take care of our boyfriend's face. In my opinion, "Love Fund" is a fair payment method.
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Teacher Hu Shensheng, a professor of sociology at Shanghai University, believes that there are too many uncertain factors in college students' love, and they love it today. Maybe they will break up in a few days, so AA system is the fairest and freest way of spending for student couples. "I
I don't support the consumption pattern of' Love Fund'. Love is not marriage. Putting money together may be the fuse of the dispute after breaking up. In love, we should still maintain economic independence. "
Associate Professor Ruihong Wang, majoring in social work at East China University of Science and Technology, supports that both men and women share the cost of love. He believes that men pay for the vanity of male chauvinism, women pay for the dignity of feminism, and men and women pay for equality between men and women. "Boys should never and can't buy back girls' true love by paying the bill. What girls buy back is not and cannot be the face of boys, but the indispensable self-love of girls. Only in real equality can pure love grow freely. Love is a great undertaking run by men and women. Boys should pay the bill, girls should pay the bill, of course.