In the TV series Psychiatrist, one of the cases that impressed me the most was a single mother who died of overwork.

Qin Hong, the protagonist of this case, is facing great economic and mental pressure because she is taking care of her children alone, and she has to bear the life of two people and the education fund of her children. Fortunately, the children are more sensible and can appropriately relieve Qin Hong's mental stress.

Whenever Qin Gong can't hold on, as long as he thinks of his children, he can grit his teeth and hold on. Because she had to support herself and her children, she had to work many jobs to earn money desperately, and finally she died from overwork, leaving her children alone.

In the eyes of many people, which is more important, money or life, is actually ridiculous. Of course, life is important. What's the use of money without life? But in the face of reality and poverty, money is as important as life, and sometimes some people even think that money is more important than life.

But in fact, we are clamoring that people whose lives are more important than money are consuming their own lives, just like Qin Hong in the play, exchanging their lives for money.

In fact, at any time, life is more important than money, which is an unquestionable problem. Everyone has experienced the sadness and helplessness of exchanging life for money, but at this time, we should live a good life and know how to live flexibly.

Please believe that as long as you don't die, you will definitely get ahead.

Please believe that fate will not treat everyone who lives seriously.

Why is mother the greatest person in the world when the world is harsh on women? Besides the mother's selfless love for her children, it is also because of the responsibilities and pressures that ordinary people can't imagine and understand.

On the one hand, we should worry about the healthy growth of children's body and mind, on the other hand, we should give consideration to family and career. If you don't do well in any aspect, it will have a bad chain reaction and make women lose their foothold in the family and society.

Why are more and more women unwilling to be full-time wives at home now? Because once a man betrays his marriage, it means that a woman who sacrifices her career for her family will eventually lose her family and have nothing.

Many people say that they can use legal weapons to protect their rights and interests, but many times stay-at-home mothers simply don't have the time, energy, financial resources and courage to compete with the person who has paid a lot for it.

Therefore, most women choose to take care of their families as much as possible without giving up their jobs. But once the child encounters any problems, the mother is always the first to be educated and criticized.

Let men participate in family building. Everyone is unique in this world. Everyone also has their own values and dreams, and most of them need to go to the society and be realized in their work. But family and career can't always be balanced, so men need to participate at this time.

The time when men were in charge outside and women were in charge inside has basically passed. Families are not alone, nor are children. More and more families are beginning to realize that the unequal efforts of families will eventually lead to problems, so now men are slowly participating in family construction.

There was a popular variety show "Men Do Housework" before, which let men participate in housework activities. In this program, we can see that Daxun Wei's father, who was once a straight steel man, began to understand his wife's sadness and difficulties, took the initiative to help her share the housework, and began to express his love to her at the right time.

Well-known celebrity couples, Jay Chou and Hannah Quinlivan are also the same. Everyone thinks that Hannah Quinlivan will be a full-time wife at home when she marries Tianwang. But this is not the case. Shortly after giving birth, Hannah Quinlivan returned to film. Many times, Jay Chou takes care of the children, and Jay Chou takes care of the children at night. The couple who have time will take care of the children.

Let men participate in family building, so that not only can both of them realize their own value at work, but also can enhance family feelings.

How can single mothers survive better? Back to the topic of single mothers in this play. If you were Qin Hong, what would you do?

In the eyes of Qin Gong's son, his mother keeps working like Superman, seemingly without rest, but in fact she is overdrawing her life, but what can she do if she doesn't work hard to raise her children?

Unload your strength; Many times, single mothers pretend to be strong because they are angry with their families and ex-husbands. But in fact, many times, the bad words of relatives often don't mean to hurt people. Many times, the starting point is for your own good. Giving priority to softness, showing weakness can make yourself and your children more relaxed.

Know how to ask for help; We live in a peaceful and beautiful era, and all kinds of welfare and policies have been basically improved. If a single mother really encounters difficulties, she can turn to the community and other units or some experienced people for help, and they will always give you some substantive suggestions on human nature.

Know how to be flexible and judge the situation; In fact, the best gift for children is companionship rather than material life. They don't think as far as adults, they value the present more.

Some single mothers try their best to make up for their children's lack of fatherly love and fear that their children will be wronged. But there is no need to tell children the truth and teach them to recognize the reality.

Of course, we should also tell our children that our current pain is only temporary, and work hard with our children to change the status quo. Sometimes children who feel that adults are suffering may not necessarily feel that being with adults is the happiest thing for children.

When we try to give our children a better life, we can't ignore the fact that children grow up only once and our own lives only once. Just do your best. Don't overdraw your life to do things that children don't care about at all.

Many times, TV plays often come from life. In fact, there have been many cases in which single mothers died of overwork in psychiatrists. Although the world is harsh on women, you can be gentle with yourself. May every mother be treated gently and every woman be what you want to be.