Now this society has a fast pace. Many people, like Xiao Pang, are impetuous. They want to learn everything immediately, and even want to make a profit immediately when investing.

Then, in the face of impetuous society and our impetuous heart, how should we deal with it?

Before discussing this issue, let's take a look at two short stories that happened around Xiao Pang.

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The so-called shortcut is not to admit that you are lazy.

Brother Long is Xiao Pang's former colleague. We have been together for two years. And he is young and promising, and he is good at seizing opportunities. At present, he and his friends have opened a small factory to manage development, and now his position is manager.

To be honest, Xiao Pang admires Brother Long. Last year, he worked in Jiangsu with a high salary, but when he heard a friend say that he would open a factory with him, he resolutely quit his original job and chose to join.

However, unlike the partnership we usually imagine, their partnership should be regarded as the contribution of friends and brothers. In addition to managing development affairs, Brother Long also serves as the general manager of Ouchi. Because the factory has just started, Brother Long will manage everything except finance.

Brother Long told me that because there was no money, he finally had a chance to turn over, and he wanted to give full play to all his abilities.

Two days ago, Brother Long suddenly found Xiao Pang and asked me if there was any good way to learn English quickly. Because their factory has developed for more than half a year, they received a bill from a foreign customer and needed to communicate with the customer by email in English.

Xiao pang thought for a long time and told him that there was no shortcut. If he really wants a quick way, he will buy a book in English mail and follow the format.

However, this is only the best way. Many times, if you don't have a certain vocabulary and grammar foundation, sending emails is not smooth, and sometimes even foreigners can't understand it.

Therefore, according to my conscience, Xiao Pang does not recommend this method.

In fact, English is not only the shortcoming of Brother Long, but also the shortcoming of most young people. We all know the importance of learning a language, but we have never settled down to study it seriously.

And more people, just like Brother Long, want to find some quick ways and get some results in a short time when they need it one day.

Ever since, in order to cater to everyone's needs, there are overwhelming advertisements: 5 minutes a day, understand CNN；; You can understand American TV dramas in 30 days without memorizing words; Learn English with formulas. Write tens of thousands of words with formulas. ...

Such advertisements are endless, and even moves are endless.

In fact, we all know that it is impossible, but when we really need it, we just want to go to the hospital and take these shortcuts.

In fact, there is no shortcut to learning, and it is more practical step by step.

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Investment is not speculation.

In September this year, colleague C saw Xiao Pang buying a fund, so he asked Xiao Pang for some fund knowledge, hoping Xiao Pang would recommend him a fund. He also wants to manage money.

Therefore, Xiao Pang recommended an index fund and told him some methods of fixed investment. Later, I was repeatedly told that although the fixed investment index fund is financial management, it will take about three years to get a return, and there will be no income in a short time, and even negative income may appear.

Colleague C nodded and agreed to start his own fund investment plan.

Then, it is the trough of 10. The big A-shares and the whole market are in a downturn, and they are all plummeting.

One day I asked him, are you still insisting on fixed investment? Colleague C told me that he had sold his fund.

Xiao Pang was very surprised. Now that the market is not good, it is a good time for him to increase his holdings. How can he sell it?

He only told me two reasons:

1, the money is too slow.

2. The risk is too high.

Xiao pang has nothing to say after listening. In fact, the fixed investment fund is regarded as the lowest risk financial management method, and even the risk is too high, so I can't help feeling very much.

In Xiao C's understanding, financial management means immediate results, and it is best to have obvious and considerable benefits within one month.

In fact, the above two stories are not a case. No matter in study, financial management and investment, many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, which is an impetuous performance.

It is precisely because of this that this society is also impetuous.

Then, in the face of such an impetuous society, how should we face it in order to calm down and learn something? Xiao pang recommends three methods:

1, change your thinking by reading.

To be honest, Xiao Pang used to be a person who didn't like reading. However, in the last three years, Xiao Pang has the habit of reading 1 hour every day.

Even since this month, I have adjusted my schedule and read books for 2 hours every night.

The benefits of reading books are really many. Not only can you calm your heart, but you can also learn some useful knowledge constantly.

If you read too many books, many things you didn't understand before, or your mentality, will change.

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2, running, exercise body and willpower

Running is something that can not only exercise your body, but also exercise your willpower, so that you can stick to it and calm down.

Every time Xiao Pang runs 10 km, it takes about 1 hour for a * *. In this hour, besides listening to English, his brain will calmly analyze whether there are any mistakes in his work, life and study in recent days and how to improve them.

Only in this way can we constantly reflect on ourselves and realize our many shortcomings, and then we can calm down and think of ways.

The best solution is the reading mentioned in 1.

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3. Associate with excellent people and increase your knowledge.

The people you contact will affect your way of thinking. A long time ago, Xiao Pang came into contact with a group of people who worked overtime every day and complained desperately, complaining that God was unfair, life was not easy, wages were too low and so on.

Over time, Xiao Pang was also deeply affected. Do you think your life is over?

Later, after Xiao Pang got in touch with some bosses and customers, his ideas changed a lot. He is no longer confined to the predicament in a short time, but will slowly think about his future career development and a route of his own.

Thinking determines your height, and the pattern determines how far you can go.

In fact, there are many trivial things in life that make us complain. That makes us want to change quickly in some ways.

This is a good thing, at least we realize our own shortcomings, but the method is useless.

Haste makes waste, which is a famous saying passed down by the ancients for thousands of years. What we have to do is to find our own shortcomings, gradually improve through continuous learning, and gradually achieve better ourselves.

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Wonderful review of the past

After ten years of grinding a sword, the salted fish will eventually turn over.

Teach yourself English for 2 years and share dry goods all the way.

? At the age of 20, you are confused. At the age of 30, you have three tricks to teach you to deal with it easily.

? The sideline income has exceeded 10,000 in 4 months, and the gorgeous transformation of zero foundation and zero contacts.