Ms. Tu believes that the awakening of teenagers' sexual consciousness and the germination of emotions also need parents and caring people to guide them with healthy values and social skills. The reckless and chaotic sexual experiences of teenagers have caused more and more tragedies. In view of the transmutation period of social transformation, the distortion of some values has spread to teenagers' sexual concepts. It is necessary to set up a website to tell teenagers that they can pursue their dreams wholeheartedly and avoid the harm caused by improper sex before marriage. She hopes to pass? Elegant chastity network? Share chastity experience, cultivate teenagers' healthy sexual concept, curb the strong spread of immoral sexual relations, and purify the spirit of God.
Shortly after this incident, Zhejiang University opened the "College of Education" for three days? Premarital chastity? Training class. After the two incidents were fermented by the media, they immediately caused extensive discussions on the Internet. ? Premarital chastity? , silly naive VS appropriate.
Many people seriously questioned Chastity Education's behavior before marriage. They believe that advocating chastity before marriage is to make teenagers pay attention to safety and be more cautious in sexual behavior, which is actually of positive significance. But is this the case? Elegant chastity network? , or before Zhejiang University? Premarital chastity class? , are one-sided sex education. The announcement on Yapin Chastity Online reads:? Only by finding a virgin can a man give birth to a truly genetically pure child. On the first night of a virgin, a man's sperm enters the body and autolysis occurs. The children of women and husbands may be like men's first night in the future. ? A lot of chastity education before marriage is even more important. Premarital sex? And then what? Sexually * * pregnant sexually transmitted diseases? Together, it is totally threatening education.
Fang Gang, a sexologist, once summed up three characteristics of threatening education: First, only talking about negative information about sex will make people sick. Some videos are full of threats of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. Second, exaggerate negative information about sex. It seems that as long as there is premarital sex, there must be tragedy. There are even individual cases that 80% of people who have premarital sex will get divorced after marriage. Third, stealing the concept of premarital sex. Facts have proved that if two people love each other, premarital sex can be very safe. In the concept of STD and AIDS threat, premarital sex seems to be? * *? Sexual partner, high risk.
Sex education has always been an embarrassing existence in China. Many teenagers can't get sexual information from formal channels, but rely on the internet, pornography or some books to get sexual knowledge, which is not conducive to their correct understanding of sex. However, blindly emphasizing chastity and threatening education before marriage are not conducive to cultivating correct sexual concepts. The focus of sex education is not chastity, but correct treatment? Sex? . Shouldn't it be one kind? Sex taboo education? On the premise of paying full attention to social order, we should pay attention to the sexual rights of every member of society.
What should we focus on to truly protect the sexual safety of teenagers? Treat sex responsibly. Do a good job of contraception? 、? Sexual principles that emphasize self-esteem and self-love? Wait up there. The sexual principle of self-esteem and self-love is not chastity, but: 1. When you don't like it, don't make love to please each other; 2, don't make love in a way that may hurt yourself. Some people say that premarital sex will do harm to women, but it is actually a confusing concept. Unsafe sex will do harm to women, and it has little to do with marriage.
However, Chastity Education's supporters before marriage said that they could not understand this view.
These people think it is very important to teach students correct physiological knowledge, but knowledge imparting and ideological education are two different things after all. It cannot and will never replace living and effective ideological guidance and theoretical indoctrination. Just as intellectual education cannot be equal to or substitute for moral education and physical education, both of them have their own value implications and goal orientations, which complement each other and are indispensable.
Virtue comes first. Scientific sexual health education should and must be emphasized? Chastity Education? Especially in today's lack of sex education and frequent cases of sexual assault. We should be soberly aware? Chastity Education? As a moral education, we must? First of all? It is. Otherwise, adolescent sexual health education is not only incomplete, but also impossible? Science? . To say the least, even if teenagers have mastered the correct physiological knowledge, what if they ignore it? Chastity? Education leads to incorrect and unhealthy sexual attitudes, so there will still be incorrect sexual behavior.
Chastity Education abroad.
Europe and America have always attached great importance to sex education for teenagers.
In the United States, most scientific groups support comprehensive education or safety education, and the World Health Organization and UNAIDS support safety education, including promoting the use of condoms. Abstinence-only education before marriage is not a scientific education project, but an education project based on some religious teachings. Most American organizations that support this project are church organizations. In democratic countries, political choices are influenced by public opinion and ideology. The United States is a country with strong Christian conservatism, and its national policies are often influenced by religious conservatism.
Although there is not enough research to prove the effectiveness of such programs, the federal government has been providing financial support for premarital abstinence programs since Reagan took office. Since 1996, the funds received by such unconfirmed projects have soared. From 1996 to 2007, the federal government allocated nearly1700 million dollars to premarital abstinence programs through different funding channels. From June 5438 to October 2003, Bush announced the President's Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), and promised to provide 15 African and Caribbean countries and Vietnam with1500 million US dollars in aid, of which13 was used for AIDS prevention./kloc-0.
Fortunately, Americans with different opinions are not opposed to using scientific methods to study and evaluate the effect of sex education, and advocate using data to support the choice of strategies. Public opinion is influenced by scientific data. Although the Obama administration stopped the government's plan to invest heavily in promoting Chastity Education after it took office, Chastity Education activities promoted by various non-governmental organizations and individuals are still quite active.
In northern Europe, teenagers start having sex early and have many sexual partners, but their teenage pregnancy rate and sexually transmitted diseases infection rate are the lowest in the world. The reason is that their sex education began in kindergarten, and teenagers have mastered enough sexual knowledge to solve their sexual impulses and minimize the harm. A Danish teacher who is engaged in sex education in middle schools said that in 1995, the Danish Ministry of Education decided to offer sex education courses in normal colleges, and later extended the scope to high schools, with remarkable results. The fertility rate and abortion rate of 15 and 19-year-old women have dropped sharply, and Danish teenagers have almost no AIDS due to sex, and few people have sexually transmitted diseases. This confirms the findings of the World Health Organization in several countries: proper sex education will not lead to premature sex, but will delay sex or make sex safer.
The situation in Hongkong and Taiwan Province Province is similar. 2011May, released by the Hong Kong authorities? Moral character and national quality? There are many contents of chastity education in the draft of the relevant curriculum outline. In recent years, some legislators in Taiwan Province Province have proposed amendments? Eugenic health care law? , requirements? Junior high school? The school provides at least four hours of sex education courses from chastity to marriage every academic year. Although these measures promoted by the government have caused a lot of controversy, people generally accept the chastity education efforts of civil society and recognize its normative significance to morality.