"Zengguang Xianwen" says: "All kinds of evils are sexual immorality, and all kinds of good deeds are filial piety." The word "sexuality" here means excessive, excessive, and uncontrolled.
It means: among all kinds of sins, indulgence should be the first, and among all kinds of behaviors, filial piety should be the first.
When a person walks in the world of mortals, he must have a good grasp of what he does and what he does.
Don't be greedy and reap the consequences.
In real life, people who have been "promiscuous" have these three characteristics, so you must stay away from them when you meet them.
01 People who are not filial to their parents "filial piety comes first". Parents are our roots. If the roots are not stable, the branches and leaves above will wither.
"Filial piety begins with the body, hair, and skin you receive from your parents. Don't dare to damage them." Being filial to your parents also includes being kind to yourself. Don't be obsessed with thinking about things and go to extremes selfishly.
"Father is heaven and mother is earth." Our lives are inseparable from heaven and earth.
Our parents gave us everything they had.
"The thread in the hands of a loving mother is like the clothes on a wanderer's body. The clothes are sewn tightly before leaving, for fear of returning later. Whoever speaks from the heart of an inch of grass will be rewarded with three spring splendors." - Meng Jiao's loving mother sews the clothes closely for her son who is traveling far away.
Worried about my son coming back late.
Who dares to say that children's filial piety, as weak as grass, can repay the kindness of Chunhui Puze?
Honoring parents is also a kind of inheritance and accumulates blessings for oneself.
All the hard work comes back to you in the end.
Just like the old saying: "Filial piety will beget filial sons, and disobedience will beget disobedient sons." Only by honoring your parents and fertilizing and watering the roots can the branches and leaves flourish.
Practicing filial piety is actually fertilizing ourselves so that we can grow up healthily and happily.
Filial piety is the foundation of life.
My parents gave birth to me and raised me. A person who is not filial to his parents has forgotten his roots.
If your parents don't love you, how can you love others?
You must stay away from such people.
02 ? People who are ungrateful "should repay a drop of kindness from others with a spring of water." People who are ungrateful are more terrifying than wolves.
He will repay kindness with evil, and he will add insult to injury.
I helped him 99 times, and once I didn't help him, I turned against him.
As the saying goes: After one meal, there will be love; after ten meals, there will be hatred.
People who don't know how to be grateful will never be satisfied.
People who are not grateful are jealous and selfish.
Cao Cao mistakenly killed the family of Lu Boxe (Lü Boxe wanted to kill pigs and buy wine to entertain Cao Cao). He knew clearly that he was wrong, so he made more mistakes and said: "I would rather let the world down than let the world down me."
We are grateful to our parents, our teachers, our friends, the sunshine and rain, the wind, rain and lightning... We are grateful to everyone who has helped us grow.
If you encounter someone who is ungrateful, you must stay away as soon as possible to avoid letting the stories of "Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf" and "The Farmer and the Snake" repeat themselves.
? 03 Complaints from unreasonable people are a poison and extremely contagious.
A person who is full of complaints and complaints will never have anything satisfactory in his heart.
It rains and the clothes get wet; the sun burns the skin; the wind blows and the hair is messed up; the thunder shakes the ears... He can always find reasons to complain about everything, and it seems that everything is difficult for him.
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Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu, wanted to cross the Wu River.
The head of the Wujiang Pavilion waited for him to board the boat, and said: Although Jiangdong is small, it is thousands of miles away, and there are hundreds of thousands of people, which is enough for a king.
May the king cross quickly... But Xiang Yu blamed heaven and man: God wants to destroy me, why should I cross?
Finally committed suicide.
Many poets in later generations lamented: Jiangdong's disciples were so talented that it was unknown whether they would make a comeback.
I still miss Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong.
Xiang Yu didn't expect to make a comeback; he didn't expect that if he kept the green hills, he wouldn't be afraid of running out of firewood.
Finally died complaining.
There is such a story: A boatman was delivering goods to others, and suddenly he found a small boat speeding toward him on the river.
Seeing that they were about to hit each other, he yelled: "Get out of the way, get out of the way, you idiot." But it was completely useless, and they still hit each other.
He scolded, "You don't know how to drive a boat? You hit my boat on such a wide river." But he was surprised. There was no one in the boat.
Many times, our complaints are not helpful at all and hurt others and ourselves.
Once, we were riding a bus going straight, and the car on the side did not turn the corner. The young man blocked the bus, pulled the old driver off, and beat him on the road.
People in a car had to move to the next one. It was fine, so they just gave way, and they had to be picky about the brittle bones.
If you encounter such a person, be sure to stay away.
Otherwise, there will be endless troubles.