Try to manage the present,

until the future is clear.

Now we have really entered a stage of accelerated development of the Internet. Tik Tok has become a tool for everyone to record a better life. Some people are looking for themselves on it, while others are trying to become others.

After watching Tik Tok for a long time, I really found that there is no word "easy" in adult life.

Before I left school, I always envied people whose monthly salary was relaxed by tens of thousands, and also envied those who started their own businesses at school early, but the glamour in front of us always stimulated our weak nerves.

It wasn't until after graduation that I came into contact with more people that I found out that what easily earned tens of thousands of dollars a month was all my own hard work.

everyone works hard for money, and no one's money is easy.

why is our ability to earn money now much worse than before, or is it getting harder and harder?

In this fast-paced era, we are always busy, immersed in busy work every day, day after day, year after year, and unconsciously fell into "time poverty".

I got up at 7: am on time and hurried. From cleaning up to going out, I commuted for two hours and got off work at 22: in the evening for a week.

Every time I get home, I look lazy and don't want to move. I feel so bored when I look at the messy room that I don't have time to tidy it up, let alone reading, exercising and socializing.

The weekend is "lying dead" at home, and the last step is repeated again and again from the opening to the end of eyes.

I'm really tired, not only physically, but also mentally. I feel that life is getting more and more boring. Looking up, I can see my life in the next few decades. Are you the same?

It is precisely because of the disorder of life that the busy life makes me lack an upward passion and the courage to extend my ability.

losing control begins with losing yourself.

I don't know if everyone has seen the news that some time ago, poor graduates fell in love with their parents and cried.

Some people say that he has poor endurance, some people think that he is afraid, some people think that he has failed to cultivate for so many years, and some people think that his books have been read for nothing.

and I want to say that this is actually a reaction to exceeding one's limit.

It's like some people can't stand the emotional tension and can't bear the blow. They will collapse because of unemployment, poverty and rumors.

in the final analysis, whether it collapses or not actually has a lot to do with whether we can resist things.

During the epidemic in Chengdu, there was also a programmer who jumped off a building because of a dispute with the company.

in my opinion, I am particularly afraid of death. Nothing is as important as life, but the other person has entrusted his life.

I have read a story before: A student from Lakeside University asked Cai Chongxin, the only permanent partner of Alibaba (the other was Ma Yun): What was the most sad thing for you in the past years?

You may not feel anything when you listen to it for the first time, but most people who feel terrible after careful consideration are emotionally stable and able to resist things.

If you want to change your life, you should control your emotions and be an adult who can resist things.

being able to resist things and pressure is simple to say, but actually it is a lifelong thing to do.

Let's share with you some suggestions for "getting stronger" (ps: Although I haven't gotten stronger yet, I insist on looking forward)

1. Keep a normal mind in the face of everything that happens around me, just treat everything as a problem of life, but some problems are simple, and some problems are difficult to take more thought.

if you can make a good plan with the process, you can make it step by step, and if it is very difficult, you can stress it.

In the past, normal mind was just a slogan, but now normal mind only makes you change a perspective of looking at problems.

2. Many sources of anxiety actually come from our "fear" and uncertainty about the unknown.

then what we need to do is to turn this visible fear into a driving force, which can drive us to keep moving forward.

Only by constantly keeping up with excellent people can you be good enough to face all your fears in the future.

3. If you are in pain at the moment, you can try to jump out and look at yourself from God's perspective, and lengthen the whole life time, then what magical sight will happen to you?

In fact, if you lengthen the time, you will find that people's life is actually very long. You will find that nothing can be decided with a hammer except life and death.

Today's story has come to an end for the time being, and the Q&A begins! ! !

So, recall your past experience. When did you feel that you were particularly resistant to things? Leave your story in the comments section ~

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