Help him also depends on different people! If he is diligent, but in the wrong direction, you can guide and help him. If he feels good about himself, he seems too worried!
Each has its own way. Your brother didn't borrow it from you because he couldn't come up with 5 thousand.
There are ways to have money, but there are no ways to have no money. As long as children can grow up healthily.
In addition, you may not know what your brother's family income is and how much he spends every month. If you think your brother earns less and you have the ability, you can help him find a job that earns more.
If he is not motivated, it's no use getting angry with him in a hurry. There is a bad saying, but it is true, mud and sand can't help the wall. In this case, if you can, help him raise and grow up his child, and the child will repay you later. If there are no conditions, then give up.
Only when you are full can you help others.
Never mind, let it go.
If your financial conditions are ok and your family, especially your spouse, have no objection, you can help your brother as follows:
Step 1: lend your brother 1 0,000 yuan and give him a hand.
Step 2: Try to give him vocational training as soon as possible, so that he can find a job that can earn a living and support his family as soon as possible.
Step 3: Give appropriate support to their family life according to the situation.
Step 4: Be sure to help him help his two children establish a correct outlook on life.
Of course, the above suggestions are based on your brother's ability and willingness to work, otherwise, you have to help him apply for relevant relief channels.
Relatives, especially adult brothers and sisters, pay attention to "helping the poor." Even if you help, you should try your best to practice the truth that it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. Of course, the situation of each family is very different, and it must be combined with the collective situation. However, the above points are generally applicable to people with poor economic conditions. There are only two kinds of normal people in the world: one is active and independent normal adults, and the other is mentally or physically lazy and economically dependent normal adults. Especially psychological inertia, if the problem of psychological inertia can be solved, then the latter, that is, adults who are not economically independent, still have hope to stand on their own feet.
I hope I can help you.
Think about what skills you have, and you'd better make good use of your special skills to make money. As long as you can endure hardships in this society, there will always be rewards. Don't be defeated by the status quo, believe in yourself and you will definitely make money.
It's better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. Teach your brother more. As long as you are not a severely disabled person in this society, I believe everyone will not worry about life. Even if you don't have a business mind, you can take advantage of your youth and do manual labor to support your family.
It's normal for me not to get the money. I charge at school. Most parents are rich. Usually driving a Mercedes-Benz BMW or something, many of them can't get it when collecting tuition fees. Many of them must get a few days' grace.
The economy is developing too fast now. Finance and money are valuable only when they are in circulation. Nowadays, many people's money is divided into fixed assets and current assets. The real rich, their assets are liquid, creating value in the flow, and few rich people will let their money lie there to generate interest.
Earning interest is the stupidest behavior. Of course, most people have no investment projects and knowledge, so they can only passively choose to deposit them in the bank. There are many such people. After all, everyone has their own way.
Since your brother has two children, people naturally have their own connections, so you don't have to worry about it. As for not being able to come up with 5000 yuan, it's just a superficial phenomenon. Maybe people have millions of running water a month, which is normal.
There are many such people now. I grew up alone. Basically, in the first half of every year, I am extremely poor. I eat and rub my car everywhere, sometimes I smoke, sometimes my car is gone. But in the second half of each year, the scenery is beautiful and people are invited to eat everywhere. Every day Hanako never leaves his hand, asking him what he does and saying that we don't understand.
It's the same with my family. Some money is used to buy funds, some money to buy insurance, and some money to buy gold. We'll take thousands of dollars for a while, and we can't take them out, but you can tell me to wait for a day or two.
The economy is too fast to help. The era of earning interest is over. If you want money to run through inflation, you have to think of other ways, otherwise the money will be saved in vain.
It depends on him. In fact, on the way to raising children, 5,000 yuan can raise two children, and 500 yuan can also raise two children, and 50,000 yuan can also raise them, depending on how to raise them, so every family has its own way of life.
You should care more about your brother fishing for him than for him. Let him slowly raise his income and raise his children better.
My husband is now 32 years old and poorer than your brother. He can't come up with a thousand dollars.
You'll ask him not to do anything. He has been doing things.
Where did all his money go? His money supports two children and his parents.
His parents do nothing, his children go to primary school in the county, and everything in the family needs money to buy.
At the beginning, I took care of my children alone for seven or eight years, and he raised the three of us.
Later, his father resigned and raised four. This year, his mother also quit her job and raised five.
His parents never use their savings, but they all want us to pay for living expenses. Although it is right, his salary is very unstable. Even gave him 600 yuan for two months.
I have been working for more than five months this year, and my family's money has basically been spent.
Wages in county towns are very low. I earn more than two thousand points a month, and I can only live on it, sometimes it's not enough.
My husband's salary is almost the same as mine, and two people add up to just enough to live.
The Chinese New Year is coming, and he hasn't saved a dime. He can't even get paid. His boss said he had no money to pay his salary, and he would pay it at the end of the year.
He also agreed, he is a fool, where he works, he is the only one who asks the boss to pay his salary, and the boss won't even pay him a month's salary. I don't know what he is insisting on.
Maybe I think there is no better job outside that place! He is afraid to leave.
Sometimes life is powerless, even if you don't want to.
I am 33 years old and have worked for ten years. I have no savings of 5,000 yuan, and I owe 600,000 to 700,000 yuan. I still have children to support. I earn more than 50 thousand a year, and I don't even ask for food and clothing. How could I be so incompetent?