Classmate Wang stabbed Zhou's neck with a fruit knife, and Zhou fell straight to the ground and waited for a while.
According to the victim's classmates, Zhou is a beautiful and gentle girl who studies well. Wang seems to have had a relationship with her, but she has broken up, and his motives are unknown.
Haven't recovered from the shock, after the college entrance examination on the afternoon of the 8th, another murder happened in a middle school in Hengshui:
Yuan, a student of this school, stabbed his classmate Ye. Although Yemou was immediately taken to the hospital for rescue, he eventually died.
Two lives that are about to open a bright future come to an abrupt end at the starting point.
On the last day of the college entrance examination, there was a fierce collision between intellectual education and humanity education.
There are still many opportunities to come back after failing in the college entrance examination; But if human nature degenerates, I'm afraid it's an irreparable regret.
When Wang He and Yuan stabbed their classmates to death with a sharp knife, their awe, pity and pity for life all retreated, and the darkest and most cruel part of human nature burst out.
Bai once said: "Education is not to make people' better', but to suppress negative desires in human nature, promote good and discard evil."
If human nature education is in place, the beast in my heart may be imprisoned in the cage of rules and conscience, and tragedy may not happen.
Education without humanity is an accomplice of evil.
Not long ago, a news made people feel heavy: Wu, a graduate of Peking University who killed his mother and hid her body, was arrested at Chongqing airport.
Three years ago, after Wu killed his mother Xie, he used 100 plastic film to hide the body at home and defrauded relatives and friends of millions of yuan in the name of his mother.
In the eyes of outsiders, Wu is perfect: no matter his grades, personality or physique, there are no flaws.
But this is precisely the most puzzling. Human nature is never perfect. The so-called perfection often hides many loopholes behind it.
After Wu lost his father, he lived alone with his mother Xie at the age of 16.
Xie is a very self-respecting person. Since her husband died, she has repeatedly refused outside help and planned her son's future more strictly.
Under her control, her son entered Peking University and got a scholarship every year. His GRE score ranks among the top 5% in the world, and his body is as strong as a stone.
High-pressure training makes him have super will and intelligence, and also deprives him of his fragility and defects as a real person.
Wu once said that he was "very tired" and could only be relieved by running in circles; 20 13, always sunny, he even revealed to his friends that he wanted to commit suicide.
He has no outlet to release the hidden desires and sins in human nature, and finally goes to imbalance:
After killing his mother, he took more than one million yuan to enjoy the pleasure of profligacy; He has no sexual experience, lives with a young lady and makes a sex video; Work as a waitress in a bar full of money and money. ...
Wu's depravity is a tragedy of the lack of human nature education, and it is also a tragedy repeated countless times;
199 1 year, Lu Gang, a doctor of physics at the university of Iowa, shot and killed six tutors and classmates, and then shot himself.
In 2004, the bodies of four students were found in the locker of high flyers Ma Jiajue, a life science major;
20 13 Lin Senhao, a medical student at Fudan University, put poisonous water in her roommate's cup on April Fool's Day;
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Professor Li Meijin from the People's Public Security University of China said: "Although some criminals with high academic qualifications study the background of life science, they don't understand the meaning of life. Often after killing someone, I repent, and the meaning of life lies in' true feelings'. "
How can a person who doesn't understand the true feelings and humanity respect other people's lives and care about how many families there are behind everyone?
The word "true feelings" is the answer they got at the cost of human life, and it is the most difficult subject to overcome in their lives.
A shining degree is a proof of intellectual success. But if education only pays attention to intelligence and ignores human nature, then knowledge will become a cold accomplice.
Education without humanity is a hotbed of tragedy.
The Korean drama City in the Sky tells the story of "education that destroys humanity destroys family".
In order to keep the honor of the upper class, four elite families "flogged" their children into famous schools in an almost squeezing way.
The child's talent shows boredom and resistance to the tutoring team hired with heavy money. What the female tutor said made people feel cold behind their backs:
In the end, the gifted scholar was admitted to the medical university with hatred for his family, and left home angrily when the whole family was immersed in joy.
Desperate mother frantically searched barefoot in the snow for her son, and finally collapsed and shot herself.
A seemingly perfect family, but in the end, the mother died in the snow, the father resigned in frustration, and the son's whereabouts were unknown.
The only warmth and love left by talented people to their parents disappeared under the cruel and inhuman "education" of female tutors, and there was only hatred and accusation in their hearts.
Although he has made outstanding achievements, he is not a complete "person" and has lost the most precious parts of human nature: gratitude, filial piety, compassion and right and wrong. ...
Being admitted to Seoul Medical University, which the whole family dreamed of, became the beginning of the family's demise.
If you only focus on your grades, your child's inhuman education will "reward" your parents sooner or later.
"History as a Mirror" said:
Germany is a fool, Germany is a gentleman, and Germany is a villain. Whoever takes the skill of others should not be a saint or a gentleman; Better be a fool than a villain.
In Sima Guang's eyes, if a person is talented but morally unworthy of his position, then he is the most worthy of vigilance. Such a person is not as good as a fool.
Unfortunately, once they enter school, parents and teachers seem to attach importance to "cultivating talents" and despise "cultivating morality".
A headmaster who survived in Auschwitz once wrote to all the teachers and made a request:
Dear teacher:
Your efforts should not produce knowledgeable monsters, versatile perverts or educated butchers.
I always believe that children are human beings and the ability to read, write and calculate is valuable.
Education is to make people civilized and intelligent and promote happiness, not vicious and paranoid; Education is to make people do good and stop committing crimes, not to do evil and harm others.
Lack of humanity brings manipulation and manufacturing, which is by no means real education.
Humanistic education can turn tragedy into strength.
More than ten years ago, a family of four Germans, Pu Fang, was killed in Nanjing. The killers were four unemployed youths in northern Jiangsu, and the youngest was only 18 years old.
But the relatives of the victims made a shocking decision: they asked the court not to sentence the four teenagers to death.
Not only that, local Germans and foreigners in Nanjing also set up a "Pufang Fund" to finance the education of poor children in northern Jiangsu. They think it is more important to avoid more tragedies through education than to execute the murderer.
Pu Fang uses the warmth tragedy of human nature as his strength to illuminate the future of more children with the brilliance of human nature. This is the result of Germany's emphasis on human nature education:
When most Germans just learn to walk, parents will deliberately let their children feed their own dogs, kittens and other animals, and learn to take care of the weak and weak.
The school will even let students take turns to look after and raise small animals and observe and record the life development process;
Children are very keen to "adopt" zoo animals with pocket money and donate money to save endangered species. ...
On the contrary, once there is cruelty to animals, criticism and discipline are light and compulsory psychotherapy is heavy.
Germans believe that children who enjoy abusing their lives since childhood are likely to become violent when they grow up.
Germany's human nature education is also implemented in the equal treatment of life. There is such a story:
A boy in Frankfurt rudely drove away the tramp who came to beg, and the whole family actually held a family meeting for this matter.
Adults tell children seriously and patiently: beggars are ragged and poor, but all lives have the same dignity.
Inspired and encouraged, the children offered to invite beggars to their home, and the whole family was very supportive.
Germans are never afraid to make a mountain out of a molehill about human nature education.
Germany can rise rapidly from the great defeat of World War II and become a world-famous power. In addition to diligent and rigorous academic attitude, it has contributed to attaching importance to human nature and reshaping civilization.
Human nature education is the kindling that illuminates the darkness, the core competitiveness of people and the compulsory course for parents.
Parents become people first.
Someone made an inappropriate analogy. If parents are originals, then children are replicas. The way parents get along with the world determines the way children get along with the world.
Family education book "Born Not This" holds that children's character and behavior are almost shaped by their parents' acquired education.
If parents are ruthless, selfish and jealous, how can they ask their children to be tolerant, kind and broad-minded?
Really respect and understand children and refuse superficiality.
Parents often take "for your own good" as the reason to love their children. In fact, these three words are the greatest superficial kung fu.
Encourage children to express their true emotions and reasons for "protest". Say more: "I know you are sad/wronged/happy now …" instead of saying: "I did it for your own good/how can you think that/I didn't do it for you …".
Parents should really understand what their children say, even what they don't say, and don't impose their wishes on others. Simple and rude parents are bound to raise simple and rude children.
Let children become people with temperature.
Writer Liu Yong said: "When parents bring their children to this strange world, they have the obligation to hug, kiss and talk with him more, so that the children feel that the world welcomes them. A child who is treated well will not be indifferent to others. "
Take more children to participate in group activities, guide children to solve interpersonal contradictions and conflicts in various situations, get rid of self-centeredness, and cultivate "* * * affection", healthy attitude towards life and social skills.
Peter Buffett, the son of Warren Buffett, is an excellent musician.
He said: "Books and schools may be tools of education, but they are by no means the essence of education. The essence of education is the understanding of human nature. "
Don't treat children as containers of knowledge, let them become "human" people. Compared with letting children learn knowledge, it is more important to cultivate TA's "humanity" and cultivate TA's goodwill and sympathy for this imperfect world.
Don't treat children as test machines, give TA enough love, trust and freedom, so that TA will have the same love and trust to be a human being.
May every child be treated gently from childhood, and may every child be treated gently to others and the world when he grows up.
I am an educator, Qing Lanjun, who is concerned about family education and children's learning. If you like my article, please forward it or collect it. The blue parent area, a gathering place for parents of millions of primary and secondary school students, makes education more scientific and relaxed. Original reprint, please contact.