The last issue was written in Teresa Bao, and this issue is written in Gambi. This Mrs. Liu, who passed away in Teresa Bao for several years, was recognized by Da Liu.
If there is a mother who often says to her two children, "You are ordinary people, nothing special. Just because your father is famous, outsiders want to know about him, so they shoot you."
what do you associate with it? Is a good wife of a star? Or some low-key royal wife?
then if she is not beautiful, she will be a noble lady with both talent and learning.
But the person who said this sentence, among her former "strong rivals", there are many peerless beauties like Michele Monique Reis and Rosamund Kwan, and there is no shortage of celebrity lawyer Wang Yingxuan and Dr. Lv Lijun studying in Britain.
She is Chen Kaiyun, the second wife of a generation of romantic real estate tycoon Liu Luanxiong, nicknamed Gamby. Fu Xiao has been a small boy for more than ten years, and has become a celebrity businessman. She has become the richest woman in Hong Kong because of the tens of billions of property donated by her husband Liu Luanxiong.
Gamby's story can't be copied. Many people like to attribute her superior position to her forbearance. I'm afraid it's too small to look down on the threshold of the giants.
her self-determination and firmness are beyond the reach of ordinary people.
With a stroke of a pen, Liu Luanxiong placed tens of billions of assets under Gambi's name and became the richest woman in Hong Kong overnight. Gambi, who was less than forty years old, had to eat and wear for the rest of his life.
When attending various occasions, she is no longer the little follower, but is sought after and praised by the spotlight. Vanity Fair is such a reality.
Compared with Lv Lijun, Gambi was born in poverty, so it is not too miserable. Her father kicked her and her mother out of the house when she was a child, and her childhood was wandering. The harm to her mother and herself can't be calmed down. Gamby doesn't hate it?
The media fanned the flames, and the biological father thought that she could be forced and squeezed by the power of public opinion, thinking that she could be beaten by crying and selling badly, just like Fan Shengmei. Can't Gambi see that?
Lv Lijun often uses "big-character poster" language to unite the media to run on her and attack her, but she can't hear?
Born in Entertainment, she knows the way of the world better. But has she ever held a press conference and argued?
She just kept silent, just like a silent lion, waiting to see what happens.
her goal is not to please any outside voice, but the goal she has in mind.
This biological father is also funny. He didn't fulfill any parenting responsibilities, and he wanted to go back and suck blood, but his daughter was kicked out by himself?
what about Lv Lijun? I'm afraid I'll be bound to be Gambi's "underdog" in my life if I try my best to set up an "independent woman".
Gambi, a bag is worth enough for the father to eat for several years now.
the problem is that she won't give it.
this is her rule and principle, and she will not be held hostage by any external voice, even her own father, even if she is accused by a thousand people.
Liu is impressed by Gambi's calm and firm style, clear-cut ferocity and courage, smooth communication means and kindness to his family and children. That's why I chose her as the heir of my wealth. In the face of big winds and waves, so do people who are not easily happy.
Obviously, Liu is very satisfied with his choice.
It is too one-sided to use "a good wife and a good mother" to position Gambi.
Gambi stayed with Liu for more than ten years and eventually became Liu Luanxiong's justified wife.
many people think, superior, why?
Please note, however, that Gamby is not the most outstanding in terms of appearance or education in Liu Luanxiong's erotic range. There are many women who are willing to have children for wealthy businessmen, even without birthright (see Wu Peici).
Especially in the battle with her "competitor" Lv Lijun, she kept silent and sat tight, and there was quite a shadow of "Sima Yi replaced Cao Shi and his son, dragging Zhuge Liang to death" in the allusions of the Three Kingdoms.
1. Role distribution under the color of male chauvinism
To put it bluntly, it is better to be the lover or girlfriend of a rich man like Liu, but the relationship between subject and object has been decided.
Zuowei Liu is the provider of material wealth, while the woman is the provider of normal men's and women's needs and emotional value. There is a potential "contract" relationship in it.
Although Liu is a playboy, he is a little male chauvinist. However, Liu is generous to women and willing to cultivate intelligent women, which is indeed more ambitious than those rich people who only know romantic things.
For example, Michele Monique Reis learned a lot about home ownership during her talk with Liu, and Liu invited a teacher to learn a foreign language for her. Lv Lijun also went to Britain to study for a Ph.D. with the support of Liu, and set up a foundation to help her become a director of Peking University and University of Foreign Trade and a member of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference.
Liu's efforts to cultivate women around him will help to narrow the gap between each other's pattern and vision and better match each other.
For Liu, investing in women is a commercial activity (refer to the one incident, where his commercial building was hyped up, and those who simply thought that they just professed Michele Monique Reis were too young to be too simple), and there was also a kind of "mutual achievement" in their career, which was mutually beneficial.
and what does Liu need?
In addition to the superficial need for face, worship, loyalty, and scattered leaves.
as a businessman, Liu needs loyal and stable partners to maximize his interests and develop his career together.
Let's take a look at Gambi's predecessors. Female stars generally love beauty and are not single-minded, and they don't want to get pregnant easily.
Although Wang Ying-fung is a barrister, she spends a lot of money. She also asks for a breakup fee of 2 million yuan (this was around 2), millions of handbags, countless bird's nest mansions, and even explodes attached black cards to buy jewelry after breaking up.
Lv Lijun is even more eager for quick success and instant benefit. During his doctoral studies in Britain, he had an affair with men in the Middle East. Later, in the war of taking away his husband from Gambi, he was smart enough to "preemptively" write an open letter to the media, claiming that Mrs. Liu was running on Gambi.
This is tantamount to challenging Liu's authority in sexual relations. Besides, Liu always dislikes "washing his dirty linen in public". When his ex-wife Teresa Bao published "Qin Xin Ji" and revealed family affairs, she once provoked a letter from Liu Fa.
in contrast, who would Liu prefer to choose?
2. "Love money like life" VS "She can't smell money"
If Liu Luanxiong and his business empire are ideal city, Liu is undoubtedly the most powerful person. His likes and dislikes directly determine the status and rights of these women in the competition. Liu, who was young, enjoyed the appearance of female stars being jealous for him, otherwise, where did Michele Monique Reis get the recording of swearing at Hong Xin on the phone?
before, there was the strongest wave of competitors, Michele Monique Reis and Rosamund Kwan. After that, there is the most targeted Lv Lijun, but they all have the same characteristics.
pride and vanity.
Big Liu and Lv Lijun openly fell in love in 21, which happened to be the time when Gambi ended his entertainment career and entered Big Liu Huaren Real Estate Company.
There are only two people left in the arena, Gambi and Lv Lijun. At that time, Liu often took Lv Lijun to and from various upper-class occasions, and Lu was also very helpful. His learned speech made Liu very respectable. Gamby was really just a small role at that time.
Liu respects his mother and his ex-wife Teresa Bao (detailed in the last article). On Mrs. Liu's deathbed, Gamby's figure was nothing more than shuttling between the residence and the hospital. Lv Lijun was not willing to visit with her children until Liu called, and stayed for dozens of minutes and left. There is no gesture of being kind to the "future mother-in-law".
Gambi's children often learn to bake with their mothers and bake them for their parents and grandmothers. Moreover, in terms of educating children, Gambi, at least to outsiders, has a stronger flavor of family and less flavor of money.
On the other hand, Lv Lijun took his son to Liu's office to pose, saying that "my son likes to go to Dad's office to play". However, he was directly hit by Liu. "We only communicated through lawyers at that time."
What frightens Liu most is that during Liu Luanxiong's illness, he needed to go to the hospital for kidney dialysis three or four times a week, and Gambi was with him every time. Lv Lijun has only visited once in the past six months. A friend in need is a friend indeed, and everyone's heart is made of meat.
Lu wants to take money unconditionally, but he doesn't want to give his feelings to accompany him.
who do you think Liu is for?
Liu commented on this lover who once spent a lot of money on her.
"She (Lv Lijun) thinks I'm dying, and she calls my lawyer every day to ask if I'm dead, and as soon as I die, she will launch the claim Money Campaign."
"Lv Lijun is really addicted to money, even if she is given 1 million yuan, she will eventually betray me for a dollar; Give the waiter 3 yuan to borrow from her, and then ask me for it later; I tried to pretend to be poor and asked her to borrow 5 million dollars. As a result, she asked me to make a loan. "
Compared with Lv Lijun, Liu's evaluation of Gambi is:
"She is simple and kind to me, and has never coveted the goodness of my family property."
Is it like the sentence of Guo Taiming, a wealthy businessman in Taiwan Province: "I can't smell money on her"?
3. Appearing at the right time
Liu is experiencing a juvenile entrepreneurship and making a fortune; Have a successful career and be in spirit; In his later years, when he closed his heart and returned to his family, he experienced the death of his mother and illness. Compared with the world of flowers and flowers, Liu wanted to have a stable and pragmatic life.
Teresa Bao, Liu's ex-wife, wrote in the last article. Teresa Bao, who accompanied Liu Luanxiong to make a fortune, was unhappy in giving and unwilling all his life. After a cursory tour and seeing all the scenery of female stars in Hong Kong, Liu Ye is getting old.
the money is scattered, and people gather to join in the show.
I lived a young life full of affection and water, and I also lived a time of singing every night after I became rich.
In terms of feelings and punishment, Gambi is undoubtedly the best choice.
In today's society, people tend to be independent women and strive for self-improvement. Such a "success" as Gamby is not worth promoting.
But Gambi's story has her uniqueness and background color.
Liu Luanxiong and Li Ka-shing in their early years, including Stanley Ho, the gambling king who died recently, are individual miniature of the development of an era.
Gamby's temperament is not the same as it used to be, from the humble entertainment to the socialite in the upper class.
money can't solve all problems, but anything that can be solved with money is not a problem, such as appearance and speech.
It is the part that money can't solve, such as strong mind and core, that can make people open the gap.
thanks for reading. see you next time.