Children must grow up with their parents. Parental discipline is much more important than grandparents', and parental affection also plays a decisive role in children's mental health growth. When the child was over 2 years old, he was sent to his hometown for more than a month. The child has changed a lot. He doesn't know basic etiquette, can't say polite words, is uncompromising (absolute habit), loves to lose his temper and doesn't like being close to his mother. These are superficial, and there are deeper influences that will not be seen for a while. So I decisively took the child back and never sent it back. In fact, when children go to kindergarten, mothers can find jobs, which will not have a serious impact on family income at all.

In the long run, it is most important for children's physical health and mental health to be normal, otherwise it will be too late to correct problems in the future.