Lies in marriage, like black thorns, inevitably pierce a woman's heart. Husband and wife, as the two closest people in the world, the most important thing is to be honest with each other.

Beibei has always had a good relationship with her husband Li Liang, and she has always given her husband great autonomy.

Because her husband is honest, kind, sincere and enterprising, especially gentle and considerate to her, and she is a hot girl in people's mouth, and she has always trusted him.

But one day, my husband called and told Beibei that he had to work overtime with his colleagues to catch a project, and he would not go back for dinner if he came home late. After Beibei agreed, she thought it was boring to eat alone anyway, so she simply went out to play with her girlfriends.

The place where two people go shopping for dinner happens to be near her husband's company. Beibei was worried that her husband was too tired to work overtime and forgot to eat, so she packed some food for her husband.

But when she entered her husband's company, she found that there was no one in the company and her husband was not working overtime at all. He lied to her.

Once a lie is exposed, it is bound to bear the consequences of lying. No matter whether the swindler has good intentions or not, the deceived will feel anger and disappointment in different degrees, the relationship between husband and wife will be alienated, and the trust will be greatly reduced.

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In marriage, even a white lie cannot escape its essence. Lies can never change the fact.

Beibei was so angry that she called her husband on the spot and asked him where he was.

My husband still replied that he was working overtime. Even if someone asked him to drink, he explained to Beibei that he had ordered takeout from his colleagues and was now eating a box lunch.

Beibei sneered that she is in his company now, and there is no one in the company, so there is no need to work overtime.

My husband hurried home immediately and explained to Beibei in a hurry that today was actually a company dinner. At the dinner party, there was a girl who was always dressed up beautifully, but she could do nothing. She always relied on men for help.

Beibei never liked her very much, but this meal can't be shirked. Beibei's husband worried that Beibei was unhappy, so he lied to her that he was working overtime.

Who knows, it is such a white lie, but it was wrongly exposed. Since then, the crisis of trust between husband and wife has been detonated in one fell swoop.

In fact, Beibei is also a reasonable woman. If her husband explained the situation to her, she would understand. But her husband insisted on lying to cover it all up, which made her wonder if this was the first lie her husband told her.

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Even if a white lie is exposed between husband and wife, it will affect the trust value and the feelings between husband and wife.

When she had absolute trust in her husband before, did her husband cheat her like this? In his eyes, he is easily deceived. Is he stupid?

When the veil of husband and wife's feelings was lifted, Beibei found that she could no longer correctly and calmly examine her feelings with her husband.

No matter what her husband does, she subconsciously thinks this is another lie. She needs to go through job inspections again and again to get a moment's peace of mind.

She began to become suspicious, sensitive and unable to trust her husband.

Li Liang, her husband, said that every time he lied, he tried to reassure his wife, stop her thinking and make their marriage go further.

At this point, did the lie that was once made up in good faith because I didn't want my wife to think too much really play its due role?

No, on the contrary, the white lie is torn up, which only pushes the liar into the situation he was worried about before. Even worse, his wife is paranoid because of his cover-up and sad because of his lies, which goes against the original intention of "white lies".

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In fact, in many cases, many so-called "white lies" are nothing more than naive assumptions of swindlers, self-righteous efforts and a kind of self-emotion.

They always cheat under the guise of being good for others. As we all know, when the truth is revealed, whether out of kindness or malice, the nature of lies cannot be avoided.

Later, Beibei became unable to fully trust Li Liang, and gradually there was a quarrel and estrangement between them. When trust is destroyed, marriage also has a sense of crisis.

And Li Liang, because of Beibei's suspicion, became unwilling to go home and communicate with her, and her marriage became as depressing as a cage. White lies can also destroy the trust between husband and wife and lead to the deterioration of marriage.

Those men who cheat their wives in the name of love all come from their distrust of their wives. He lied again and again because he didn't believe that his wife could tolerate and understand him.

The more a man loves his wife, the more loyal and honest he will be.

Those men who are good at lying in marriage are mostly vain, have some false feelings and hypocrisy, and can't be honest with their lovers.

Once a lie is told, if you want to stand firm, you must round it with another lie. If this happens again and again, the snowball will get bigger and bigger, and the evolution of the situation will eventually get out of your control and get out of hand.

Trust, as the cornerstone of a stable relationship between husband and wife, once damaged, the building of marriage will be crumbling. So, don't cheat your lover, because her heart is like a mirror.