How much private money should a woman keep for herself? Teller: Zhong Qi is 28 years old and has been married for 3.5 years. Reason: You can't expect men to buy private houses for something. Anyway, you have to hide something, and you can't overdo it, otherwise once exposed, it will hurt your feelings. Zhong Qi and her husband are both gold collars. Two people add up to 400 thousand a year. There are no financial troubles in life. Nevertheless, Zhong Qi still has his own small bank. The reason is that Zhong Qi thinks she is a luxury slave, and her husband thinks buying those things is both wasteful and vain. It's better to save money to buy than to discuss buying quarrels. Anyway, my husband doesn't know how much it costs to buy it back. Even asked Zhong Qi that buying cheap is expensive. Anyway, men never have much ability to distinguish women's clothes and shoes. In Zhong Qi's view, women are always imperfect without material companionship, and even affect family harmony. Therefore, before getting married, Zhong Qi thought about saving private money. After marriage, it may be cheaper. Zhong Qi is also very gentle to her husband, and the married life of the couple is of course very interesting. Zhong Qi believes that private money also has credit in it. Narrator: Xia Rong is 29 years old and has been married for 5 years. Reason: In an emergency, it can be regarded as the experience of family fund private money: private money can prepare life and bring surprises to family members. Xia Rong, a family type, is also the financial supervisor at home, and all the income belongs to her. If the husband wants to buy big items, or has no money to buy cigarettes at the end of the month, he must apply to Xia Rong. Despite this, Xia Rong quietly set up a small vault. Of course, the money is not for her own consumption. But to save this small family an extra emergency and warmth fund. This stems from a story she read: a husband who sells oil found that he had no money for the New Year on New Year's Eve. When he was sad, his wife took out a small cylinder from under the bed and filled it with oil. The wife said, before you leave home with a burden on your back every morning, I secretly scoop a spoonful and put it in the jar, for fear that there will be an urgent need at home one day. So the husband sold the oil and the family had a good year. So Xia Rong also wants to be a smart woman. Now, Xia Rong sells the story now, of course, not because of difficulties at home, but because she is afraid that if something urgent happens one day, she can take out the money for emergency. Now that I have been married for five years, saving dozens of dollars a day is a lot of money. Xia Rong also made a small venture capital with this money and actually made a lot of money. Narrator: Li Yue is 34 years old and has been married for seven years. Reason: Save some survival capital for yourself. Experience of saving money: saving money is really helpless, but it may really work one day. If it weren't for her husband's betrayal three years ago, Li Yue would never remember to save money. After that emotional pain, although the family maintained it. But Li Yue lost trust in her husband and realized that in case of divorce, it would be hard to do a job. She even has little money to support herself. And after that, Li Yue knew that her husband also had private money, and it was not a decimal, so she bought a small room for her lover. Since then, she has consciously transferred some money from her business husband and family. After a few years, I actually saved a lot of money. Although this life against her husband has also caused confusion in Li Yue's mind, she believes that saving private money is also a kind of protection for herself, and it is also the interest and freedom that she has the right to fight for. Some people say that women's saving private money is a manifestation of lack of trust and security in marriage, which will lead to marriage crisis. Judging from the above three examples, this phenomenon exists, but it is by no means all or even a slight proportion. More women save private money to make themselves and their families happy and make their families more harmonious and happy. So some people object, if the husband is rich, tolerant and loves himself, will women still save money? The answer is yes. Because after all, women are always a little cute and selfish, and can't resist the temptation of material things. It is a great thing to be able to control private money mysteriously, meet material needs and have a little vanity of women. In a family, as long as a woman is satisfied, it is not a group of peaceful and warm people. If one or two match you, you are allowed to hide your private money. 1, you often look at some luxury goods, such as brand-name clothes or jewelry, and don't want your husband to frown for the price. 2. You are intoxicated with the happiness of saving private money. 3. You are used to saving for a rainy day, taking the saved private money as a family emergency fund and taking it out to solve the urgent need. Your husband is a person who doesn't know how to manage money. He often does things that are beyond the family budget with enthusiasm.