2065438+200865438+In early February 2008, I saw Kaka's video "Living alone in a 230-square-meter house" on "One Video". From then on, I began to pay attention to the fantasy world of Kaka @ Becky Li, and felt that Kaka was elegant and beautiful, living in such a big house alone, with economic strength and freedom.

After paying attention to the official accounts of Weibo and WeChat, I occasionally look at the shared bags or clothes, which are quite expensive. At that time, I didn't have much money and couldn't afford it. I slowly saved the money for buying bags, paid attention to Kaka, and waited for myself to buy bags and clothes recommended by Kaka at any time. Now I have the strength to buy a bag, but I need a trigger point to buy a bag as a gift to reward myself after achieving my goal.

20 19 when watching Kaka's starry speech, I heard Kaka say that he only sleeps four or five hours a day and adds powder. Fashion bloggers are not as glamorous as they look, and every harvest will have a corresponding or even more pay. She immediately ordered her first book, Wear It Seriously Today. Love beauty, love bags and be serious about beauty. Kaka did it, and it was her turn to succeed ~

Kaka is really good, and takes girls' love of beauty as their career. From writing alone, I have set up my own studio to lead the team, and also set up my own clothing brand, which is awesome! Kaka is simply my life benchmark! I thought I had good expectations when I registered Weibo as a "glorious tribe", but now I am not glamorous, tribal or glorious, so I am a little angry.

There are also illustrations by Erlili @ Erlili, which are pleasing to the eye. My heads are all illustrations of Kaka in Erli, and I can't stop loving them. Kaka also drew illustrations with Lili, and summarized some essential items in autumn, winter and summer, which was so sweet.

Looking back on myself, I don't know why I seem to have forgotten my beautiful goal when I was alive, so I look at Kaka's various official WeChat accounts every day. I want to be as beautiful, capable, caring, well-dressed and exquisite as Kaka.

Kaka published his second book "Love of Beauty is Productivity" this year. When reading this book, he decided to pick up the book reviews that he hadn't written for a long time, and decided # No book reviews, no new books #. He also concentrates on books with neutral strokes or feels buzzing. This determination has overcome and cured my mental cleanliness addiction that I have never crossed books since junior high school.

Everyone has a love of beauty, and the difference may be the degree of affectation. Kaka said that image is a systematic project. Image needs to be managed by skin care, hair quality, clothing and figure. In her new book, she also gives many pertinent and practical suggestions from these aspects.

We say we don't judge a book by its cover, but more often, appearance accounts for a large proportion in the first impression. It's very popular on the Internet. "Why do you peep at your kind soul through your sloppy appearance?" Not to mention as exquisite as a fashion blogger, cleanliness in daily life always gives people a good first impression.

"When we talk about clothes, we are actually talking about our relationship with ourselves." So when we talk about beauty, we are also talking about our relationship with ourselves.

"This is why people who manage their personal image well are generally excellent in other aspects. Because through strong self-management, they gain not only good figure and temperament, but also confidence in themselves and enthusiasm for a better life. "

If you have confidence in yourself, you will be able to hold on: Li Jiaqi's assistant Wangwang was ordinary at first, but with the live broadcast business getting better and better, netizens found her more and more beautiful. But in essence, as Kaka said, "Many people are full of confidence and confidence, full of energy, look more radiant, have a higher degree of self-identity and enhance their self-confidence, which will also be manifested in the external state."

When it comes to beauty, we can't help talking about aging. Zhou Xun played Princess Taiping when she was young. She is smart and beautiful, and she is Bai Yueguang in the hearts of countless people. But now, when Zhou Xun plays the girl of royal love in Palace, netizens complain that she is losing collagen and is no longer smart. Aging is inevitable, what is important is how we look at aging. Kaka gave us good advice in the book: "Love yourself | Accept yourself, but don't stop discovering that you are more beautiful and better. When you let go of the age limit and do what you like, it will be beautiful. As long as you are full of expectations for life, you can be full of vitality at any age. Everyone will get old. What we can do is to work hard, devote ourselves to life, be self-disciplined, never lose our curiosity and never stop pursuing love and beauty. I want to encourage all of you. "

In the chapter "I love this world", Kaka talked about some ideas from four aspects: money view, saving money, making money and buying a house. The economic foundation determines the superstructure. It is necessary but not sufficient to love the world with a good economic vision. In addition, good emotional and physical management is needed, and Kaka wrote a lot in another chapter.

Money view

A girl has been bound by her family, kitchen and children for a long time. In recent decades, her strength and economy have gradually emerged. Girls don't just do housework, they take care of children. In the new era, women are more versatile: exercising, working hard and taking care of the family.

And we should also "face up to the desire to make money." Only by daring to think and face it squarely can we stimulate the motivation of travel. This desire is unconsciously rooted in your subconscious. When you meet a good opportunity, it will burst out with the greatest energy to help you realize it. "

be economical

There are some general principles about saving money, such as compulsory saving, setting up a dream fund and keeping accounts. To implement and do these three things well. Compulsory savings is 10% of each income, which is the idea put forward in Poor Dad and Rich Dad. Kaka shares it with you. The dream fund is set up to reward yourself for saving money, so that the good habit of saving money can be better continued. After all, we save money to improve our living standard and quality of life. Bookkeeping is to manage our money and know where it goes.

make money

Now many platforms are teaching you how to make money from the media, some say watching short videos to make money, and some offer courses to teach you how to manage money. However, under these complicated external phenomena, we should clear the clouds and see the truth clearly. Making money is not for personal gain, doing unnatural things, or making quick money. Instead, we should focus on the long-term and improve our quality of life through personal skills upgrading and reasonable financial planning.

Buy a house

Kaka filmed a series of short films called 100 China Girls' Home. In the past, girls were born in their parents' homes. After marriage, they all went to their husbands' homes, without their own houses and space. On the one hand, this series of short films shows the growth of contemporary women's economic strength, on the other hand, it also shows the awakening of female students' self-awareness. Some of them have their own independent real estate and space. What impressed them was the study of writer Huang Tongtong, which was comfortable and free. So when buying a house, Kaka gave some suggestions:

Don't always think about one step at a time, look at lots, look at supporting facilities, look at the direction of the house and look at the property.

Choose a house that is slightly higher than your affordability and needs to stand on tiptoe.

There are always people who live a life you can't imagine, and those who can't understand have no achievements.

Different stages of life have different goals, and the same goal is lifelong growth. But you can't be greedy for perfection. At the same time, you should sign up for thesis writing course, financial management course and teaching and writing course. These courses and abilities are what we need, but if we just buy courses and study them roughly, we will not make full use of them. In the final analysis, this is also a kind of consumption thinking.

The correct way, as Kaka told us in the book "Focus on Doing One Thing Well", is that if you have product thinking and sign up for a course, you will finish it seriously, and at the same time output your thoughts on course learning and publish them on the media platform, which may even be worth the tuition; After reading a book, you should take notes and write articles carefully, instead of completely forgetting after reading it.

Kaka has been very busy with her work since she became a self-media, and she can't make an appointment with her many times. She found the problem and put life into time management. She eats with her family every week, achieving a balance between work and life.

Kaka also said in his book that he should organize his life and emotions regularly. Many times we don't need to go shopping or eat, maybe it's because of some emotion that we need to be fed. So go shopping and eat. When you are sober about your life and emotions, you won't waste, overeat and buy things indiscriminately.

Kaka also shared procrastination and anxiety, physical and mental rehabilitation plans and how to get out of the downturn, which can be described as full of dry goods. You can go to the book to see what is going on.