The formation of a sense of responsibility is a sign of a person's maturity. Its first meaning is to be responsible for oneself, that is, one should know how to respect one's feelings, respect one's ideals, cherish one's precious years and vitality of life, try to arrange real life from the perspective of one's own life, learn to restrain one's instinctive impulses, resist all kinds of temptations from outside, and be happy and painful under the impact of success and failure in a complex environment. The second meaning of responsibility is to be responsible for society. This is by no means the product of fantasy in anyone's mind, but the embodiment of the evolution of human civilization. Man is a social animal. It is different from plants to say that man is an animal. Of course, creatures between animals and plants also exist, that is, there is no absolute thing in this world, only relative responsibility. In today's various social forms, because men occupy the active position in society, it can be said that men are controlling the whole world. In this case, men naturally shoulder more responsibilities, and people with a little thought will have a sense of responsibility. From an individual point of view, men need to have a sense of responsibility to create social values. Men belong to this society and belong to the dominant society. This is a sense of responsibility that mature men should have. From the point of view of a small family unit, due to physiological and cultural reasons, a man bears the minimum family responsibility. A man without family responsibility can't really have a family, let alone do anything, because he doesn't want to bear any responsibility. From the social point of view, men should have a sense of social responsibility, because they are in charge of the mainstream direction of the world. Edit the specific performance of a responsible man in this paragraph. 1. A responsible man's career is always the first. It is emphasized here that a rich man is not a man with a career, but a man's enterprising spirit. Men who love, adapt, have passion and take their work seriously basically have the same responsibility for marriage and family. It is hard to imagine that a man who is lazy at work can maintain lasting enthusiasm and eternal responsibility for love and family. A really good man has a good career and a warm family. If you meet a woman who pursues money and power blindly, you can leave her. A responsible man, loving his parents is his greatest virtue. Knowing that their parents are hard, that they should honor their parents through their own efforts, and that they can sacrifice their careers or love for their parents, this kind of man is the most trustworthy. Nowadays, there are not many men who can do this, but there are many older "boys" who squander their parents' blood and sweat to please their girlfriends and win jobs, and then complain about their parents' wrongdoings. Remember, a real man will create a blue sky through his hard-working hands, level the broad road through his solid legs, and win the girl's heart through his sincere heart! 3. A man with a sense of responsibility dares to admit his mistakes, dare to get up where he fell and start all over again. If you blame all your mistakes on bad opportunities, bad luck, meeting evil people, or even "you are not bad enough", it is not what a good man thinks and does. If you don't reflect on yourself correctly, you want to correct the mistakes you have made through more wrong means. Then it is hard for me to imagine that his future marriage life is healthy, happy and stable. 4. A responsible man is very cautious in love. I won't make girlfriends easily, and I won't deal with several women. When you are not sure, you won't misunderstand the girl with ambiguous words. Once you are sure, you will treat her honestly. Help you by phone or text message every time you need it, even if he is busy, as long as he has a woman in his heart, he can show his love for others at any time with the convenient communication mode now. ..... Every phone call will be on time, and every date can't keep my girlfriend waiting for a minute (my girlfriend is also on time). I mean, every time, no matter the rain or the wind, no matter how inconvenient the journey is, even if we meet after breaking up, we will stand in the rain in advance. A responsible and smart man will take out photos of his old parents and poor families at the beginning of his relationship with the woman he likes. Not only did she express herself frankly, but she also wisely tested her girlfriend's character: if she turned away after watching it, then she was a profit-oriented person; If she is moved by this frank and true nonverbal expression, then she is a sentimental person. He is willing to tell all about himself to his beloved woman, instead of ignoring it when his girlfriend repeatedly questioned him. There are two possibilities for refusing to answer a woman's questions: first, he has something to hide, so he should hold the woman steady before getting her; Second, he didn't care about the woman and thought it didn't matter whether he said it or not, because it didn't matter much to him whether the woman knew him or misunderstood him, because the woman's reaction wouldn't affect the handling and development of major events in his life. Either way, it shows that this man has no sense of responsibility. 6. A responsible man will put "sweet words" into action. It is a pity that there are two kinds of men in society now: one is "the giant of words, the dwarf of action", and the other is dull in words and deeds, waiting for a woman to confess to him. In fact, in the new society, women can confess to their favorite men, which is not humiliating or degrading. However, the latter kind of men often think: When women pursue them, they will immediately think: Is there something wrong with this woman, and I can't get married, so I can't have it! Men at both ends are not responsible men, only those in the middle are responsible men! 7. A man with a sense of responsibility will not overestimate his ability because of his high academic qualifications, nor will he belittle people with high academic qualifications because of his low academic qualifications, nor will he belittle his high academic qualifications and at the same time say that he can "become highly educated by some means" in the future. No matter how strong a man's social activity ability is, he can't be called excellent. A man with a normal mentality is not proud (even if he is rich, educated and powerful) and does not feel inferior (even if he has nothing at present, as long as he is correct, sincere and progressive). It is difficult for people with inferiority or pride to run a simple and warm marriage life! 8. A responsible man will stick to his virginity until after marriage. Sex is a very solemn and pure thing. A man with a casual attitude towards sex is definitely not a responsible man. People are animals, but men with self-control and men who can control their behavior through rational judgment of the brain are higher animals. Such a man has a stronger sense and ability of marriage, family and moral restraint, and understands that the harm caused by extramarital sex to both sides is no small matter. A man who had sex before marriage is definitely more likely to cheat again after marriage than a man who kept his virginity before marriage (note: the same is true for women. A truly responsible man will not make excuses for his impulses. A man who really loves a woman lets his beloved woman also save good sex for marriage. Jia Baoyu is frivolous over many women in the Grand View Courtyard, but he can always "show affection and stop ceremony" for his beloved Lin Daiyu and Qingwen, and it is precisely the virtue of these two women that "the quality is clean and clean" adds to the weight of love in Baoyu's heart. The difference between liking and loving depends largely on sexual attitude. Only those who truly understand love can understand this.