Some people say that "attitude determines height"; Some people say that "attitude determines success or failure"; Some people say that "attitude determines fate"; Others say that "attitude is everything". It can be seen how important a person's attitude is! Especially the teacher, his attitude not only determines his height, his success or failure, his fate and everything, but more importantly, it also affects the height of students, their fate, their success or failure and their lives. As a teacher, everyone has this experience: when we walk into the classroom with a sunny face, the students' mood will be very relaxed and relaxed; When we approached them with an angry face, the students were silent and afraid to bump into the angry muzzle of the teacher; When we affirm students with enthusiasm and inspire them with appreciation, their hearts are full of happiness and joy, and they are very excited; We accuse, satirize and ridicule students, which undoubtedly casts a heavy cloud over their spiritual sky. The best attitude towards students is love, equality, tolerance, appreciation and understanding. This student is very sensitive. Whether you love him or not, he can tell at a glance. Students are sensitive. If you treat him equally and treat him as a friend, his heart will open to you. Only in this way can teachers win the trust and love of students. In a small town on the outskirts of New Jersey, a class of 26 children was arranged in a dimly lit classroom behind the teaching building, and no teacher wanted to teach them. They all have disgraceful histories: some people take drugs, some have been in reformatory schools, and one girl even has three abortions in one year. Parents can do nothing about them, and teachers and schools have little hope for them. At this time, a female teacher named fila served as the tutor of this class. On the first day of the new school year, instead of scolding these children like the previous teacher and giving them a fright, Fila gave everyone a question: there are three candidates, they are-a: they believe in witch doctors, have two mistresses, have many years of smoking history and are addicted to alcohol; B: I was kicked out of the office twice, got up at noon every day, drank about 1 liter of brandy every night, and had a record of smoking opium; C: He used to be a national war hero. He has always maintained a vegetarian habit, loves art, drinks occasionally, and never did anything illegal when he was young. The question that fila gave the children was: For the first question, there is no doubt that the children all chose C; For the second question, everyone's inference is almost the same: A and B will definitely have a bad fate in the future, either becoming criminals or becoming waste that needs social care. And C must be a noble person, destined to become an elite. However, Fila's answer is surprising. "Children, your conclusion may conform to the general judgment, but the fact is that you are all wrong. These three people are familiar to everyone. They were three famous figures during World War II-A was Franklin? Roosevelt, who was physically disabled and determined, was re-elected as president of the United States for four times; B Winston? Churchill, the most famous prime minister in British history, is familiar with the name C. His name is Adolf? Hitler, a fascist head of state who took tens of millions of innocent lives. " The students stared blankly at Vera. They could not believe their ears. "Children," continued Phila, "your life has just begun. Past faults and humiliations can only represent the past. What truly represents a person's life is what he does now and in the future. No one is perfect, even great men are at fault. Come out of the shadow of the past, and from now on, work hard to do what you want to do most, and you will all become excellent talents ... "Fila's words changed the lives of 26 children. Now these children have grown up, some become psychologists, some become judges, and some become airplane pilots. It is worth mentioning that Robert, the shortest and most disruptive student in the class? Harrison later became the youngest fund manager on Wall Street. This is not only Lafite's wisdom, but also Lafite's attitude towards students, which has changed everything! We say "learning to be an excellent official", "those who believe in it love their teachers" and "teaching and educating people is a model". The "example" here, the "way" here and the "teacher by example" here are all teachers' attitudes towards work, themselves, life and society. Teachers' attitudes towards work, themselves, life and society are implicit, and their influence on students is subtle. They moisten things silently and unconsciously affect the growth of students. Therefore, teachers' attitude towards students directly affects their growth. Teachers' attitudes towards work, themselves, life and society are influencing students' growth imperceptibly.