In fact, foreign children work when the conditions are poor 14 years old, and when the conditions are good 16 years old, they all start to support their families. They are responsible for their own tuition and living expenses, travel and shopping. Some children even bought their own cars when they were 18 or 19 years old. Part-time jobs in the places where I used to work were four or five times that of full-time jobs, and all of them were students. Local children think it is shameful for 16 years old not to work. China has the largest number of people who don't work or even have Filipino maids to take care of them, followed by Indians. I'm not saying it has to be like this, but the same young people aged 16 to 20 are too weak for children in China to survive. Children who come into contact with society late do not have an advantage in job competition.
I think my parents did the right thing. The end of the college entrance examination is your rite of passage. You should be stressed. It is a good choice to try to do a summer job after the exam. Recognizing that it is not easy to earn money is also helpful to college life. If you rely on your parents, you will spend at least 100,000 yuan in college for four years, and then take the postgraduate entrance examination for more than 100,000 yuan. What do you do when your parents can't do anything?
Mobile phones and computers are all bought by working on their own? First of all, without a decent mobile phone and computer, it is easy to be despised in college, which will affect self-confidence and making friends. It's really not worth the candle to earn that little money by working in a university. Money is inexhaustible, and college time should be more meaningful. A child can grow by accepting a bad job. I used to work, but I didn't feel anything special except a few extra pocket money, because there were many little girls about my age on the factory assembly line, and some people's three views simply shocked me. I think this is a good thing. I know that I didn't travel with them after all, so I was not affected.
You can go to work in winter and summer vacations, and some places have part-time jobs. Schools can also apply for student loans, and those who have the ability also have scholarships. That's how I got here. The conditions at home are not good, so I spend very little. I never compare with the people in the dormitory. All the leaflets have been made, and more than 600 mobile phones have been bought. I can go out of 400 yuan myself. You can go to work in a factory in the summer vacation, with two shifts. It depends on how to get there! Besides, their parents didn't say anything about tuition! High school students' part-time jobs cannot be used as the capital for universities to support themselves. At best, it is an experience. During college, it is not advisable to maintain your tuition and living expenses by taking a part-time job. As mentioned before, one of my classmates worked in a fast food restaurant and skipped classes for two months and earned 2000 yuan. I don't know how to cherish college courses at all. He never did this kind of thing again, just followed the school teacher to make clips and participate in some projects.
Mom wants you to work after the college entrance examination, but actually? Frustration education makes you experience the difficulty of making money in society. You will spend the money you earned through suffering. After your parents give you living expenses, you can also plan your expenses for one month, and don't overspend. Just because mom doesn't intend to give you college living expenses doesn't mean she really won't give you living expenses. This sentence only encourages you to work hard to make money, so as not to be idle. Listen to the sound. It's not easy. University teachers will say? Don't come to me if you fail? Does the teacher really care about the students who fail this course? He just urges you to study hard and pass the exam smoothly. After the college entrance examination, candidates will either travel, work, get a driver's license or have a happy party and enjoy a holiday without academic pressure. Do you have any ideas to communicate with your parents? If there are no special arrangements, it is not bad to take a part-time job that is not very tired. As you can imagine, your mother loves you too much, which is great. You are happy to have such a mother!
There's nothing to worry about: college costs a lot. The children of relatives used to be in the countryside, but later they moved to the county seat. After the holiday in college, everyone came out to work. That's the management of internet cafes. The boss will contact in advance when the holiday is coming, and he will definitely come back to work as long as he comes back. No matter how much money he has, he earns his living expenses from February to March every time he starts school. His parents told him that he didn't want it, so he'd better save it. Last year, he was recruited by the university army. My friend's child went to Zhejiang University with a score of 765,438+05 three years ago. In addition to living expenses and school management, they also have scholarships. They didn't come back from the holiday, and they were all working to earn money as living expenses. They always give it to them at home. They came back to buy books on power system before the epidemic last year and taught themselves. They have been admitted to the county electric power bureau and will be employed after graduation this year. Parents don't have to worry about finding a job. The two families I told you are both rural, and their parents are not highly educated. They are all primary schools. Children can understand that it is not easy for parents to make money, and they will work hard to change themselves. Doing a part-time job will help you in your later life. Have time to see the ordinary world in Yao Lu. Very beautiful, that is, your life, study, graduation and work experience.
Your parents raised you to 18 years old, and you have done your duty. This is selfish and irresponsible. It is true that tolerance is greater than heaven, but this statement is based on the existing moral system. Children have no choice. They can't choose their parents. If parents raise their children to 18 years old, you must say that young people can't live at all. Besides, you said that parents can give up when they are 18 years old. Can I say that I don't care if my parents live or die? Why did you give birth to me? I didn't. If everyone looks at the problem realistically, then the world can actually be realistic and act according to the law. As long as it is not illegal, everyone can act according to the bottom line.