Recently, music poet Li Jian once again topped the trend list, but no one could have imagined that the reason why the male star became popular this time was not because of his singing or the show, but because of his "DINK".

When someone asked why he had not had children for many years after marriage, Li Jian's answer was straightforward but unexpected. He said: "I don't think it is necessary to continue my genes. It is nothing special and it is not an endangered species. There is no need to continue it."

Myself." I never expected that such words would cause controversy among many netizens. Some people felt sorry for it, some expressed their understanding, and some felt that "there are three types of unfilial piety, and the greatest is not having children." But

No matter what netizens say, maybe for Li Jian, DINK is just a choice. How a person lives his life is the proposition he values ??most.

Anyone who really likes Li Jian knows that even if this man chooses DINK, it does not mean that this man is unhappy, because he has a rare love and a "perfect" wife, Meng Xiaobei.

He may not have children, but he has a love that can be called an idol drama. The love between Li Jian and his wife Meng Xiaobei can be summed up in one sentence, it is "The man comes riding a bamboo horse and goes around the bed to make green plum blossoms." The two are real childhood sweethearts who met each other.

That year, Li Jian was 10 years old and Meng Xiaobei was 5 years old. When they met for the first time, Li Jian was attracted by the beauty of this little girl. However, he didn't think too much about it at the time. He simply thought that this girl with big eyes was...

She looks like a doll.

Seven years later, the two met again at a wedding. At that time, Li Jian was already a young and ignorant boy, while Meng Xiaobei was a graceful girl. The two smiled at each other and fell in love at first sight.

From then on, Li Jian was Meng Xiaobei's tutor. When Meng Xiaobei was doing her homework, Li Jian was reading quietly. When Meng Xiaobei finished her homework, Li Jian took out his guitar and sang softly.

The good times are always short-lived. In the blink of an eye, Li Jian was recommended to Tsinghua University and became an unattainable "proud one of heaven" in the eyes of everyone. And Meng Xiaobei, a girl, should not be underestimated. A few years later, she met again in Tsinghua University.

Together with Li Jian, the two became Tsinghua alumni, turning their childhood sweethearts into a campus legend.

Someone once asked Li Jian, when he was studying at Tsinghua University, were there many school belles who liked a talented male idol like him?

Li Jian said seriously: I don't like school beauties. Girls who can become school beauties are usually very arrogant. The girls I like must be beautiful without knowing it.

And the girl he was talking about who was "beautiful without knowing it" was Meng Xiaobei.

Meng Xiaobei is so beautiful that when she walks on the street, she will be spotted by a talent scout who wants to invite her to film a movie. For many people, she can rely on her beauty to enter the entertainment industry, and she may become famous from then on.

Becoming a female star that everyone envied was a rare good thing, but Meng Xiaobei refused.

Later, Li Jian mentioned this matter, and he said: "Someone asked her to go filming, but she didn't go because she had to study. By that time, she had already been admitted to Tsinghua University as a graduate student." One is a low-key and reserved boy, and the other is a quiet pursuit

For girls who are studying, I have to say that Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are really a match made in heaven.

Their love process was very natural, as Li Jian described: "No one confessed, and people who are in love will naturally come together." After seeing their love process, we may understand,

It turns out that really good people are attracted to each other. They have the same goals, so they cherish each other.

As we all know, the issue of "DINK" is not a decision of one person. Especially in marriage, both parties must agree to carry out "DINK" to the end. It is Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei who have the same three views and synchronized thoughts.

, can you make the decision to live in a world of two forever!

A good marriage is like "strengthening a tiger with wings." After Li Jian became famous, although he rarely mentioned his private life, he would always smile when he occasionally talked about his marriage. He once said: "A good marriage will give people wings like a tiger with wings.

A bad marriage will make things worse. I think marriage is when two people grow together and complement each other.