As we all know, in love, men and women should not pay separately, but should pay together, especially in money. There are many pupils. Let's take a look at the principles of men and women spending money in love, hoping to help everyone.

The principle of men and women spending money in love 1 First of all, you must pay for it yourself.

On the road of love, two people will spend a lot of money together; So, two people go on a date together and be romantic together. As long as it is your own money, you must pay it yourself. Because if you always let the other party pay for the money you spend, it doesn't matter if the other party pays once or twice; However, if the other person goes out more often, then he will have an independent mind and a burden of love; This will cause certain contradictions in the relationship between two people.

If you spend money in love, it must be your own money, so you must pay it yourself. For example, in the process of two people traveling together, the fare and scenic spot ticket fees are all spent by themselves, so they should take the initiative to bear the expenses; Generally speaking, men especially love face and will take the initiative to pay; While women give men money, men will not accept it; At this time, women have to take the initiative to find a man and tell him that this is not a stranger, but that women have to pay for themselves; If men still don't accept it, women can take the initiative to buy tickets on the next date; Because love makes each other happy, not burdensome.

Second, two people spend the same money, two to one.

On the road of love, you will always meet two people doing one thing at the same time, and you can't tell; The expenses between two people, who should bear how much, can not be calculated at all; At this time, you have to pay a certain proportion, and the expenses will be borne by * * *; Under normal circumstances, men can pay more and women can pay less; Because on the road of love, men are generally more active and women are more passive; Therefore, it is normal for men to pay more.

When two people are in love, they can't tell who spends the most and who spends the least. Two people can pay together in the ratio of two to one; For example, two people eat together and don't know who eats more and who eats less; In this case, men can give two copies and women can give one copy; Because there are more men, they are also very gentlemanly; Of course, in most cases, men will take the initiative to pay; And women can take the initiative when they eat next time; Although it is a ratio of two to one, in real life, it is impossible to calculate it so carefully; As long as a woman knows, a man can treat you to two meals, and you can also treat him to one meal.

Third, who will give gifts, who will send them.

On the way to love each other, two people together, in order to express their love and true feelings, will think about buying gifts for each other; Giving gifts is a person's mood, but it is not an expense in love; At this time, whoever gives gifts should pay for it; On the other hand, there is no need to bear such expenses with the other party; At most, it is a courtesy communication. He gave you this, you can give him that. Of course, it is normal not to send it. When two people really love each other, it doesn't mean that they gave a gift. This is true love. Love is always in my heart, and caring for each other in my heart is more important than anything else.

In love, whoever gives a gift pays, which makes giving a gift meaningful; There is no need for another person to share with each other; Because you share with each other, you become a gift to yourself; So this is the money you shouldn't pay yourself, don't feel sorry for each other; Because the other party gives you a gift, in fact, to please you; You don't have to take it to heart, let alone take it seriously; Sometimes, loving someone has to pay a certain price; Nothing is paid, and the other party will not cherish it.

The principle of men and women spending money in love 2 1. The two sides jointly set up a love fund.

2. Both parties will invest a certain proportion of their monthly income into the fund, such as 70% for the man and 50% for the woman, depending on the income. This tells us that love and marriage must be two things, not just one thing.

3. Delimit the expenses of the love fund: renting a house, paying off the mortgage, honoring parents, traveling with couples every year, and so on. Because the money is spent and the benefits are for two people, the love fund is used for expenses. The key is to make a good agreement.

4. The scope of personal expenses: drinking, chatting and bragging with friends, borrowing money, and spending money on hobbies, such as recharging games and buying equipment, are all your own things. Can earn more money, recharge the game, even if you don't like it, you have to respect it. This is someone else's right.

Of course, financial planning like this may not solve big problems, such as buying a house, but it can help you sort out trivial things:

What are the things that two people should undertake? Those are private things, you can't get used to them and you can't interfere. Even if these folk things fail, it will not affect the basic fund of the whole family.

The principle of men and women spending money in love Chapter III is useful when it comes to men and women in love. What is the appropriate proportion of spending money? I think everyone has a certain understanding. Someone asked men and women how to spend money in love. In addition, some people want to ask how to allocate the expenses between men and women reasonably during love. What's going on here? In fact, which party needs to spend more money in love, boys and girls, let's learn about the principle of spending money in love, hoping to help our friends.

It is ok for boys to spend money on the first few dates, but if they want to stay long, the proportion of spending money in the future will be 55 points, or boys will invite girls to dinner and girls will invite boys to watch movies.

The problem of spending money when men and women are in love; Several taboos of spending money in love.

The problem of spending money on love between men and women has always been a controversial issue, with different opinions. Some insist that men should bear all the expenses of love, while others insist on equality between men and women and AA expenses.

As a teacher of love classics, Asheng found from a large number of training cases that the healthiest consumption concept in the love communication stage is not any of the above ways, but to seek a self-regulating balance between the two consumption methods. This sense of balance should start with the consumption in love.

When two people plan to associate or establish a relationship, they will have a lot of expenses, such as dating, eating, watching movies and playing. According to statistics, the consumption level of lovers in love will increase by more than 45% compared with that of singles, that is, you can spend three months, but now you can only spend two months. But I believe that every couple is willing to spend more money on love. Life is too short to meet you in the vast sea of people.

Since the happiness of love takes precedence over the consumption of love, let's discuss how to effectively balance the consumption of love. In fact, we need to clearly see what is behind the burden of consumer spending.

The principle of men and women spending money on love

Behind this is actually the investment of both sides in the relationship. This kind of investment in the relationship can make us feel the existence of the relationship. No soft relationship is easy to collapse, and unilateral investment is easy to distort the relationship, resulting in a kneeling situation. Therefore, we should consciously put the two sides in a balanced state at the beginning of the relationship so that the relationship can develop for a long time. Of course, short-term relationships are beyond the scope of today's discussion. How to deal with spending money in love?

The investment mentioned here is not only money investment, but also emotional investment and money investment at both ends to maintain the balance of gender relations. If the emotional intelligence and economic level of both sides are equal, they will be very happy. So how to achieve this happy balance? The answer is that in reality, many times, there is a big gap between men and women in emotional intelligence and economy. For example, boys' economy is good, but their emotional intelligence is low, while girls' emotional intelligence is high but their economy is average. In this case, if we can't grasp the balance of relationship input, it will eventually break down. If you don't want this result, you need boys to improve their emotional input, learn how to care about girls, how to create romance, and how to provide emotional value to girls in the process of communication. Girls should know how to reduce and avoid unnecessary expenses in communication.

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