The work experience of falling in love is very expensive, because when I fall in love, I have been sincerely paying for each other because of my strong love. However, once you get divorced, enter a dull period, and rationally solve the problem of money, it will be easier to show whether it is true love or not. A good marriage can still show love for each other in the supervision of food, clothing, housing and transportation and in the odds and ends of kitchen utensils. No matter what they present to each other is "wonderful" or "vulgar", they can love each other as always.
Japan's Ishikawa said in Twilight: "The more you cherish your married life, the more you want to be a satisfactory wife in your husband's mind. Women are like this. " When a woman is in love, she will gradually plant her heart in marriage, release her thoughts bit by bit in all aspects of life, and even indulge herself because of love and live like a boy. Li Li and Yuan Kai are good friends. Since they got married, their husbands have been in charge of the accounts. One reason is that he earns a lot of money, and the other reason is that he is careless. He doesn't understand investment and financial management, and he doesn't want to work hard.
She trusts her husband very much and regards him as the most important person in her life. Yuan Kai always said, "I am your housekeeper, your ATM, your wings, and I will protect you wherever you want to go." Two people have been living like this. From buying socks, underwear and bras to paying various expenses, Li Li also has a trip. Every time it's flowers, she asks her husband how much she wants.
At first, her husband never refused Lili's "grant application", but gradually, the amount will decrease. For example, Lily loves a long coat, which costs more than 700 yuan, but Yuan Kai said it was too expensive and only gave her 500 yuan. Later, as long as Li Li explicitly asked to buy shoes or clothes and trousers, he would say, "You wore these several times last year, which was a waste. Clothes and shoes can be worn, but they are not worn out and there are no holes. " Her husband has been resisting and manipulating her to save money, making her life more and more wronged.
After giving birth to a child, the two changed to a big apartment, and they had to repay the loan and save the children's education stock fund. It is difficult for Yuan Kai to get the money out. During the Spring Festival, Lili asked Yuan Kai for 2000 yuan. She wants to buy some gift boxes for her parents and a new dress for herself and her children. Yuan Kai slowly took out a thousand dollars, and Li Li was very unhappy. However, Li Li overheard her husband calling her mother-in-law and saying that she would give her family 20,000 yuan to spend casually.
When she questioned her husband, he plausibly said, "I am the head of the family, and I earned all the money." How to spend money, I naturally have the right to manipulate, there is no need to discuss with you. " Lili's heart is broken. After ten years of marriage, she has nothing and doesn't know how much money her husband has. Every penny spent at home needs her husband to apply. Her husband never discussed the money he spent with his lover, which gradually made her feel that her husband didn't like her at all.