In that case, why don't people cheer up to meet this challenge? Why can't people turn it into some kind of nutrition to nourish their beauty? People avoid exercise because they don't want to endure it. When it is inevitable, people say that exercise can make a better life, and both sides have a point.
Avoiding torture is the best choice in life. Once unavoidable, let torture become the nutrient of a better life, which is also the best choice in life. The reason why this is also the best choice in life is because when people are trapped in torture, they face more than one choice, such as pain, anxiety, lovelorn, confusion, helplessness or collapse. However, in the face of these choices, none of them have a positive nature, and they are all aimed at the depression and decadence of life. Compared with these choices, only choosing to make torture a nutrient for a better life is the best choice.
Life is beautiful because of tempering. The key lies in people's understanding of the angle and depth of tempering. It should be said that exercise itself has the function of a better life. If you let it uglify yourself for cognitive reasons, it will be a bit miserable. Who are you to blame except for the reason of tempering? In view of the above reasons, it is not that everyone's life will become beautiful and ugly because of tempering.
Life is beautiful because of training, not only because life needs to grow in training, but also because training is unavoidable in life. In the crowd, material desires cross-flow, with different directions and strengths. Who can expect, when and where will breed a kind of torture for themselves? If you don't expect it, you must follow it, and then you don't want to make yourself depressed. In this way, after hard work, it has become a useless choice for people. At this time, tempering has become a beautiful ladder in life. Although one side of the ladder is covered with thorns, at the end of the ladder, it is full of flowers. Walking through the thorns calmly, you will inevitably be in another beautiful world.
Life is beautiful because of tempering, and it also lies in some negative experiences that money can't buy. Life experiences are mostly positive, and life teachings are mostly well-intentioned. These things cannot be the test of life. Only torture can have this evil quality. As the saying goes, "it is difficult to raise a swift horse in a pigsty, but it is difficult to raise a pine in a flowerpot"? Why is this happening?
Because it lacks the opportunity to experiment. Not only that, but also other things in life. It is difficult for you to judge whether he (she) is complete or beautiful, if he (she) has not passed the test. And this kind of exam, which is not planned by anyone, unexpectedly appears in front of people, so that people will be caught off guard. Because of its suddenness, it is of great significance to people's test. After this kind of struggle and tempering, people have not become decadent, but have become more energetic. Without beauty, where will such a life go?
Of course, tempering can also uglify life. Life is still a little beautiful. After many tortures, she is not mature and beautiful. On the contrary, it is full of pain, confusion and hesitation. It even looked back and forth, very timid. This is Nuo Nuo, with no angular temper. Isn't this a little ugly?
For these people, all tempering can't be called tempering, but a disaster. In short, as long as there is a little frustration and discomfort, it will be like a disaster, such as fidgeting, inattention, eating without knowing the taste, etc. And these emotional things will come. How can such a life move from ruins to beauty? A heart has been filled with the word disaster, but it is not enough to understand it, which may give him a look at the beauty behind the disaster? The so-called disaster itself is unbearable. If we want to use this mentality and emotion to strengthen its harm to people, wouldn't it be more untenable? Life is hard to be beautiful, is it your destiny?
This feeling of tempering is actually unnecessary.
To say the least, if we can't turn torture into a ladder to a better life, we shouldn't turn it into a door to life disaster. How about keeping a neutral attitude between beauty and disaster? That is, how about treating it with an indifferent attitude? In this way, at least there will be no negative phenomena in life. Doesn't that mean there are positive factors? This is far more optimistic than the way of understanding things that regards tempering as a disaster.
At some point, the spiritual wealth of life may be more important than the material wealth, and people should not ignore it. There are many ways to acquire spiritual wealth, and constant tempering is one of them, or one of the most important methods. And the beauty of life, you first see his spiritual wealth, not his material wealth. Life is beautiful because of tempering, and beauty is here.
Yes, people always want to be plain and safe, and no one wants the experience of torture. But that's not why I'm here. As a passive bearer and don't want to compromise, then take out your wisdom, turn decay into magic, and life will be better because of it. Although it is forced, it is better than doing nothing. Playing the right hand is also precious.
Life Inspirations The biggest inertia of the two is to learn "habits". When they are used to the repetitive life of going to work and sleeping, it seems that everything is so taken for granted, but there is always a little anxiety in their hearts, and life seems to be out of order.
September 20xx to June 20xx, senior year, full-time internship. I go to work by bus for two hours every morning (at that time, subways in Beijing were few and expensive). After a busy day, I got off work for two hours. After watching the neon lights on the Third Ring Road, I usually go back to the dormitory at 9 o'clock in the evening to eat, play and do some homework. Go to sleep. Later, I moved to a place close to the company to rent a house. Go to work every day, get off work, go home to wash clothes and clean the floor, chat with the girls in the room, then go to sleep and start again the next day. After a long time, I always feel a little abnormal. It seems that my life is work. Besides, I have nothing to do. There are always obstacles in communicating with different people. If you don't understand society, others are not interested in school. At this moment, I realized a problem. I didn't balance my work and life. My life has no color except work. At this time, yvonne is exchanging schools in Canada. She often calls me to tell me how dreamy her piano room is, how beautiful the maple leaves are, and even the snow scenes on the streets there are particularly enviable. This makes my tangled heart more entangled.
I thought about it for a long time in bed. I have always wanted to learn piano. I've always wanted to start a blog to write down my little thoughts and progress in the process of growing up. I have always wanted to do public welfare and make myself a happy person. But I've been waiting, as if waiting for a better opportunity, and as if waiting for money? Or when my heart is ready. I just thought, wait. Keep telling more people what you think. I want this and I want that. But there was no action.
In June, watching an exclusive interview with cycling king Ge Biao, the 80-year-old father said the most: "There are some things you don't do now, and you won't do it again in your life." At that time, I was alone in the hotel room, gossiping online, and describing my thoughts with my classmates. The conversation was passionate, but at that moment, this sentence suddenly woke me up. I sat up and made a long-distance call back to Beijing. I found a piano teacher who had already made an appointment and asked her to start arranging lessons for me. I opened the Sina blog that I wrote for 65438+February in 2008 and stopped for half a year. I saw 20xx hits and those crooked words, and began to repost my words written in different places bit by bit.
After returning to Beijing, I quickly booked a plane ticket to Sichuan, and I began to ask many people to find me some children in need. I started to set up a small foundation with part of my salary, with a little money every month, hoping to help others more after a long time. At the same time, I began to travel with my heart, and I saved a fixed travel fund every month, so that I could travel farther and see more places when I had time. I found a teacher Zhai to popularize classical music and stock knowledge for me; I began to expand my contacts with my heart and invited others to eat and communicate; I began to learn to encourage and praise others instead of ignoring things I didn't like before. Reason is also a blow to others. I took out the English books on the shelf and began to recite words, watch English movies and American dramas. I began to buy all kinds of books in the bookstore to read and take notes. I started doing a lot of things I've been planning.
Today is September 26th. I can sit at the piano and play Kissing the Rain completely. I can even write my own music score by listening to simple music. The teacher said I surprised her. I began to listen to classical music with Mr. Zhai and realized the exquisiteness of abbado with my heart; I began to learn to look at the trend of stocks, learn to read financial books and learn to read annual reports, although I still don't seem to see any doorways; I set up the "Starlight Growth Plan" public welfare project, and there have been four privately donated projects, which have been generously helped by Teacher Zhai. I started blogging about my growth, career and life, which attracted more and more attention. I met great friends and founded my own brand and style. I even receive emails from at least ten netizens every day, and the text slowly becomes an article and is published directly.
I saw the Bund wrapped in white, and I saw the brightly lit Chongqing. Although many people in this place are on business trips, I have no chance to travel, so I will go at my own expense. I always remember the sentence "I'll go by myself when the environment is still".
I have met many outstanding people in different fields and benefited a lot from their study. I also met many people who are not so awesome but kind and gentle, and felt the taste of trust and sincerity; English, which I have always attached the most importance to, never understands the contents of company meetings. I laugh with others when they laugh, but I don't know why I laugh so hard that I can communicate freely with foreigners, and even learn to quarrel with foreigners and lose my temper.
Grandpa in America said that he remembered me as a hard worker because I was very busy every time I was invited to dinner. But now I'm busier. Besides work, there are many things to be busy. I told him that I didn't feel busy. The year I lost contact with him, I did a lot of things, and I learned to arrange everything in order. Only when there is something else in the balance of life besides work can work and life become balanced. He looked at me in surprise, watching me slowly drinking coffee in front of him, smiling shallowly, speaking English much more fluently than last year, and smiling sincerely and beautifully than last year. This year, I grew up very fast, because I really started to act, and my life has undergone qualitative changes.
Many times we think that with a good job, life will be meaningful and secure, but life is not just a rose. Many times we need to stand on the rose and look at other colors, and occasionally bring other colors to mix with the rose to see what flowers can bloom.
Eight-hour work determines your professional knowledge, your ability to earn money and eat, and all the fulcrums for you to become a social person; And eight hours outside of work can determine what kind of person you will become.
Why is the plan 100 and the action 0? Use the early hours of the morning to realize the 10 thousand-hour plan, make a good plan, and realize your wishes bit by bit.