I think it's not a bad thing to like buying funds, but only if you have enough capital to support your hobbies. If you borrow money to buy a fund, then the event that you buy a fund will go bad. But buying a fund is the same as buying stocks. If you can't control your desire to buy these things when your desire becomes infinitely strong, then it's the same as gambling.

Because I think you can analyze these interests with your boyfriend and let him know that there is a causal relationship. After all, it is impossible to expect the fund to get rich overnight, because it is just like gambling. If he wins, he will want to win more. If he loses, he will want to make a comeback. In fact, the same is true.

Therefore, you can tell your boyfriend these questions, and girls know them well. If he can listen, he'd better stop, make money and work with you. But if he doesn't listen and insists on buying these things, then I think it's time for you to change your boyfriend. Because of this, he will continue to indulge. He spends all his money on funds and borrows money. After a long time, his hole will get bigger and bigger and he can't fill it.

If you still want to have a good life with him, you must let him get rid of this problem, not just lip service, but really get rid of this problem of buying funds. Otherwise, even if you two continue to be together, this life will be hard. It is better to let go of himself and him and buy whatever he likes in the future, which has nothing to do with you and will not affect you. Don't think this idea is selfish. His idea of buying a fund is more selfish, because he never thought about your future with him. If he had thought about you and his future, he wouldn't be so extravagant.