Before, a terrible and vicious incident happened.

A 16-year-old female student went to visit her aunt alone during the winter vacation and was imprisoned at home for 24 days by a man in his fifties named Long Mohe for "hitchhiking".

The girl was locked in a cellar of less than 4 square meters, her neck was entangled in chains, and she was firmly locked by five iron locks, during which she was sexually assaulted many times.

When she was rescued, she was dirty and smelly, her hair was unkempt and her hands could not move.

You can imagine how the girl spent these 24 days in the dark. Physical wounds heal well, but mental injuries and fears can't be cured in a short time.

It is reported that Long and his criminal acts have been planned for a long time. He has been single, working outside for many years, and returned to the village to build a three-story building on 20 16. After that, he began to dig the cellar to prepare for future crimes.

He usually likes to watch some bad CDs, and his psychology is gradually distorted and abnormal, which leads to the criminal motive of imprisoning and raping her, and he buys iron rings, chains, electric batons, human skin masks, female wigs and other crime tools online.

Long Mohe's behavior is really outrageous. In order to satisfy one's own animal desires, infringe others' bodies and restrict others' personal freedom, one should be severely punished for deliberately ignoring the existence of the law.

However, according to the current law, the maximum sentence is more than ten years.

Many netizens said that such scum should be shot immediately, and staying in the world is also a scourge.

16 years old, it was the best time for a teenage girl, but it was destroyed by the devil. How pathetic.

The world is not all beautiful, there are places where the sun shines, and there are also dark sides where the sun can't shine.

Girls, walking between heaven and earth, must learn to protect themselves.

Schools, society and families should strengthen safety education for girls.

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Some people say this is like the Korean version of Su Yuan.

Zhao Doushun, the archetypal demon in the movie Su Yuan, will also be released from prison and return to the world next year.

As soon as this news came out, it caused an uproar in South Korea, and 600,000 people petitioned for it, hoping that Zhao Doushun would not be released and be changed to an indefinite period.

From the petition published by the Korean media, Zhao Doushun showed no remorse and always thought he was innocent. The prison guard said: "He has never repented and is considering how to live after he is released from prison."

Just like the criminal in the movie said to Su Yuan's father:

"How long do you think I can stay in it? I will go out one day. "

The devil is so rampant and hateful that you can't do anything about him. Is this the darkness of human nature or the weakness of law?

Everyone who has seen this movie has shed tears. The plot of the incident can be described as inhuman, and many people can't let go after watching the movie.

On a rainy morning, eight-year-old Su Yuan went to school with a small umbrella. Not far from the school, she met an uncle who looked wretched and drunk and wanted to play the same umbrella with her. The kind Su Yuan agreed.

Then she was sexually assaulted and injured by a pervert. When she was found, she was covered in blood, incontinent and in a serious coma.

After treatment and diagnosis, none of the intestines were intact, and the operation could only completely remove the damaged part, and the uterus was also removed. An artificial anus was installed, but she had to live with a poop bag all her life and could not have children.

It's not enough to get rid of such a perverted and inhuman demon.

However, every time a girl gets hurt, besides anger and heartache, should she reflect on her education?

Girls' safety education should start at an early age, and children should not be required to be kind. Kindness must have a bottom line, and we must lend a helping hand to others on the premise of ensuring our own safety.

While educating our children to be kind to others, we should also tell her that it is indispensable to guard against others.

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In recent years, girls have been injured frequently.

20 17 Many girls in a primary school in Hunan were molested by a teacher named Luo. On June 20 18, Lin, a girl under the age of 15, was raped by her stepfather. 20 18, 1 1, 13-year-old girls were raped, beaten, threatened and photographed nude by netizens.

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On March 2, 20 19, the girl protection fund of China children's culture and art foundation released the report of girl protection 20 18 on statistics of children's sexual assault cases and investigation report on sexual assault prevention education.

The report shows:

In 20 18, the monitoring media reported 3 17 cases involving more than 750 child victims.

Among the cases of sexual abuse of children, acquaintances committed 2 10, accounting for 66.25%.

Of the 750 child victims, 80% are children under 14 years old.

These are just the tip of the iceberg, and there are many unreported cases.

After being hurt, many girls are threatened or ashamed, and dare not speak out. On the contrary, they encourage the arrogance of criminals, and some even suffer repeated violations.

If these girls were given sex education earlier and let her know that her private parts can't be touched by others, even the closest people, maybe the tragedy can be reduced a lot.

People in China always talk about "sex" and think that children are still young, which is also a difficult topic, so it is delayed again and again, and even some parents have never talked about this topic with their children.

But you think children are young, and those criminals don't think so.

In western countries, especially Sweden, sex education has been listed as a compulsory course in schools since 1955.

Sexual violence and publicity materials, including movies, videos and books and periodicals, are prohibited from being sold and broadcast by laws and regulations, and these "yellow" publications are simply not found in shops in Sweden.

Sweden started from 1933. After nearly 70 years of sex education, the prevalence of sexually transmitted diseases in Sweden is extremely low, and almost no girls under the age of 20 are pregnant and give birth.

The implementation of a series of national measures and the popularization of sex education have made the whole social atmosphere much fresher and the crime rate has dropped significantly.

Sex education depends not only on schools, but also on parents' obligation to explain this knowledge to their children and give them reasonable guidance according to their different age groups.

Let every child understand that he should not only learn to protect himself, but also respect others.

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Writer Qilu said: I always think that the best quality of girls is kindness. But the kinder you are, the deeper you are hurt by the bad guys. This is not good or wrong, but your lack of skills to protect yourself.

A girl must learn the skills of protecting herself before becoming a kind person.

Parents' safety education for girls can start from the following aspects:

Talk less to strangers.

When you meet a stranger asking for help, you must be vigilant and observe the surrounding environment. Make sure there are many people around you and you have enough safety before you can help him.

Otherwise, go directly, never go with him, and go to the place he designated to help him.

Remember, people who really need help will not find weaker children than him.

Don't open the door casually

When the girl was alone at home, someone knocked at the door. Never open the door at once. Be sure to ask the reason clearly, and then call your parents to confirm before opening the door.

Don't ride alone

Girls should not ride or take a taxi alone, especially at night. It is best to go out with your family, or take buses, subways and other crowded means of transportation.

When in danger, be resourceful and try to deal with it.

Once a girl is in danger, she must be calm and try to deal with it. For example, shout to parents, "Dad, you are here." And so on, make the bad guys nervous and afraid to run away.

In fact, compared with girls' safety education, boys' education is also very important.

Parents with boys at home must tell their children to respect life, respect girls and be educated and responsible men.

Psychologist Fromm said:

Respect for life, respect for others and respect for one's own life are companionship in the process of life and a condition of mental health.

A person must learn to respect and fear the world in order to have a healthy mind, otherwise, this person can do anything.

I hope that the society can pay attention to this incident and the state can introduce stricter laws and regulations to crack down. I hope parents can give sex education to girls as early as possible, so that they can become thorny roses and better protect themselves. I hope there are fewer such tragedies in the world, so that every flower can bloom normally, bathe in spring breeze and sunshine, and grow into the most beautiful appearance.