It is said that it is the ideal old age for many people to have children and grandchildren around their knees and enjoy their old age, but some people prefer not to have a son and a daughter all their lives, which is what we often call double income no kids. Ms. Wang and her husband are college classmates. They have been in love for a long time. After graduation, they successfully entered the marriage hall. However, due to busy work, she and her classmates gradually neglected to contact each other, and in an instant they became aunts from girls.

At present, children in the neighborhood are all called by their aunts when they see Ms. Wang. She and her husband have entered middle age, but they have no children under their knees, but they are still living a chic life. Recently, the monitor of the university sent an email to her and her husband, saying that they were invited to attend the centenary celebration of the school, and by the way, she was invited to contact her classmates for many years.

On the anniversary day, the school was packed with people. It was incredible that the monitor of that year had become the dean of their college. Everyone had enough to eat and drink, and the male and female students of that year recalled the past and talked about their children.

"I don't know if you still remember that year. We said that if we had children, we would bring them to our alma mater to have a look. I didn't expect my child to travel by himself, but he just didn't come with me." Someone spoke, and everyone echoed, saying that their children were busy at work and at home.

"where are your children? What have you been up to lately? You and your husband are the only class in our class. " Someone spoke to Ms. Wang. Ms. Wang smiled. "We don't want to have children. We will use the money for raising a baby to support the elderly. I believe we will live a very chic life in our later years." Everyone knows that Ms. Wang and her wife are going to dink in the end.

Are the Dinks really smart in their later years? By contrast, it is obvious that < P > Are the Dinks really handsome in their later years? This makes many people who have lost their heads because of taking care of their children and grandchildren every day have doubts. Will a family without children be really happy and chic? Let's compare the difference between a family with children and a family without children.

1. Different financial pressures

Families with children know that raising children is really a huge expense. From the moment you are pregnant with a child, you must continuously invest money; After birth, he should also prepare for his life needs; When I grow up a little, I need a large amount of education fund. Many parents are bent over for their children.

Families without children don't need to think about this at all. They just need to support their parents and live a good life. The financial pressure is not so great, and they can save some money for their old age.

2. Different schedules

Families with children, even if they bring up their children, may have to help take care of their grandchildren, and they will stick to their children whenever they have free time. Some people are very happy with this life and enjoy family happiness; Some people are disgusted with this life and think that their life has been deprived by children.

In the old age of a childless family, you don't need to consider the children's problems. If you are not afraid of loneliness, you can go wherever you want. But relatively speaking, compared with families with children, their lives will be relatively quiet.

having children and not having children are two completely different choices. If we make one choice, we will give up the benefits brought by the other. Some people like to be busy at home, while others like to be quiet at home. What choice to make depends on the individual, and there is nothing to criticize.