In fact, Tao Hongkai of Huazhong Normal University is good, and the Chinese teacher has a strong psychology. Tongji hospital is also interested in science.
Children will rebel when they reach puberty, so parents need patient guidance at this stage.
If you can't communicate effectively, you can seek the help of a professional psychologist in a regular mental hospital.
It will help to enlighten children through scientific means and understand their inner thoughts so that they can get proper conditioning.