The starting point of jealousy is people's worries about their own vulnerability.
Apply the theme, focus on yourself, face reality or your own shortcomings, etc. The starting point of extreme eyesight is people's worries about their own vulnerability. Arrogant people are aware of their own shortcomings, while jealous people are jealous of their own shortcomings, and they will suffer from their own shortcomings. Because once people start to be jealous, it is to set up their own battlefield and tell themselves that they are trapped. Because of this, jealous people are often the most unfortunate people in the world. Measure people by yourself, what you see is just a corner in the well, and measure yourself by others, but what you see is the sky in Wan Li. In the face of jealousy, we all need an attitude that I have been dealing with me for a long time, preferring to be my attitude, relaxing my mind, being diligent and happy, and focusing on myself, so as to optimize myself.
If you want to provoke the other party, you only need to use fierce criticism as a weapon. Even if the internal criticism is reasonable, the other party may hold a grudge for life.
Apply the theme, dare to accept criticism, be broad-minded, etc. Dale Carnegie said that if you want to provoke each other, you only need to use fierce criticism as a weapon. In fact, that criticism is reasonable, and each other may hold a grudge for life. People don't like to accept criticism. Even if she is true and reasonable, in fact, being afraid of criticism actually hinders her progress. People can use copper as a mirror to dress their clothes, take the past as a mirror, know the rise and fall, and take people as a mirror to know the gains and losses. Wise people know how to use other people's criticism to see their true selves better and improve themselves better.
Many people can't be good communicators, mainly because they only talk about things that interest them, but these things make others feel bored.
For the example of thinking about the way to get along with others from the perspective of the theme, the essence of all the behavioral motives of people in this world is self-interest. In communication with others, the topic of conversation will always be more inclined to pay attention to yourself and discuss things that interest you, even if it makes others feel boring. When we get along with our family, we always care about whether we are satisfied or not, and never consider what our family thinks. When a person is addicted to himself, it is often easy to be far away from others. Knowing empathy, learning to listen to others with humility, and putting yourself in others' shoes will make life less fettered and more smooth.
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