From campus to society.
The biggest feeling is that society is becoming more and more complex.
A person's emotional intelligence is more important than his or her IQ.
High emotional intelligence is really important nowadays.
Especially after entering the workplace.
Facing all kinds of colleagues and leaders.
Have high emotional intelligence.
You will quickly win the appreciation and respect of colleagues and leaders.
People with high emotional intelligence.
That is what old people often call a talkative person.
Everyone flatters me very well.
Naturally, it will be loved by most people.
Just as the old saying goes, say good things to others, but being upright is annoying.
After entering the society, I suddenly discovered that everything is different from the campus.
The most important task on campus is to study.
Live a carefree life.
Don't worry about tuition and living expenses, your parents will call you when the time comes.
You can also go shopping around in your spare time.
Buy some clothes that you like and other things that interest you.
In short, there is nothing to worry about.
It's different when you enter society.
Suddenly I found that I had to worry about everything myself.
Want to rent a house.
Negotiate price.
At this time, I suddenly felt that there was too little knowledge in this area.
Brainstorm immediately.
Just as this matter was resolved, another matter came up.
Again, quick thinking is needed.
The house is settled.
Transportation needs to be solved again.
The rents for houses that are particularly close to the unit are particularly high.
The rent is cheaper if it is further away from the unit, but transportation is a problem.
I spend almost two hours standing on the subway every day.
Morning rush hour subway.
It really leaves people with no place to stand.
Later, I suddenly discovered that I was working hard in first-tier cities.
It's really too difficult.
I just joined the job and my income is very meager.
It’s simply not enough in first-tier cities.
I have no choice but to cry for poverty to my parents.
Fortunately, my parents are generous and I have to pay them thousands of dollars every month.
Survival can be considered temporary.
But things like this still happen at work.
Get along with leaders and interact with colleagues.
It really all requires a lot of brain power.
Or when do you think you can have a lot of imagination?
All problems were solved.
society and school.
The contrast is too great.
Not long after joining the job.
You need to write a paper to catch up with the unit.
And this paper must be reported step by step.
So the leader assigned this task to me.
For me, a newly graduated college student, writing a thesis should be an easy and enjoyable thing.
After communicating with some old employees soon.
Learned about the status of some companies.
The paper is finished.
Also report to the branch in a timely manner.
The branch office gave the first prize and reported it directly to the head office.
The head office directly awarded a second prize.
Damn, I saw the list and rewards announced at that time.
The bonus is huge, about 50,000 yuan.
But when it comes to my hands.
But only 1,000 yuan.
Leader, you want to talk to me.
Say you are still young and this is not the time to make money.
What about the time to make money in the future?
This money is basically all that is left after layers of exploitation.
At that moment, I felt that society was really complicated.