After we got married, the house we lived in was one of the houses that Xiaowen's parents bought a few years ago. My mother-in-law asked me to give her my salary card for safekeeping and to pay me living expenses every month.

This kind of life has been going on for 8 years. Over the past eight years, I have hated my mother-in-law. I really can't live with such a life of being dependent on others. I think about buying a small two-bedroom house by myself and completely getting rid of my mother-in-law's control.

As soon as I said I wanted to buy a house, Xiaowen immediately said she would find a way to get back the salary card I left with my mother-in-law.

Xiaowen went back home and got the card back as expected.

There was an ATM at the door of the sales office. When I saw the balance on my card, I was stunned. There was actually 900,000 in it.

Later I found out that my mother-in-law not only didn’t touch a penny of my salary, but also transferred money to my card every month.

It was already very obvious that the visiting son-in-law had misunderstood his mother-in-law.

What the visiting son-in-law has to do next is actually very simple, that is, be filial to his mother-in-law and treat her as his own mother.

Should a son-in-law respect his father-in-law and mother-in-law?

Filial piety comes first. You get married because you love each other. You must also love everything about her, including her relatives.

A child can never repay the kindness of his parents in his lifetime.

Parents' love for their children is lifelong, while children's love for their parents is short-lived, so it is necessary to honor your parents and father-in-law.

First, it is a matter of course.

Everyone has double parents. As a man, the other parent is the father-in-law and mother-in-law.

As the saying goes, a son-in-law is half a son.

Isn’t it natural for children to honor their parents?

Second, compare your heart to your heart.

A son-in-law should honor his father-in-law and his mother-in-law just as a daughter-in-law should honor her parents-in-law.

If our daughter-in-law doesn't honor our parents, how will we feel?

Third, life allows it.

Nowadays, every household has led a well-off life, and it is no longer an extra burden to spend a few hundred yuan every month or every festival to buy some nutritional supplies for the parents-in-law.

In short, it is good to combine two good things into one, and everything will be prosperous for the family.

As a man, don't worry about trivial matters, but be informal and sincere in honoring your parents-in-law.

Whether a son-in-law should be filial to his father-in-law and mother-in-law is undoubtedly a matter of duty and a responsibility. It is a traditional Chinese virtue to be filial to the elderly, especially in many one-child families. If you don’t respect your father-in-law, who will respect you? Only by respecting each other and loving each other can a family be happy. Society

Only then can we achieve harmony and hope that everyone will have love.

How can I make my old mother-in-law like me?

First of all, to make the old man happy, the prerequisite for happiness is that you must do your best to be good to his daughter. Without this prerequisite, everything else is out of the question!

Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife should be harmonious and loving. If the daughter is happy, the parents will naturally love you as their son-in-law!

Secondly, your own character must be decent. No one will like a lazy person. You should be diligent. The most taboo thing about going to your wife’s parents’ house is holding a mobile phone. When you have nothing to do, you can’t help mop the floor or brush the floor.

Wash the dishes.