A person's confidence in himself is actually a very powerful physical quality. To have this level, we must start from getting to know ourselves gradually. You can't have a sense of belonging if you don't know yourself. Women with higher EQ usually have some psychological knowledge, and they all know how to change their daily life and mentality through psychological knowledge. So what are really outstanding women doing? Let's take a look.
First, stop denying your daily life. Most of the feelings of pain and unhappiness are due to too much criticism of yourself. The more women with high emotional intelligence know one thing, that is, everyone will face the ceiling in the process of development. But what determines whether you can break through yourself is not how much professional knowledge I have, nor what kind of ability you have at this stage, but that you have a good attitude when dealing with problems all the time.
In the process of our growth, it is not difficult to see that in many ways, the skills mentioned are only one level, regardless of exams or students' employment, whether social or emotional, and this ability must be based on personal psychological quality, otherwise it will not be able to give full play to the role of skills.
Your evaluation of yourself actually determines your fate. So, from today on, when you have some negative thoughts in your mind, you must know how to find it, find this and tell yourself that all you have to do is accept this lack. Because everyone is not perfect, just like Venus, sometimes it happens that ours is not perfect, which makes them unique.
Second, accept your own shortcomings. I know a lot of women. When you meet a boy you like, you are always not confident. When you meet a field that you are not good at, you sometimes feel insecure about your career. Even if you meet someone more valuable than you, you will feel that you are not good enough. This phenomenon shows that sometimes you can't accept your own shortcomings. What I want to say is that you don't need to be too anxious. If you accept your shortcomings, you will know that everyone has shortcomings, not just you. The key is how you look at your shortcomings.
If we want to change the status quo, we must distort our thinking and say to ourselves, as long as we only want to show our advantages. You must be clear that sometimes you may spend ten times as much effort on defects and it is difficult to change them, so you can only improve a little, but you may give full play to your advantages with half the effort. Don't forget, your bright spots will cover up your small shortcomings. Most people can only remember your bright spots, and you don't have to care about your own shortcomings.
Third, admit your value in interpersonal communication. Many people always feel that they have a sense of worthlessness, especially when they meet people who are better than themselves. In fact, the root of such pain is that you always think too much about other people's opinions. The fact is that in most cases, people don't pay much attention to you, that is, you overestimate the opinions of others.
If you want to live a more meaningful life, the key is to know yourself correctly and solve other people's opinions. You know, no matter how good people are, there are reformers. There is no doubt that the true self is not looking for others' affirmation. Only by understanding this truth can you really grow up.
Finally, I want to say that every girl's development process is not easy, and she has to face many traps and friction resistance. But it doesn't matter, please believe me, stick to it and your daily life will always get better and better.