You have to send colorful stationery and rulers to know where the mountains are long and where the water is wide.
There is no doubt about love when you are married.
For my heart, for your heart, we will know each other and remember each other deeply.
Since ancient times, love has been intoxicating and admirable. The beauty of love lies in two of a kind, which is as tender as water. What kind of love is beautiful, or what kind of love that likes each other is beautiful? What kind of two people will love happen to? Love is not a person with different personalities, you can learn from each other's strengths, and you are not the first to arrive. Love just meets the right person at the right time. Some people may disagree with this view, so let's take a look at the concrete examples in Ode to Joy.
Let's start with Andy In the play, she has many suitors and is also very singular. She is a self-made boss. As the name implies, she is extremely clever. Although she has no outstanding appearance, she has her own unique views on investment. Sleek and sophisticated, he was attracted by the smart and beautiful Andy. Chasing her step by step, although he knew everything about her, accepted it all, and proposed successfully, why did he finally regret breaking up? And it was Andy's determination that there was no room for it.
Some people may say that singularity is actually very suitable for Andy, but not necessarily, he is too realistic and rational, his love is too deliberate, and Andy is too pure and emotional. Singularity is attracted to see Andy, but Andy is too depressed when he sees Singularity, because Andy instinctively wants to resist and escape from his life, and Singularity wants to uncover her blood, which is too different and harmful, and it is inevitable to break up.
Let's talk about Lao Tan. Lao Tan is simply a male god, both in and out of the play. As a boss, he is extremely competent and excellent, and as a friend, he is particularly excellent. Just because he sees everything from Andy's point of view and puts her thoughts first is enough to illustrate this point. A handsome, talented, successful and excellent male god is attractive and irresistible to anyone, but why can't he win Andy's heart?
Maybe you will say that Lao Tan never confessed, but from trying to get Andy back to China to trying to help her find her brother, she immediately appeared by her side. Why can't such a good man capture a beautiful heart? Anyone who has seen Ode to Joy knows that Lao Tan is a good friend of Andy's position, and he keeps himself very tight. As soon as Andy refused, he backed off immediately. It has never been as powerful as a singularity, nor has it ever been as entangled as Bao Xiao. He clearly and rationally put himself in the position of a friend, never stepped forward, and even rationally analyzed Andy's feelings and views on chasing boys.
Finally, let's talk about Bao Yifan and Bao Xiao, the walking "hormones". Why did he show up at the latest, but finally won the beauty home? I don't think it's his fancy way to pick up girls, although his moves really make many people unable to cope, which is a wonderful way to pick up girls. It's more about his perseverance and intention, because obviously he knows more about love and understands that love can't be separated from love and needs sincere care.
After getting Andy's itinerary from Qu Xiaoyu, he appeared in surprise, met him in Thailand, and then began to sell cute and stupid, "seeking asylum" and shamelessly entered Andy's room. After I checked in successfully, I found an opportunity to show off my good figure. After Andy was unmoved, I began to pursue the beach again, showing my concern for Andy all the time. You'd better give her a taste of the cake first. Inadvertently causing Andy's sadness, he began to joke humorously and changed the subject.
Know that Andy is cold on the outside and soft on the inside. So he pestered Andy to go out to play, rode a motorcycle and drove Andy through the streets to taste all kinds of food, which virtually narrowed our distance. A wonderful night is also a big show of cooking. As long as Andy is around, it always brings her peace of mind and warmth. Always warm and direct to Andy, he said, "You can have the right to refuse, but I also have the right to pursue." No matter how many times you meet a cold face, you always get together enthusiastically.
The most touching thing is that in Beijing, Andy always appears when he is most helpless and vulnerable, strong and warm. Although a little rogue and cute, he will also want to take advantage, but this does not affect his kindness to Andy at all. On the contrary, Andy's affection for him is growing day by day, and he has been with him all the time, never saying much, but silently shining her with his own sunshine.
Andy's life experience once hurt her deeply, and the singularity gave her bloody reality, endless fear and struggle; Lao Tan gave her care like a friend, but she still couldn't eradicate her inner panic. Xiao Bao is always an unusually warm embrace. In this kind of warmth, Andy's fear can be warmed layer by layer and turned into a ray of light in the sun until it is covered with dust and disappears.
This may be the difference between Singularity and Andy. They have been in love for several months, but Bao Xiao can always be compared with Andy in rolling sheets! Love is so unexpected, but it is real!
Love is love, and it can't stand careful calculation. She is strong and can stand the wind and waves, but she is weak and can't stand the dull, but she can't stand the step-by-step and deliberate.
Love alone is not enough, but also care.
True love irrigates your heart and cares for your fears!
Ode to Joy 2: For biased parents, I agree that love is filial but disobedient.
Ode to Joy 2: Destiny is doomed.
Ode to Joy: Love is not a naked glance, but a scarf with a scar on its neck.
Ode to Joy: Red wine with jiaozi, men's scheming under the pattern of picking up girls.
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