I have a friend named Brother Donkey. Brother Donkey's girlfriend Macey has a male best friend. According to Macey, they have known each other for six years, and their relationship has always been very good. Because Macey said so from the beginning, Brother Donkey never cared. But one day, Macey wanted to eat lobster, and Brother Donkey worked overtime temporarily, so he asked Macey to go with her friends. As a result, Macey only found her boyfriend. Nothing, but in the evening, Brother Donkey brushed his circle of friends after work and saw Macey send a screenshot in the circle of friends, which is the content of her boyfriend's circle of friends. The text is that I will always accompany you, and the picture is a close selfie of two people sneaking around. Brother donkey said it exploded at that time. What kind of boyfriend and girlfriend is this? Isn't such intimate behavior out of line? But Macey said, what's the matter? They have known each other for many years and talked about everything. Pure friendship and close contact with good friends are nothing!
To tell the truth, when Brother Donkey told me this, I was particularly angry, especially when Brother Donkey told Macey that he could accept the existence of male girlfriends, but at least he would be worried about his boyfriend's feelings. Boyfriends should be heavier than male girlfriends, but Macey says she doesn't know who is more important …
Sodium O 'Chenate, I swear! Isn't this in the name of loving me and embracing everything I have, hurting people close to me at will? It's understandable to keep feelings and complain, but it's hard to accept asking out to do what couples do. When my partner asked, she said it was my best friend. There's nothing between us … I'm really a million grass mud horses rushing by, and there's nothing wrong with a green grassland overhead. Can you cover up an ambiguous relationship by wearing a coat of friendship?
I posted a status in my circle of friends last night. The content is two questions. The first question is what do you think of the other half having a heterosexual girlfriend? The second question is, do you have a girlfriend of the opposite sex? I received a lot of replies just after sending the status, which are generally divided into three categories. The first category is resolutely opposed to the partner having a girlfriend of the opposite sex, but he does! The second category can understand each other, as long as it is not too much, there are also girlfriends of the opposite sex! The third category is firmly opposed, no one! Then I found a very interesting phenomenon. Basically, the answer is that the second category has no partners, while the answer is that the first category is all girls.
What is a man's best friend? Many girls think that boyfriends and boyfriends are the kind of boyfriends who bully you. You can chat with him, go shopping and eat together, be a consultant in love and be a partner in life. Just like Cai Kangyong and S, Li Daren and Cheng Youqing, Huang Xiaoming and Zhao Wei. They can communicate with you from the perspective of men, cry and laugh with you and give you a shoulder to lean on, so basically every girl wants to have a male girlfriend in her heart. But if their other half has a girlfriend of the opposite sex, they will feel unsafe. They think that boyfriends are incapable of grasping that degree, or that men have ulterior motives! The girlfriends of the opposite sex are just playing with each other to dredge the export of excess hormones. A real man, regardless of whether the opposite sex is a woman or not, will never have any wild desires for a girl who has been with him for many years unless he bends over! Is it contradictory? I feel that my boyfriend has wild desires for other girls, and at the same time, I feel that other boys and myself are just simple friendships!
The reason why there are the above phenomena is not the simple fault of boys or girls, but the word heterosexual girlfriends has long changed its taste. Many people with bad intentions consume other people's feelings under the banner of "girlfriends". I think the normal friendship between the opposite sex should be like Lao Tan and Andy in Ode to Joy, which is above family ties and friendship, emphasizing mutual respect and never developing further. As a boy, you can have good friends of the opposite sex, but there is no need to rise to the point that you are her boyfriend's best friend, and you will never intervene in what other boyfriends can do, and you will never do anything beyond the boundaries of friendship. As a girl who actively reduces the intersection with her boyfriend after having a boyfriend, you can still have tea and chat, just pay attention to her feelings and don't let the so-called boyfriend become a bomb buried beside her. As long as you take your feelings seriously enough and grasp the scale, it's no big deal!