First, observe words and deeds, understand people's hearts

If you want to get everyone's appreciation at the wine table, you must learn to observe other people's words and deeds. Interpersonal communication, we must understand people's hearts and be able to play a good role on the wine table.

In fact, a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communication manners can be displayed on the wine table. Sometimes a humorous remark will leave a deep impression on people and make them feel good about you invisibly.

Therefore, a woman in a wine shop should know when to speak and use the right language.

Second, persuade people to drink moderately, and don't force them.

There is often a phenomenon of persuading people to drink in the wine field. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic not to drink enough. Talk about heroes with wine, but sometimes too much persuasion will destroy friends' feelings.

Therefore, women in the wine field should pay more attention to this in order to persuade alcohol moderately.

Third, aim at the host and the guest, and grasp the overall situation

At the banquet, we should first look around everyone's expressions and prioritize, and don't lose the opportunity to make friends just for a sip of wine, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's intention.

You should know that at family dinners, toasts are divided according to age. Generally speaking, in the order of status and the status of subject and object, the order of toasting must be fully considered before toasting, and the priorities should be clear.

even if you are drinking with strangers, you should first ask the identity of the other person or pay attention to the address of the other person, so as to know what you are talking about and avoid the embarrassing situation afterwards.

Of course, when you propose a toast to a guest, you should pay more respect to him, but it should be noted here that if the people present have higher status or older people, you should first propose a toast to those older people.

Fourth, don't whisper on the wine table

There are many guests at most banquets, so we should talk about some topics that most people can participate in as much as possible to gain the approval of most people.

Because everyone's interests and knowledge are different, so try not to be too biased in the theme, so as to avoid being alone there.

especially, don't whisper to others, which often makes people feel jealous of "just the two of you".

I believe we have encountered many such situations at ordinary times. Everyone chatted at the banquet, and then two people chatted secretly. When they found that everyone was staring at themselves, they would say, "We didn't say anything."

But others will think it's a cover-up, and whether these two people are speaking ill of others.