I can’t express the pain of being single. Who will accompany me when I walk, and who will I talk to when I sit down? He knows how hot and cold he is, how many days he has when he is full and hungry; when he is thirsty, he pours himself a drink, and when he is cooking, he forgets the salt. Looking forward to the dawn late at night, thinking about the moon in the daytime; small and big things, little by little, must be done with one's own hands in order to achieve success. These words talk about the impatience of single life. Being single, a topic that many people may encounter, is really annoying. It is said that there are currently about 200 million single people. If true, that’s really a lot!

Single life is really not unfamiliar to me. I have been running around for a living since I was a child, basically living a single life. After working, I live alone in a workplace. I have to learn to do everything by myself and not rely on others. Although it is hard, it is also a good exercise. When I started learning to wash clothes, I either ran out of soap or had too much washing powder. I rubbed the left side and forgot about the right side. After washing the sleeves, I forgot to wash the collar. What's even more frightening is that as soon as the clothes were soaked in the basin, they went out. When they came back half a month later, long hairs had grown on the clothes. When I started to learn how to cook food, it was either overcooked or I forgot to add salt. Otherwise, repeat the same thing every day without changing some tricks. Once, a colleague named Jiang invited me to cook some food together. He burned the fire very high, cooked the cabbage, mixed the ingredients, and put a lot of white oil, that is, the refined lard. He put the lard in the soup and scalded it, and ate it when dipping it into the vegetables. It had a very refreshing fragrance, and I was able to drink it. Incredible. If you don't know how to do it yourself, your unit will have a canteen and you can handle it. Gradually, there were snack vendors. At first, the noodles cost only 10 cents a bowl, and after two or three years, they only cost 20 cents. The taste was also very good. However, as time goes by, everyone likes to do it themselves. Once the furniture is complete and the business is done, it can be done quickly without wasting time. You can cook whatever you want. Cooking and eating are both a great enjoyment. Doing it yourself is really a blessing. After doing laundry and making food, single life is not so scary anymore.

It’s not scary, but we need to strengthen our studies. Reading, traveling, caring about the body, sewing, having fun, socializing, and health knowledge are basically unfamiliar fields. When I first started working, I didn’t know the importance of studying. When I had free time, I either wandered around or immersed myself in sleep. Later, inspired by others, I would occasionally look for pieces of paper to look at. It was just the Yanhe trademark. Newspapers were hard to find, and magazines were even rarer. Later, I felt that this was not the solution. I heard someone said that I could order it myself at the post office, so I went to the post office and ordered a newspaper and several publications, and that was the beginning of my studies. Tourism is simply based on the shabby. Isn’t it about traveling thousands of miles and reading thousands of books? If you don’t have the conditions for traveling, you just want to climb mountains for the time being. If you want to go down to the river, it’s no higher than a state or county, and it’s only a hundred miles away. It’s not a real journey. Travel can only be regarded as a preview of travel. As for paying attention to the body, that is not something that can be done in a day. Although the body is your own, you really don’t dare to say that you will pay attention to it. Young people are like this. They don't put on more clothes when it's cold, and they just sleep when they feel uncomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable, you should ask why. Find out the cause, whether it is a cold or a fever, and get some suitable medicine and take it. When it comes to mending, it turns out that needles are used. Either the hands are pricked or the things that should be sewn are not sewn, and the things that should not be sewn are connected to the same piece. Others can fly the stitches, but my own clothes are missing pieces. Without tempering, others Want to sew well. In Yule, people play ball, swing, swim and fish, shout fist orders, and call friends. You are an honest big boy, what are you trying to do? Most of the time you think about it day and night. Over time, I had trouble sleeping and went to see a doctor. The doctor told me to think less and think more. What are you thinking about? Actually, you really don’t think about anything. Occasionally I think of the joy of mountain climbing, the echo of the mountain when I shout, the unpredictable clouds, are there really gods who bring auspiciousness? These are my thoughts. I really don’t know how to communicate. This is the trouble of being honest. I envy others who have many acquaintances, but they don’t realize that acquaintances are transformed from strangers. Natural acquaintances are parents, brothers and sisters. Other people have a process of getting to know each other. But if you're used to being ignorant, just ignore him and enjoy yourself.

In this kind of single life, most of the relatives and friends are not around, and the outside world is exciting but also very boring. As the saying goes, when you are thirty-five years old, your clothes are torn and there is no one to repair them. As for communication, it is better not to communicate with each other. The ancients all suddenly sighed in this regard; "it is easy to make waves from the ground", let alone ordinary people of our generation.

Naturally, single life is also fun. On Sundays, you can sleep in without anyone disturbing you. If you have a group of singles visiting you, you can also chat for a while without any worries. When you are troubled and don’t want to deal with people, you can go out alone and talk to them in the mountains and rivers. You can also go to the ancient temples and bridges to reminisce about the ancient feelings, or strike far away to find some romance. When you climb high, you can see the people going south and north, and the rolling dust, and you can feel nostalgic for people far away, which is very interesting. Unlucky in middle age, it becomes even more embarrassing to be single after his wife passes away. To say too much is nothing more than lamenting and lamenting. Falling into clichés is not a positive meaning, and the impact is not appropriate, so it’s okay not to write about it.

Not everyone can taste the pain and joy of single life. It would be better not to have one. Who wouldn’t want to have a wonderful childhood when they were young, fly together when they were young, and have companions who depend on each other as they grow old? If you have it, you should face it calmly and strive for it actively. If God has eyes, there is no telling if luck will improve. If you treat the whole world as your friend, you will have less worries and more joy. If luck favors you and you meet someone you like and know, wouldn't it be more satisfying? Work hard, single friends, no matter whether being single is bitter or joyful, the morning when you wake up is beautiful!