The greatest joy and happiness in life is to gain the trust of others.

The day before yesterday, a friend sent me a private message: She said that she worked in a very good private enterprise. Because she was so good, the leader always asked her to do things that others could not do.

She was very angry and confused, and asked me what should I do?

I replied to her: "Any company must make you happy. If you feel unhappy, either you leave your current company or you choose to start your own business. Never let emotions control your work."

Why should I advise her that she has the final say in her own affairs, because there are only 1 or 2 opportunities in a person's life from what he wants in his heart.

A Harvard University survey report: On average, a person only has 7 opportunities to determine the direction of his life. The interval between two opportunities is about 7 years. Opportunities begin to appear after the age of 22 and will not occur after the age of 75. What a chance.

The 7 opportunities in the past 50 years were not easy to seize the first time because they were too young. There was no need to seize the last time because they were too old. There are only 5 opportunities left. Among these 5 opportunities, there is no need to seize them. I missed it twice accidentally, so I only had 3 chances.

There seem to be three opportunities that belong to you, but often when we are faced with opportunities, we cannot see the opportunity, or even the opportunity that belongs to us. We may miss another opportunity, but in reality We may only have two opportunities. If we are not careful, we may have one opportunity.

I especially like to share with you the experiences of China’s most successful entrepreneurs.

You may ask me: Why do you always share the stories of Jack Ma, Liu Qiangdong and other big guys? We can’t become them either.

You are wrong!

Both Liu Qiangdong and Jack Ma share the same secret of success, which is to defy the public opinion and only believe in themselves at critical moments.

At a meeting, Liu Qiangdong said that JD.com would invest heavily in developing its own logistics system. This news was like a meteorite that hit the entire conference room with mixed opinions.

As we all know, compared with other e-commerce platforms, JD.com’s own profits are very low. Investing such a huge sum of money to develop logistics means that JD.com will not be profitable for a long time, or even Operating with debt.

In response to this, a senior executive of JD.com immediately stood up and objected. Many people also advised Liu Qiangdong to think twice before acting. In today's express delivery industry, where there are more wolves than meat, don't arbitrarily make enemies for yourself. The entire conference room Full of dissenting voices.

Today’s JD Logistics has become a benchmark in the logistics industry. In the 2019 Fortune Global 500 rankings, JD ranked first in China’s Internet industry for four consecutive years and third among global Internet companies.

Jack Ma, the founder of Alibaba, is even more domineering. He once made harsh words in an internal meeting of Alibaba: In the first three months of joining Alibaba, I will fire anyone who dares to discuss strategy with me. This kind of "dictatorship" has made Jack Ma the richest man in China.

This is the secret of Liu Qiangdong and Jack Ma's success - my ideas are right, what I say is right, and I always believe in myself. This seemingly unreasonable creed has made him a wealthy man.

Meaning: Strategies can only be discussed with a few people and cannot be decided by everyone.

Insist on independent thinking and have your own unshakable opinions. No matter whether your decision is wrong or right, you must persevere bravely.

There is no absolute right or wrong in everything. If you are used to listening to other people's opinions and making decisions about your own life, then you will become used to mediocrity.

If a person wants to do something, you ask ten people. If nine people object, it proves that you are right, then you should continue to do it resolutely.

If ten people agree, then you give up completely.

When Jack Ma founded Alibaba, 23 out of 24 people opposed it. Jack Ma still persisted because he saw his real opportunity in the opposition of others.

You must be your own life coach.

Sooner or later in life, you have to rely on yourself, follow your inner intuition, and believe that you can do everything you want to do.

For us, when we make decisions about some important things in life, we cannot discuss them with everyone.

Because everyone has their own world view, outlook on life and values. Many people cannot see themselves clearly, so they are not qualified to decide your life.

Just do it if you see it right. If you discuss it with others, it may be difficult for you to be convinced by others.

As social animals, we inevitably need to seek opinions from others on everything in life:

As small as where to eat and whether this dress looks good; as big as what professional school to attend. , with whom to fall in love and get married, etc.

Our ears are full of other people’s opinions.

Our hearts are filled with all kinds of complex and fragile emotions. We always want to gain the recognition and recognition of most people first, and gain enough comfort before we have the courage to act.

Steve Jobs said: "Your time is limited, don't waste it repeating other people's lives, and don't let other people's opinions drown out your inner voice."

American economist Wedge He once proposed a theorem:

You have been waiting for the most suitable time to do what you want to do. Some people have been waiting for the pie in the sky all their lives. But there are 7 billion people in the world, how can you do it? Guaranteed pie will fall into your mouth?

The most terrifying thing in human life is that before a person is old, his heart is already dead. When his heart is dead, time will also die.

Don’t wait and see what happens, and wonder, “Where did the time go?”

Hesitation is the primary enemy of life.

Zhuge Liang said: If you continue to cut off, you will suffer from chaos.

The biggest risk in the Internet era is hesitation and wait-and-see.

"The nights are long and there are many dreams, and the days are long and there are many things to do."

There is not much time to hesitate about what you want to do, because when you are hesitating and wandering, others have already run ahead of you.

Opportunities, if you seize them, they are golden, if you miss them, they are wasted money!

A man must believe in himself, to love, to hate, to succeed, to make mistakes, to fail...

Conclusion

If you believe in yourself, you will always have success. Chances are, you don’t have to completely believe Harvard University’s research.

As long as you firmly believe in yourself and are willing and able to create opportunities, the wealth you want is waiting for you!

Believe in yourself!

You are the cutest and most respectable person!

You are also the most precious and priceless treasure!