Nowadays, I don’t know how many people are writing articles related to love. Their affection is so lingering that it makes people cry. I also don’t know how many people are crazy about love. Their food is tasteless and they can’t sleep and shed tears! What's more, in order to achieve his wish, he will not hesitate to hurt others, and even die for love. The depth of his obsession and obsession is truly amazing! But I really don’t know if this approach is inappropriate? Is it worth it? Compared with them who risk their lives for love, then I am a person who does not understand love, because I will never hurt others or myself because of love, let alone give up my life for it!
What does love look like? I don't know. Because it is not a specific person, I cannot see its face! I have never seen the color of love with my own eyes, because it always hides itself too deeply, so it is difficult for me to tell! As for what it tastes like, it’s not oil, salt, soy sauce or vinegar, you can just taste it! Love is just a feeling, an indescribable and unspeakable feeling! Sometimes it just happens to be an illusion! It leads people's pursuit of happiness astray, tempts you into the quagmire of pain, and leaves you in a dilemma and struggling to move forward! Love is also a beautiful poppy flower. Its fragrance lures people's desire for happiness into a misty and illusory realm, making people feel like they are falling into a confused cloud. It is difficult to distinguish between true and false, and they will die without knowing where they are! Love is also a persistent and beautiful belief that is yearned for and longed for. Once it takes root in the mind, people will be willing to go through fire and water for it, even giving up everything around them, including their most precious life! Pay for love, no matter how heavy the price is, you will not hesitate, no regrets! This is the so-called true love that many people pursue and expect.
True love cannot be identified by trademarks or labels. The emotion of childhood sweethearts who get along day and night may not be able to withstand the storms of life! Not to mention the love at first sight that many people yearn for and pursue! How can it be so reliable and believable! Today, when the Internet is so developed, many people give up their emotions easily just because of a few remote chats. They do not hesitate to destroy and abandon their families, and they do not hesitate to hurt their relatives. Is this true from the heart? True love. I don't think so. Otherwise, how could there be so many people hurt by love and destroyed by love!
The unforgettable feeling that a casual relationship or a few kind words can make people's hearts flutter and make them never forget it, that feeling of regretting seeing each other so late, that feeling of worrying about others, is Not a love? I don’t know and I can’t explain it clearly, but it is an extremely common beginning of an infatuated love in those literary works or film and television dramas. For two people who meet for the first time, the most eye-catching thing is naturally the glamorous appearance, the handsome and graceful figure. But we can’t see the soul hidden deep in the other person’s heart! So this feeling, for others, may be a kind of love. But for me, I will never come to this conclusion easily. Because the love I pursue is sacred love that is free from any blasphemy. It is a beautiful love without any harm. I don’t want the kind of love that hurts others; I don’t want the kind of love that hurts myself. I believe that if my love is obtained by hurting others, my conscience will bear a heavy cross. Will I still be happy in my life? And if my love has left me scarred all over before I get it, then will my soul have entered heaven after getting it? What meaning does such love have! I am not a fantasy, let alone a superstitious. If we are miserable and unable to stay together in this life, how confident can we be in the unknown afterlife? ! I am a realistic person, and what I pursue is a happy life, so I will not seek trouble for love! To destroy other people's families or ignore family and friendship for the sake of what I call love, I don't think that is love, it is just a selfish, heartless and moral behavior! Maybe I'm a person who doesn't understand love, so I never expect that I can have some infatuated love that can shake the world and make people weep.
For me, life is that bowl of plain water. While not hurting others or myself, it is enough as long as there is someone who can drink with me willingly and with a smile.
So, I frankly admit that I am a person who does not understand love! But I know that love is a great word and a great emotion. Because no matter who you are, as long as you hear someone say "I love you" to you, especially the person you miss day and night, you will feel that you are the happiest and only person in the world! How could one not be so elated that he would do whatever it takes to ruin his life! The greatness of love is that it can make you risk your life, disregard friendship and family ties, and even go to any lengths to destroy yourself and others! Its greatness is that it is like a ruthless bomb, which will destroy a person's spiritual world and the real world in an instant! So love is also an invisible double-edged sword. It will always hurt some people who shouldn't be hurt intentionally or unintentionally! Look at the people around us, we don’t know how many people are so heartbroken by this great love that they are in pain and are in pain! So, love is definitely not something you can just say when you want to. You can say it when you are happy and meet people. It's not a popular and hot song that you can sing loudly to everyone with nothing to do! It is not just an umbrella that you carry with you. You can use it to whomever you want, and you can just put it away if you don't want to use it. Although I don’t understand love, I believe that it should be a loud and heavy single-character character. When you put it in your heart, it is like a rock as heavy as a thousand catties. No matter how violent the wind and rain of life roar and shake, it will still remain intact. move! Love is a common responsibility, a common obligation, and a common promise between two people holding hands together! It is the result of two people working together to produce a wonderful flower with an extremely bright and fragrant fragrance! "You can only see the rainbow after going through the wind and rain." But how many people's love has been wiped out before the wind and rain! How many people have been made melancholy and full of resentment against God! Therefore, the love I want should be a kind of brave responsibility!
The love I believe is not just a sweet talk that can make people happy to death, just to make people happy for a while; it is also not a children's game played between adults. After playing with it, they broke up without taking any responsibility. It is not the most popular new product in the mall. If you like it, you will rush to buy it and even fight to buy it. When you get it, you will say something. If you don’t like it, throw it away in disgust! The love in my heart is the most generous gift between two equal people. It is the selfless dedication of two equal people who sacrifice themselves for him. It is the equal contribution between two equal people who respect and love each other and treat each other as guests! It is by no means humiliating and humiliating for its own selfish desires, raising its head and pitifully begging for mercy, nor is it arrogantly assuming an arrogant and aloof posture, driving and tyrannizing others at will. It is not a selfish calculation, using others as pawns for personal gain. Love is the understanding between two reasonable people, and the tolerance between two open-minded people! It is definitely not about clinging to other people's shortcomings when they see them and refusing to let them go, nor giving others a chance to correct them. It is definitely not as cruel and ruthless as "beating the drowned dog" after a breakup. It will not stop until the other person is forced to jump off a cliff and die without any way out! There is nothing wrong with loving someone, but love should have choices, at least it should not involve the slightest harm! Otherwise, how can we be worthy of this precious life and wonderful life! So I thought that love should be given to the people who deserve it, and it can only be given to the people who deserve it! Once it goes astray, it will not only cause pain to two people, but also to countless people around it! Love is also a long road. Once you have chosen it, you must cherish it, so why give up so easily!
The reason why I admit that I am a person who does not understand love is because I never say love to anyone. You may call me ruthless or call me unjust, but I really never want to hurt innocent people! I think that in a colorful life, love is not the only thing that dominates our lives.
Therefore, love is indeed not everything in life to me! Because there are still many emotions in our lives that we need to cherish! That comes from the blood-thicker-than-water affection of parents, children, brothers and sisters, and that comes from the pure friendship between friends who are willing to help each other. I know that there is another kind of feeling that cannot be called love, no need to say love, no need to say love, just put it silently in your heart and feel its existence. Let it bloom quietly in your heart like a beautiful and fragrant flower, and the sweet fragrance will already be intoxicating! So why should we use a realistic word "love" to tarnish its beautiful and holy color, making people sad and full of tears, and heartache like a knife to watch it wither and fade away? This is an indescribable and deep emotion that is between family affection and friendship, but also above love. It does not ask for anything in return, but only willingly pays for it! An emotion that will always be in your heart but cannot give you anything in return! It is this kind of emotion that makes it difficult to grasp, which makes so many people make mistakes and hurt so many innocent people around them. This kind of emotion is like that delicate and bright but extremely fragile orb. It can only be treasured by us and cannot be taken out to play anytime and anywhere. Once we accidentally drop it and fall to the ground, what it leaves us will be It will be a lament that regrets too late and cannot be made up for in eternity! Being in love doesn’t necessarily mean holding hands and falling in love! The two hearts are in love but they are not yet connected. They are silent and relieved. When they look at each other and smile, their hearts are warm. Why get close and hurt the liver and gallbladder! Life is beautiful, and so are emotions! As long as you don’t hurt others or yourself, you can let it exist in another way!
Because I don’t know what love is, and I can’t distinguish the phrase “I love” that we often say "You", in this day and age where fake and shoddy products are everywhere, there are a few words worth trusting! Therefore, in this world where everyone pursues true love, I frankly admit that I am a person who does not understand love, and I am not qualified to say anything about love to anyone; of course, I am not qualified to say "I love you" to others. Not interested. But I understand that the emotions between people will become stronger after being eroded and washed by wind and rain. Although we are ruthless, we are by your side. We stand together through thick and thin, and our love will last as time goes by. True love means never abandoning your companion! What is love? I don't understand! Where is it? I have no idea! But a person who can truly accompany us until we grow old is indeed worthy of our cherishment! True love, perhaps only after experiencing the ups and downs of life, can we truly understand what it is and where it is! So, let us look for it in the storm of life, but don’t give up everything that shouldn’t be given up or hurt people who shouldn’t be hurt just for the sake of temporary illusion and loss! So, I remind myself all the time. Whether they are my relatives and friends or people I know or don’t know, as long as they have helped me in the slightest, I will keep them in my heart forever. Even if I have no chance to repay them, I will piously contribute to them. Everyone sends my sincere blessings! For a partner who can accompany me throughout my life, I will cherish it twice as much and never give up through thick and thin!
Although I am a person who does not understand love, I am a person of flesh and blood and emotions. In addition to being grateful, I am also a person who knows how to cherish what I have!