Question 1: How to improve your ability to treat others? "Pursue the Perfect State of Communication"

With the improvement of individual communication qualities, changes in the communication environment, the enrichment of communication content, and the With the diversification of means, people are striving to pursue a perfect state of communication, making communication more elegant, beautiful and charming. How to create a perfect realm of communication?

1. Establish a perfect communicative personality

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2. Pursue the "just right" way of communication

Communication style is a specific form of communication. It is restricted by communicative personality, but it also has its own rules. The best way to grasp these laws is to have a sense of proportion and do it just right. Hong Yingming, a man of the Ming Dynasty, wrote in his "Cai Gen Tan": "The article is done to the best, there is no other surprise, it is just 'just right'." In fact, communication is like writing an article. You know thousands of ways to communicate, and you know ten thousand ways to communicate. The key lies in application. The beauty of application lies in "just right", which is a kind of propriety and a kind of finishing, so it is both elegant and full of aftertaste. For example, to express friendliness, there is no need to be overly enthusiastic. To express respect for the other party, it is also appropriate to point until the end and express your feelings. There is no need to cling to others and belittle yourself. There is a friend who asks someone to do something, and the person happily obeys and goes all out. This friend was extremely grateful. He expressed his gratitude, talked about friendship and relationship, and praised his virtues. He had rarely interacted with him at first, but now he stayed with him and talked with him every day. The other party was originally sincere, but at this time he was already upset by this friend. This friend's behavior will not only lead to communication failure, but also damage his own image, and even destroy the mood of the communication itself. The "just right" way of communication requires careful understanding and mastery of artistry. For example, smiling and saying hello are simple to say, but there are many mysteries in using them. The same method often shows different levels of elegance and vulgarity.

3. Create an elegant communicative mood

Communication is mainly a way of life, usually expressed as a form of relationship contact and mutual help, with a certain purpose . But communication is more than just that. It transcends materiality and pursues a spiritual joy. At this time, communication goes beyond ordinary and simple and becomes extremely charming. Especially when communication falls into the utilitarian circle, this communication phenomenon becomes even more remarkable and refined. Creating an elegant social atmosphere will bring about this wonderful social situation. I used to work in the administrative department, and there were many people asking me for help. They were afraid that they would not be able to knock on my door, so they always used big and small bags as keys. I have always prided myself on being honest and honest, so of course I am disgusted with this practice. I also hate all gift-giving behaviors, seeing them as vulgar and despising them. What made me change my view on gift-giving was my brother-in-law. He also likes to give gifts, but every time he gives a gift, he is so original, with deep meaning, full of poetry, and creates a strong interest. The etiquette is not heavy, but the love is deep. My parents are delighted every time, and my sister is even more proud and intoxicated. I deeply feel that gift-giving has a real and elegant side, which can make life full of charming fragrance and moving sentiment.

Later, when I became a teacher, students often gave me cards, small souvenirs, etc. This not only strengthened the teacher-student relationship, but also injected a sentiment into the relationship, adding a layer of innocence and elegance. At this time, I realized more clearly: Even if you give a gift, if you go beyond the purpose of the thing and pursue a sentiment, it will make the communication on the right track and be elegant and elegant.

4. Create a communicative aesthetic atmosphere

From practical communication to the art of communication, the most significant feature is the pursuit and construction of communicative aesthetics. Beauty itself is a manifestation of art, a sublime state, and a beautiful feeling. When we deliberately create a beautiful atmosphere for communication and carefully create a strong aesthetic atmosphere for communication, the communication at this time will get rid of the utilitarian color...gt; gt;

Question 2: How to treat others well? You must be attentive when dealing with others, maintain a humble attitude, pay attention to your behavior, and use civilized and polite language

Question 3: Basic etiquette in dealing with others 1. When others pour water, do not look at it, but Use your hands to support you to show politeness

2. When someone talks to you, you must at least be able to answer the conversation. You can’t miss the next sentence when someone else says it, or just keep talking. , yes, yes.

3. When someone is staring at you, don’t look directly at the other person and pretend not to notice.

4. When you are in a bad mood, no matter how good your skin care products and Cosmetics cannot repair the skin.

5. Poor sleep will cause people to speak incoherently, react slowly, and have prominent dark circles. --- Good sleep is very important to have good energy.

6. When others release "poisonous gas", you should not avoid it in disgust or fan yourself, pretending to be indifferent.

7. When being reprimanded by the leader, do not lower your head, but keep your head straight. If you respect the leader, smile, and express acceptance of criticism, the leader's fire will slowly subside, otherwise, the leader will add fuel to the fire.

8. Women should never ask men for money with their palms facing up.

9. When leaving the table after eating, say: "I'm done, you eat slowly."

10. Handing water and food to others must be done with both hands.

11. Don’t tilt your chair up

12. When eating, you should carry a bowl and don’t pick at the plate

13. Remember to close the door when you are the last one to enter

14. Delivery When people walk, they say: “Walk slowly. ”

15. Don’t throw your hands away after washing them. It will be rude to throw the water on others

16. When handing a knife to others, remember to pass the handle end of the knife

17. Don’t expose other people’s shortcomings

18. Don’t look away when listening to others.

19. Pour tea and water for others. After that, don’t face the spout towards others

20. Stand as you should and sit as you sit

21. When you encounter a door that can be opened from the inside out, pull it open. Instead of pushing - I always push in the company, I learned from it, I regret it!

22. Don’t promise what you can’t do.

23. Don’t be greedy for petty gains. No matter how much money you have, it will eventually be spent, and money is never everything.

24. When there are people in the house, close the door gently when you go out.

25. This world does not believe in tears... Focus on the key points.

26. Instead of spending all the time to keep a man, it is better to let the man spend all the time to keep himself.

27. When a man is poor, his ambition is not short.

28. Sheng When serving food or tea to others, if there are people in between, do not pass in front of others, but go around and pass behind others

29. Real ability is when you have the ability

30. Learn to be gentle and listen

31. When going to other people’s homes, do not sit on their beds

32. When clinking glasses with others at the wine table, your own glass must be Those who are lower than the other party, especially if the other party is an elder or leader

33. Bring an umbrella when the weather is sunny and dry food when the weather is full - it is always good to be prepared for a rainy day.

34. If you ask someone something and they don’t answer you, don’t keep asking shamelessly.

35. Try not to make any noise when eating

36. Squat down when picking up things or putting on shoes, don’t bend over and poke your *** ---We are girls haha

37. When someone criticizes you, even if he is wrong, do not refute it first. Wait until everyone calms down before explaining.

38. Do things in moderation, no matter it is Eat your favorite food or lose your temper

39. After dinner at a friend's house, take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table - the host has already worked hard to cook, so you can't ask the host to clean up afterward.

40. You will meet all kinds of people in life. You cannot be in tune with everyone, but one thing is true everywhere: how you treat others will be how others treat you

41. Hospitality has to be big, housekeeping has to be small

42. Taking back the fist is to fight back more powerfully

43. People live in this world In this world, you must first learn the word "tolerance"

44. Do not tell anyone your secrets easily at any time

45. Money is not earned by saving it, but by being able to spend it. Earn

46. There is no end to learning. It is not just about learning book knowledge, but also learning how to deal with people. Society is far more complicated than you think

47. Don’t talk about your boss with colleagues or other colleagues' rights and wrongs, your unintentional words may become evidence for others to attack you

48. When doing things, it is your duty to do them well, and if you do them poorly, you are derelict in your duty

49. There are only wrong buys, not wrong sells. Don't just be greedy for petty gains.

50. It is normal to be lonely sometimes, don’t be afraid, adjust yourself

51. There are real friends, but I don’t know if you are lucky enough to meet them. Whether you have experienced it or not, don’t deny it. Don't plot against others, especially the people you like. For people you like, don’t...gt;gt;

Question 4: How to deal with others 1. If you want to identify a person, it’s best to look at his way and ideas of doing things to others. , this will be more real and profound than what he shows when he does things to you. But the problem is that people often don’t think of this.

2. When you dislike someone, do not confront him directly. It is irrational to disclose conflicts between yourself and others. You must learn to avoid and prevent the occurrence of such conflicts. At the same time, The wisest way to deal with people who are against you is to pass on this uncomfortable feeling to others and pass on the conflict.

3. Try your best to say good things about others behind their backs, pay attention to your own words and deeds, and say less bad things about others. Easier said than done, you must try to correct it.

4. Don’t be afraid of doing something wrong. Once you have thought about some big things, do it decisively. Don’t let your intuition hinder you, let alone let laziness hold you back.

5. After you finish something, don’t discuss it with others or worry about other people’s evaluation of you, let alone explain it to others, unless it’s necessary. Don’t dwell on it again and again.

6. For some things that you think are profound, remind yourself to use them more often when dealing with practical problems. There is no need to share them with colleagues. This is a manifestation of quality. You must learn to put some ideas into practice. Choking in your heart, don't say it out easily.

7. Think more about everything, make more decisions, and don’t change your opinions and actions easily.

8. Loopholes in the system are not necessarily a bad thing. You can make up for them by grasping the leadership ideas and using ways and methods that are beneficial to you.

9. When thinking about problems, the starting point is your own interests rather than your own feelings. As long as your interests are not damaged, do not retaliate easily against others. Winning without fighting is the highest state of handling relationships. Don't think too simply of others. If you can think of others, you can definitely think of others. You must learn to constantly put yourself in others' shoes.

10. Don’t be afraid of others thinking you are a fool. The key is not to be a fool yourself. This is the city.

11. Never threaten the leader on the issue of remuneration, but you can remind the leader.

12. Think of what you want to complain about as a problem you are facing. What you are thinking about is how you can make things develop in a direction that is beneficial to you under various complex game rules. And for those things that you have no way to control, solve or even affect, you should rationally remind yourself not to think about it, because in your current situation, complaining about it is like complaining about your own birth, which has no positive meaning at all.

13. When dealing with things of interest, you must pay attention to technique and long-term perspective, and not be blind and hasty.

Question 5: How to quickly learn to treat others. Suggestion 1: Sincerity is the core of treating others.

The various etiquette habits of treating others are meaningless without sincerity and respect. For example, a boy said to someone: "I am very happy for your arrival." However, he looked unhappy, which greatly reduced the sincerity of his words. In addition to teaching the boy etiquette, it is more important for the mother to let him practice etiquette with a sincere heart.

Only when a boy respects the guest or host and is sincere can he make the other party feel happy and respected in his speech and behavior. Respect and sincerity are the first things in dealing with others. Without them, all etiquette becomes hypocritical politeness.

Suggestion 2: Teach boys a complete set of etiquette for treating others.

Treating people is a complete set of etiquette. From the arrival of the guest to the departure, or from the visit to the host's house to the departure, every link has certain requirements. requirements. Mothers can strengthen education for boys over and over again by playing role-playing games and telling stories. The boy is familiar with the details of this whole set of etiquette and can apply it freely in practice.

Suggestion 3: Start with daily penetration

Treating people is some small etiquette details between host and guest. The more the boy understands and the more he corrects, the more he will do it. The better. Mothers should observe carefully, and once they find something inappropriate in their boys, they should help them correct it at the appropriate time.

Zhao Dong and his mother went to Aunt Wang's house as guests. When they walked to the door of Aunt Wang's house, Zhao Dong rushed in directly. Mom quickly said hello and said hello to Aunt Wang. Zhao Dong went straight to the game console without even saying hello. He had been thinking about it since he came to play for a long time last time. When he went home in the evening, his mother said to him: "Next time you go, knock on the door first, don't rush in, and ask your aunt's permission first if you want to play games."

His mother said: "This is a good idea." If you can't abide by this politeness, I won't take you with me next time." Zhao Dong nodded after hearing this.

Treating others is all about small details, and mothers’ education should also start with details. Don't ignore any detail, correct every detail you find, and gradually, the boy will become a "little gentleman."

Suggestion 4: Take boys to visit relatives and friends more often, and entertain friends at home more often.

Boys should have more practical experience in life. Whenever possible, mothers should take boys with them when visiting relatives and friends. Boys learn how to be guests from their parents.

During holidays, mothers can invite friends to play at home so that boys can have more experience as little masters.

Tao Qiang’s mother saw that the weekend was coming, so she invited several colleagues to take her children to play at home. Tao Qiang is responsible for preparing toys and game content. As soon as his colleagues' children arrived, Tao Qiang immediately became involved with them. When Xiaohua wanted to play with a doll, Tao Qiang immediately went to prepare a drink. Tao Qiang's little master experience was also cultivated in actual combat.

Dealing with people is not something you can just talk about on paper. In social situations, various problems arise one after another. Only by practicing more can boys develop skillful skills in dealing with people. Mothers should provide more practical opportunities for boys so that they can learn to be guests as well as hosts.

Question 6: How to treat others. Be enthusiastic, generous, and courteous. When receiving things, both parties should accept them, follow each other step by step, and say thank you.

Question 7: How to treat others as a person 1. Dress etiquette

In daily work and life, dignified, beautiful, and well-fitting clothing can make you full of confidence in your work day, and also Can make others feel relaxed and happy.

○ Men:

Formal occasions (meeting with clients, company meetings, various ceremonies): dark suit, tie

General workplace: shirt, suit Pants, leather shoes

* Suit: must be buttoned when standing, and the bottom button must be unbuttoned, *** Casual suit

* Shirt: mainly solid color; iron it to make it smooth ;The sleeve length should be 1~2 cm longer than the suit.

* Tie: Keep the color harmonious with the suit and shirt. Except for special occasions, no tie clip is needed

* Belt: Keep in harmony with the color of the suit and shirt, preferably black

* Pants: Moderate length, preferably dark trousers

* Socks: dark, preferably without patterns

* Leather shoes: dark; bright uppers, no dust

* Keep collars and cuffs clean, avoid trademarks on suit cuffs Do not remove or make mistakes with shoes and socks

○ Ladies:

Formal occasions (meeting customers, company meetings, various ceremonies): skirt suits, ***, leather shoes

General workplace: tops, trousers, skirts

* Tops: the colors should not be too big or confusing; sleeveless, tight, or T-shirts are not suitable

* Skirts: The length of the skirt should not be too short; it should be knee-length

* Trousers: should not be tight and the color should not be too bright

* Dress: have sleeves; the color should not be too dazzling; should not be tight

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* ***: The color should not be too dark or bright; it should not have holes; keep an extra pair just in case

* Shoes: The uppers should be bright; it is not suitable to wear slipper-style sandals

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* Accessories: not too many or too dazzling

2. Appearance and demeanor

Everyone should pay attention to their appearance and demeanor at work. It is not only a sign of self-respect and Respecting the performance of others can also reflect your work attitude and sense of responsibility.

○ Appearance:

* Hair: non-greasy, no dandruff, clean and tidy

For men, the front hair should not cover the forehead, the back hair should not cover the collar, and the hair should be on the side. Do not cover your ears; do not cover your face if you have hair for ladies

* Beard: shave clean every day, and trim nose hair

* Teeth: no foreign matter, no odor

* Nails : Pay attention to cleanliness. It is best if the nails do not exceed the end of the fingers.

* Body odor: Shower every day, and wear elegant perfume appropriately

* Makeup: Check for eye drops;

Women should wear light makeup, and any makeup that falls off should be removed. Fix it as soon as possible and don’t make the perfume too strong

Men should apply some skin care products and some colorless lip balm when dry

○ Appearance

Standing posture: head up , look forward, straighten your chest and waist, shoulder level, arms drooping naturally, abdomen drawn in, legs together and upright, toes forming a V shape; you can also separate your feet, slightly narrower than the shoulders, put your hands together and place them In front of or behind the abdomen;

In any case, you must first help your client pull the chair out from under the table. Only after the client has sat down can you sit down at a 45-degree angle to the client;

The gaze when talking to a customer (Mr. - towards the nose, Miss - towards the chin, Mrs. - towards the corner of the mouth).

3. Telephone Etiquette

In our work and life, we strive to make telephone etiquette habitual, leave a good impression on the other party, and establish good and smooth communication channels.

* Pick up the receiver within three rings and adjust the ring volume to minimum

* Hold the receiver in your left hand and the pen in your right hand

* Use an enthusiastic tone and voice Moderate

* "Hello, (company name, department name, name)"

* Listen carefully; repeat/record key points; ask about doubts; be concise and to the point

* Concluding words "Goodbye"

* The other party hangs up the phone first and puts down the receiver gently

4. Visiting and reception etiquette

In work and life, we must not only cultivate Develop a cordial attitude towards guests, and learn how to treat guests politely

In order to leave a good impression on customers as a "detached" person.

○ Basic Etiquette

* Stand up immediately when you see the guest (Standing posture: cross your arms vertically and naturally on the lower abdomen, focus on the thumbs of both feet, and keep the toes about 45 degrees apart , leaning forward slightly)

* Smile naturally (smile: a good smile must involve the heart, eyes, and mouth. 1. Heart - calm, grateful heart 2. Eyes - revealed A grateful heart (enthusiastic) 3. Mouth--smile with the lower forehead pulled back)

* Ask why you are here and offer to sit (sitting posture is as above)

* Provide tea or drinks (walking posture) : Keep your back straight, don’t drag your feet when walking, and don’t run around the sales office no matter how rushed you are)

○ Door etiquette

* Push the door: Push the door open first

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* Pull the door: Open the door to let the guests go out first, and follow quickly

○ Guide etiquette

* Walk 2-3 steps ahead of the guests, appropriate Sideways

* Walk in front of guests when going up or downstairs

○ Elevator etiquette

* When exiting the elevator, guests should exit first and hold down the elevator to open the door. New

* When entering the elevator, hold down the control button yourself and ask guests to come in first

* Do not talk loudly or joke in the elevator; if others are present, do not talk about official matters

○ Handshake Etiquette

* When shaking hands,...gt;gt;

Question 8: How to treat others comfortably and not be humble or arrogant. Pay attention to yourself. In your words and deeds, you should think more and make more decisions about everything, and don't change your words and actions easily. Don't think too simplistically of others. If you can think of it, others will definitely think of it. You must learn to constantly put yourself in someone else's shoes. It doesn’t have to be eloquent, speak many profound truths, or reach a very high level of ideological realm. It’s about treating people in a way that makes them comfortable, neither humble nor overbearing, and able to retain their own edges and corners.

Question 9: How to learn to treat others? It is recommended to read "Cai Lixu's Disciple Rules in Detail" and use the education of sages to change your thinking. As long as you can read it completely, I believe you will definitely gain something.

Question 10: How to treat others well? You must be attentive when dealing with others, maintain a humble attitude, pay attention to your behavior, and use civilized and polite language