My husband and I are in a free relationship. We have been dating for more than a year and he has taken great care of me, and we have gradually started talking about marriage. My husband's family is in good condition. He also has a sister who has been married for several years. My parents-in-law also made some money from small business in their early years. When they got older, they stayed at home and had nothing to do, but they still had no worries about food and clothing.
I went to my husband’s house several times before we got married, and their family members were very kind to me. My mother-in-law has a strong personality and is a strong woman. She has the final say at home. When we got married, my husband and I bought a house in the city. We avoided a lot of conflicts by not living under the same roof, and we lived quite well after our marriage.
A few months later I got pregnant, and my family was very happy. My mother-in-law insisted on taking care of me. Although I was a little resistant, I couldn't refuse her enthusiasm. Not long after my mother-in-law came to my house, the originally peaceful life ceased to exist. Only then did I realize that my parents-in-law were so patriarchal.
My parents-in-law originally had two daughters, so they gave away their second daughter, who was a few months old, in order to have a son. It was said that it was given to a distant relative who was unable to have children. After I learned about this incident, I felt speechless and left a gap in my heart.
When I was more than four months pregnant, my mother-in-law took me to the hospital for a color ultrasound and asked an acquaintance about my gender. When my mother-in-law learned that I was pregnant with a daughter, she immediately changed her face. When she came back, she joined forces with my husband to persuade me to abort the child. That's all for my mother-in-law. I didn't expect my husband to have the same face. He only wanted to have a son. He said that only by giving birth to a son can the family's legacy be passed on.
Here I go, if I had known that your family had this kind of moral character before getting married, I would never have married you. What happened to my daughter? I like my own children, both boys and girls. I am firmly opposed to aborting the child. My husband is like a Tang Monk who is possessed by me, reading me every day. Seeing that I was unmoved, she started scolding me and throwing things at home. My mother-in-law had already packed up her things and went home and stopped caring about me.
Now that the child is more than six months old, I have completely given up on this family. I have thought about aborting the child and getting a divorce, but I really can’t bear it. This is a life. After much deliberation, I returned to my parents' house. My parents were very angry when they knew what my husband's family had done. My brother was so angry that he wanted to smash up my husband's house, but my parents and I stopped him.
My mother takes good care of me at home. It’s really hard on my mother. My father was in a car accident before and the driver ran away. My father was hospitalized for a month and he still hasn’t recovered yet. Now that I'm pregnant again, I feel really sorry for my parents, but they didn't say a word of blame to me, they just told me to take care of myself and raise the baby.
I gave birth to my daughter in October. During this period, my husband and in-laws never came even once, which really made me feel chilled. I really can't stay in this kind of family any longer, and I plan to divorce my husband as soon as I'm pregnant.
After I came home from the hospital, I drafted the divorce agreement and sent it to my husband. I called my husband and asked him to sign it. My husband didn’t agree and even scolded me. I didn’t want to hold a full moon party when my daughter was one month old. My parents and brother didn’t agree. They said that giving birth to a child is a festive event and you should invite relatives and friends to celebrate together. It’s okay if your mother-in-law’s family doesn’t come, and your mother’s family will give it to you. Come on, we must have a lively celebration.
On the day of the full moon wine, all the relatives came, and my mother-in-law came uninvited. I was holding my daughter and chatting with relatives. When my mother-in-law came in and saw me, she yelled at me. She said you still have the dignity to give birth to a loser. File for divorce? What qualifications do you have? If you want to leave, my son will leave with you!
I was so angry that after saying a few words to her, my mother-in-law got excited and wanted to come over and hit me. When my brother saw that something was wrong, he quickly came over to protect me. Before he could reach me, my mother-in-law picked up the A cup of tea on the table was poured towards my daughter in my arms. Fortunately, I reacted quickly and blocked my daughter with my arm. When I turned around, the tea was splashed on my back. The water was not too hot, but if it splashed on my young daughter, It will definitely cause burns.
The relatives were all shocked. This old woman was too vicious. She was her granddaughter. My mother-in-law was still cursing and was coaxed out of the house by my brother and relatives. I thought that if something happened to my daughter, I would have to chop her with a knife. It seemed that the marriage had to be divorced.
To my surprise, we divorced soon because my mother-in-law wanted to find another daughter-in-law to give her grandchildren.
After the divorce, I took my daughter back to my mother’s house. To my relief, in the next year, things started to go smoothly for our family. The business of my brother's small factory is getting more and more prosperous, and he has successively negotiated several large orders. Dad's injuries healed, the driver who escaped was caught, and all medical expenses and losses were compensated... Gradually, my mood improved.
One day when my daughter was more than one year old, her ex-mother-in-law suddenly came to visit her again. This time, for some reason, she lost all her former energy. She was hunched over her head and looked very haggard. Our family didn't want to see her, so she kept to herself and said she wanted me to take my daughter back to see her ex-husband. During the Chinese New Year, my ex-husband went to a friend's house to play. He drank too much and drove home. As a result, he hit a bridge pier and was hospitalized for half a month.
Haha, I admit that I am very unkind and want to laugh. Is this retribution? Seeing my lively and lovely daughter, my ex-mother-in-law actually cried. She walked up to her and asked her to call her grandma. When I thought about my daughter's full moon, I became filled with hatred. I held my daughter in my arms and said, "Old woman, pour tea on my daughter. I will remember this for the rest of my life." My daughter has had no father or grandmother since she was born. Your son has nothing to do with me anymore, and I will not visit him.
My ex-mother-in-law was kicked out by my parents when she wanted to say something. Before leaving, she said that I was too heartless. Do you think it was really me who was heartless?