It means that in his dream there is only the shadow of his past lover. It means that he is reluctant to let go of his former lover

Looking at love - how much love can be repeated

How much love can be repeated - sowing the seeds of obsession, the future will continue to be lost in the sea of ??love and hatred.

How many people are worth waiting for - but they don't know that things are not people, let alone people, and love is just an illusion on the bubble.

When you know how to cherish and come back later - the sad (bitter) ending is bound to be doomed at the beginning of love.

But you don’t know that love - when you love her, who is she loving? Impermanent and fragile things are branded "eternal".

Whether it is still here or not - whether it is here or not, it is nothing more than the next version being staged again. Being immersed in pain will only lead to deeper decline.

☆ Love is also impermanent. If I can last forever, my girlfriend can last forever too. Our love can last forever. Then it’s not bad to talk about love. Unfortunately, I am the Dharma of birth and death. My girlfriend also practices the law of birth and death. Our love is the law of birth and death. Look at it from this perspective. Falling in love is really not that good, it’s not interesting.

But

Yes, even if I can last forever, my girlfriend can last forever. Our love can last forever. I don’t really want to fall in love anymore, because the “joy” of falling in love is actually the same as the happiness in the other three realms, it’s relative happiness. It is a relative happiness compared to not falling in love. It is a false happiness produced by the will and the false thoughts of consciousness. To put it more clearly, it means taking pleasure in suffering. Once this kind of happiness appears, it will be accompanied by suffering, so I don't want this kind of happiness.

☆ Love means love: Since there is a lover and a loved one, there is the law of love, and there are causes and conditions for love, then it is okay to love when you love, because

Because After all, love is impermanent, birth and death, dependent origination, and emptiness. This grand theater of ours is based on cause and effect as the background, reincarnation as the stage, good and evil as the plot, with love drama as the main character, and color, feeling, thought, action, and consciousness as the actors. , Wealth, sex, food and drink

Sleep is the script, sex, sound, fragrance and touch are the props, the lineup is strong, the box office is worry-free, stars shine, big names gather, the stage of reincarnation is set, and the plot begins with wrong love. It ends in a wrong love, whether it is a childhood sweetheart or a childhood sweetheart

No matter how late we met, we may wish we met before we were married, but fate plays tricks on people, and in the end they can only helplessly fall away; or they may be deeply in love. The fate is shallow, even if we meet and we don't know each other, and we forget each other in the reluctance; the curtain of the human world is opened over and over again, and closed again and again, in the beginningless time. In the long journey of the end, there is no shortage of talented directors and actors with superb acting skills. With all the plot elements, the life and death drama has been difficult to end since it started.

People

We all love for happiness, no one loves for pain, but when it comes to love, people often only guess the beginning, but not the end. At the end, love dominated by happiness does not bring all happiness. Love can make people forget their worries for a short time, but love often brings more worries, the pain of love, and the concentration of love. , the destruction of love, love is like the tide, it washes away everything when the tide rises, and takes away everything when the tide recedes. The sea of ??bitterness stirs up the waves of love, but the beautiful waves cannot change it

The bitter sea water, love is like the air , it blows the heartstrings but cannot keep it. Once the spring is gone, the beauty grows old, and the flowers fall and the people die. Sometimes I want to say that it is really not easy to love you, but under the cover of romance, the cost of love is often overlooked. In the former scene, I vowed to be a winged bird in heaven and a lotus on earth. In the latter scene, time and space flow, things and people change, and in the blink of an eye, love is a thing of the past. The front edge of love is feeling, and the back edge is attachment. In the alternation of love and hate, it is inseparable from the changes in the front and back edges.

Loving seems not fun at all, but not loving seems even less fun. If you can’t play anymore, just love again

To love again, either go back to love, or reminisce about love, or Looking forward to love, life without love is meaningless anyway, why live if it is boring? Since living is meaningless, it is better to die. What is even more shocking is that you need to love someone even if they are dead

But what can you love after death? Live for love and die for love. It seems that love is still very important, important enough to dominate life and death. But if one day, there is really no love, that is to say, everything

What will happen if you don’t love everything? Will it be death or life? What else is there in the world besides the laws of birth and death, love and hate? Is there anything immortal? The Buddha said that there is not only no birth, no destruction, no dirt, no purity, no increase or decrease, but also... If one day you really don’t love anything anymore, and you don’t even have the thought of love anymore, then it doesn’t matter whether you have the people or things you love. Since life and death are not fun, then you won’t play. If you don’t play, you won’t play.

Well, if you really don’t play anymore, then you really don’t have anything to play anymore. No matter what happens in twenty years, I don’t even know how to be a good man anyway, and I ended up really destroying myself. , leaving only the single existence that is immortal and immortal.

It sounds

It sounds like there is no pursuit. In fact, compared to the average people who have pursuits, compared to those who pursue life or death, they still have more pursuits. Because what he pursues is immortality, true immortality, but it’s a pity that he can’t realize that state anymore, because the person who can understand it is no longer there. It’s a pity, because he doesn’t know that in fact, life and death are inherently immortal. Life and death, whether you love or not love, whether you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, or don't love someone you should love, all are not the truth. There is only one truth, "I am the only one who is supreme." ! I don’t know which one it is. In short, it’s not the one we know. Since it’s neither, nor does it mean whether you love it or not, then it doesn’t matter whether you love it or not, whether you hate it or not.

It’s all the same anyway. Bullshit, although it has always been bullshit and I am happy, but it is not in vain to be able to talk about it. At least when you love, you know more or less what love is, and you will be a bit bored, a bit ashamed, and without love.

It doesn’t matter that much, so when you fall in love, you fall in love, and you act like a one-man show.

Don't be sad and distressed, because this will definitely not be the last time you fall in love

nor is it the first time you fall in love in this life. (If it is really the last time, then it is a blessing.) You will probably get together again and have feelings again in the next life.

But the roles may be changed, and 'she' will be 'your' sister, daughter, wife, or mother, etc.; or 'you' will be 'her' sister, daughter, wife, Or mother, and so on.

The inevitable consequences of falling in love: either

1. The love fades or even disappears

1a. One party (or both parties) has an extramarital affair, and finally divorces. Or it becomes a "resentment society."

1b. Just living life --> The ending is the separation caused by the death of the spouse.

or

2. Deep affection and deep love --> The ending is "love parting".

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These endings are certain from the moment the parties fall in love.

The cold hard fact is this.

Buddhism only reveals the truth of things.

Is this the story of life after life:

Love-->Love and separation/hate-hate association/impermanence

Love-->love and separation/hate-hate association/impermanence

Love each other-->Love and separation/hate and hatred/impermanence

Love each other-->Love and separation/hate and hatred/impermanence...

This is endless , cliche soap opera. It makes people yawn.

But most people still enjoy it like moths rushing to the flame.

Love comes and goes, even if you follow worldly causes and conditions, there is a big disadvantage. The disadvantage is that it is a huge waste of time and energy.

☆ There is a saying (talking about Westerners), why do men in their thirties and forties spend more time and quality in profound thinking and creation than young people?

The reason is that young people have strong sexual impulses and spend a lot of time and energy chasing women.

By the time you reach your thirties or forties, you have already acquired women for a long time, so your sexual interest is no longer as strong as before, so you have more time to devote to deep thinking.

☆ Love is either sexual desire or delusion.... The appearance of human beings, the appearance of me, the appearance of all living beings, the appearance of living beings.... The male and female protagonists in love dramas are mostly handsome boys and beauties. If the male protagonist or heroine in the drama If your appearance is that of Zhu Bajie or Sister Feng, can you still have a buzz? This beautiful face came from lust and passed away from ashes, it’s so amazing!

☆ Passion

Love will inevitably lead to indifference, and no one can escape it. Even everyone hates each other and blames each other. There will never be a perfect love. Finding a lover is just looking for a life, and living a life is nothing more. To put it bluntly, I cling to what I have so that everyone can identify with myself. Moreover, the excrement of handsome men and beautiful women is no more fragrant than others, and may even smell worse. If you don’t rinse your teeth or take a shower for several days, you Dare to hug, do you dare to kiss? The skin and flesh on the white bones are borrowed by you and me to wear. If my wife is a brother from a previous life...it hurts. Everyone is not happy to be deceived. Who is loving the Lord now that he is dead? He's just a debt collector who cheated on people!

☆ Because the heart touches all kinds of six objects through the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body, etc., it has all kinds of feelings and has all kinds of love. And because of love, there is pursuit, because of pursuit, because of benefit, because of benefit, because of desire, because of desire, because of jealousy, because of jealousy, there is guarding, because of guarding, because of guarding, there are disputes with swords and sticks. There are countless evils and great sufferings. Therefore, we should make good for the bad karma of the past, make good karma for the future, and run towards the bright road with people cheering from behind.

In fact, it is easier to solve the lust of the flesh. It is a good way to observe the impurity of the body. After all, the human body is really dirty. As long as you are willing to observe carefully, you will know that the love of this consciousness But it’s not easy. Feelings are pleasant, sad, pleasant, painful, neither painful nor pleasant. They all know their taste and are attached to them. It’s easy to convince yourself to see through them consciously, but it’s really great to endure them based on your intention. It’s not easy!!

☆ Lust often produces people who love you and the people you love, they are like each other, love is born from beauty, and lust is born from love (beauty is in the eye of the beholder). If there is such a thing as love, why don't men love an eighty-year-old woman, and why don't women love an old man?

☆ The love story between Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, to put it bluntly, is the bitterness of love and separation. The sad ending is actually the fall into the realm of animals (turning into a butterfly). < /p>

A Bodhisattva can give everything to a person, but does not love him (her). The Bodhisattva sees through the illusion of love, understands the coming and going of cause and effect, courageously aspires to receive and be born, leaves confusion and moisturizes birth, escapes fate in the cycle of reincarnation in the three realms and six paths, realizes Bodhi, and has the wisdom of the same circle

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