Q: What should I pay attention to in postpartum diet?

A: Three days after delivery, don't make up, don't be greasy. In addition to meat, you need to eat fruits and vegetables in the month to ensure the comprehensive nutrition of yourself and breast milk. Don't drink greasy soup, be careful to block the milk. There is no need to increase the diet too much, and the amount of milk for children should not be too much. Remember to drink one or two servings of milk every day. If you don't drink milk, remember to supplement calcium.

Q: How many days after delivery can I take a bath and wash my hair?

A: You can take a bath after childbirth, but it is suggested that you can postpone it for a few days according to your own situation. After cesarean section 10- 15 days, you can basically take a bath. Pay attention to the bathing process, and it is best to have family around to prevent accidents. Blow dry in time after washing. The lochia is constant in the month, and it is more likely to cause wound infection if you don't wash it.

Q: What are the strange but normal phenomena of newborn babies?

A: Weight loss in the first few days after birth; Jumping reflex (one pumping and one pumping); Whole body peeling; Spilling milk (small stomach capacity); Small hands can't be stretched out (don't break off hard); Persistent hiccups (esophageal diaphragm dysfunction); No neck; Flat nose; Sparse hair

Q: What about jaundice?

A: There is a rumor in the Jianghu that "ten babies have nine yellows". First of all, young Xia, don't panic. Jaundice generally appears on the second to third day after birth, reaches its peak on the fourth to fifth day, and subsides on the fifth to seventh day. Some babies will last 1~2 weeks, and breast-fed babies can sometimes last 1~2 months.

Treatment: Eat more+Dora+bask in the sun.

Note: See a doctor for pathological jaundice. Breast milk jaundice does not need to stop breast milk. Yinzhihuang is not recommended, and the doctor suggested that it is best to go when shooting blue light.

Q: What happened when the baby opened his eyes late?

A: The baby's development level is different. Normally, it will open in about one to three weeks. Sometimes swelling of eyelids and gums will affect the opening of eyes. Don't be too bright at home.

Note: There are too many gums, which may be blocked lacrimal passage and need a doctor's diagnosis.

Q: How to choose milk powder?

A: For the milk powder corresponding to the age group, the baby in senior year can choose low-grade milk powder, which is mainly suitable for his own baby and should not be changed frequently.

Changing milk powder requires changing milk, including milk powder of the same brand and different grades.

You can drink pure milk after one year old, and you can choose whether to stop using milk powder.

Regular channel milk powder and cross-border milk powder need to be cautious. The main ingredients can be guaranteed, and it is not necessary to pursue high-end milk excessively.

Q: How to distinguish the crying needs of a baby?

Is the baby hungry when he cries? You want to kill your mother. Because the baby can't talk, crying is the only way to communicate.

Cry+kick, check if you have to pee.

Cry+scratch your eyes, you may be sleepy, try to sleep.

Cry+touch your cheek and turn your mouth around. This is really hungry.

Crying like a needle, the calf curled up hard, no matter how to appease it, it was ineffective, and there was colic.

Q: Does the baby need a pillow or a head shape?

A: You don't need a pillow until you are two years old. Don't sleep flat! Don't sleep flat! It's ugly! Often let the baby sleep in a different direction and sleep in a round and beautiful head shape.

Q: The baby always scratches his face. Should he wear gloves?

A: No, wearing gloves will hinder the development of baby's hand-eye coordination ability and also hinder the development of touch.

Treatment: often cut your baby's nails, and you can choose a special nail clipper for your baby. In order to prevent the baby from moving around and hurting his little hand, you can choose to cut your nails while the baby is asleep.

Q: What about eczema?

A: The cause of eczema is unknown. Don't self-diagnose what fetal poison is, or eat something that will get angry.

Treatment: Moisturize (frequently apply moisturizing cream)+cool (wear less clothes, as long as the chest and back are not cold)

Note: If it is serious, go to the hospital and use hormone ointment. If it breaks, you may need to fight infection.

Q: What should I do if my baby spits milk?

A: Don't pick it up immediately after vomiting. Wash it on your side before hugging it, or you may choke and cause aspiration pneumonia.

Continuous lactation requires caution and may require medical care.

Q: What about the red ass?

Answer: to rule out diaper allergy, that is, the buttocks are not cleaned.

Treatment: rinse+keep dry (butter)

The stinky smell must be thoroughly washed with water before and after, until it feels no slippery feeling, sometimes it can't be seen by the naked eye, and there is actually a residue. After drying, apply butter to isolate the skin.

Note: If it is serious, go to the hospital to avoid mixed candida infection.

Q: What about infant aspiration pneumonia?

A: Aspiration pneumonia in newborns can cause fever, but some of them have no obvious symptoms and only spit milk repeatedly. Some are caused by amniotic fluid inhalation or milk choking. You need to see a doctor as soon as you find it.

Q: What about the baby's flatulence?

A: Search for exhaustive exercise and insist on doing it every day. Mom eats less gas-producing food. The baby is really uncomfortable. You can try taking simethicone. This medicine can break the tension of bubbles and make small bubbles gather into large bubbles, which is beneficial to the elimination of gas. But flatulence and colic are basically boiled, and it is better to cook until the baby's intestinal function is perfect.

Q: What should I do if my baby has loose bowels?

A: Three treasures of diarrhea: salt supplement+montmorillonite powder+probiotics.

Salt supplement solution: to prevent the baby from dehydration.

Montmorillonite powder: antidiarrheal.

Probiotics: Diarrhea is easy to destroy intestinal flora, and common probiotics can be supplemented according to doctor's advice.

Q: Can probiotics be conditioned without eating?

A: Probiotics are only suitable for two situations: diarrhea or the use of antibiotics.

In other cases, there is no clear evidence-based medical evidence that probiotics are suitable for use.

Probiotics are not health products. Do not take them for a long time. There is no such thing as conditioning the body.

Usage: Take it with liquid not higher than body temperature after one-time use.

Q: What is the baby's milk quantity at each stage?

A: within 3 months, 500-750 ml; 4-6 months, 800-1000 ml; 7- 12 months, 600-800ml. Refers to the total amount of milk in 24 hours.

Q: What about mastitis?

Answer: dredge the milk plug as soon as possible. If the inflammation is too high, it should be treated with safe drugs, which will not affect breastfeeding. If purulent, give it to a doctor as soon as possible (most minimally invasive operations can be treated). Must be treated as soon as possible. If there is a nipple rupture, you need to be careful that the rupture is infected upwards. The baby can be covered with erythromycin ointment after feeding, but it must be washed with warm water before feeding.

You can consult a consultant with breastfeeding qualifications as soon as possible, or a breast doctor with breastfeeding experience.

Q: What if there is not enough breast milk?

A: First, determine whether you are determined to stick to breast milk. If so, smoke more and drink more water. Diligent suction is not only for the baby to suck more, but also for yourself to suck more with a breast pump. After sucking a breast array massage, you usually have to wait for the next breast array before sucking. It usually takes 15 to 20 minutes. If you can't suck it out, squeeze it with your hand, and you won't search the video. Finally, relax and let nature take its course. Many people reach full breast milk in four or five months.

Q: What if the baby doesn't drink breast milk after drinking a bottle?

A: In order to avoid nipple confusion, special attention should be paid to the baby in the second month. Even if the mother has to adopt artificial feeding temporarily because of lack of breast milk or nipple rupture, she should stick to the baby's age of 1 month instead of using a bottle, spoon or cup.

Q: How to preserve breast milk?

A: There are many guides that give slightly different storage times. In order to facilitate memory, I suggest you remember the "333 principle", that is, it can be stored at room temperature for 3 hours, refrigerated for 3 days and frozen for 3 months.

Q: How to carry milk?

Answer: It's best to simulate the pro-feeding time and pump milk quantitatively on time during work. Put the fresh breast milk in the refrigerator (don't freeze it), put it in the backpack on the way and heat it directly for the baby to drink the next day. If the refrigerated breast milk can't be eaten up, it can be directly frozen.

Q: What should I do if my baby has a fever?

A: It mainly depends on the baby's mental state. If he is in poor health, he should see a doctor at once (in case of fever).

If you are not sure, please see a doctor after 24 hours of fever. The ways to ensure your own care are as follows:

Breastfeeding within 6 months and drinking all kinds of water for more than 6 months, including but not limited to milk, water, juice and fruit.

If the temperature is below 38.5 degrees, you can play and eat, and you can suspend antipyretics. Above 38.5, you don't need antipyretics if you are in good spirits, and you need antipyretics if you are in bad spirits (Merrill Lynch or Tylenol, Tylenol within 6 months).

Cold hands and feet, cover, clothes cover the quilt. At this time, the immune system is actively raising the body temperature to fight against germs. After a while, my hands and feet began to get hot and needed to dissipate heat. If you can't return it, take off your clothes and pants.

Repeated high fever should go to the hospital to check whether there is bacterial infection and inflammation.

If you don't get better after more than 3 days (the maximum body temperature drops and the interval between fever is shortened), see a doctor as soon as possible.

Note: Babies within 3 months (say 6 months) should go to the hospital as soon as possible after the onset of fever, because the course of the disease will develop rapidly.

Q: Which do you choose, diapers or diapers?

A: There are diapers with guaranteed quality in regular channels.

Usually, diapers used at home are not disinfected, so there will be bacterial residue, which is more likely to cause red buttocks. Besides, I heard a mother say that if you have time to wash diapers, you might as well spend more time with your baby. Diapers are also very breathable, and it is not a big problem to change them frequently.

Exception: babies who are allergic to diapers can try to transition with diapers.

Q: How old is the baby to hold vertically?

A: Once you hold it vertically, you can't hold it horizontally. It is recommended to hold the baby vertically after 3 months old, because before that, the radian of the baby's neck has not yet formed. In order to avoid hurting the neck, the baby should hold it sideways. However, if the baby must be held vertically within 3 months, the mother can let the baby lean against her chest, hold the baby's ass with one hand and hug the baby's chest with the other. In this way, the baby's spine and neck will be supported and protected.

Q: Vaccine, physical examination?

A: You should go to the community hospital for physical examination at 1, 3, 6, 12, 18, 24, 30 and 36 months, and the physical examination of premature infants and frail children should follow the doctor's advice.

Private hospitals provide medical examination packages once every three months, which can also be purchased. It will be better than community hospitals, and the medical examination items may be more detailed.

One vaccine is compulsory and needs to be replanted before going to kindergarten. The second-class vaccine is not available in all communities, and not all community doctors will actively recommend it. Parents had better do their homework in advance and get the second-class vaccine corresponding to their age in time.

Q: Vaccine reaction nursing?

A: After vaccination, you must stay on observation for half an hour to prevent serious vaccine reactions.

After the vaccination is completed, breastfeed as much as possible, and the baby after adding complementary food can also feed more water. There will be some emotional abnormalities and crying will be aggravated. Parents should give comfort as much as possible. It will return to normal in 1-2 days.

Low fever, diarrhea, allergies, etc. , is regarded as a normal disease. If the condition is serious, basically rule out the vaccine reaction and seek medical treatment according to the specific situation.

Q: Do you recommend baby toys within 6 months?

Answer:/kloc-within 0/month, the baby recommends black and white cards, red sand hammers, gutta percha, acoustic toys, cloth books, fitness racks and soothing toys.

Q: Do you recommend baby clothes within 6 months?

A: The fabric should be Grade A, and the lighter the color, the better. Buy one-piece instead of split, cardigan instead of pullover. Brand recommendation: Shi Ying, Cotton Age, Tongtai.

2,6 months-1 year

Q: How to add complementary food?

A: After five and a half months or six months, high-iron foods, including high-iron rice noodles (don't cook rice soup yourself) will be added from thin to thick. Gradually add fruit puree, vegetable puree and meat puree, and follow the principle of "from less to more, the particles will gradually increase, and only one fresh food will be added at a time".

Foods that can't be eaten within one year: salt, honey, juice, whole nuts, milk, free sugar.

Q: What do you recommend for baby tableware?

A: Thinkbaby's bowl and interesting spoon. The sucker bowl is meaningless, and the baby will pull it out.

Q: How to choose rice noodles?

A: The earth is the best, Jiabao and Xibao. Look at the ingredient list, not sugary. Usually eat for two or three weeks to one or two months, don't be too entangled, don't hoard goods! ! !

Q: How to choose a cooking stick?

A: Braun, as long as you can play with mud. Generally, the puree will not go bad after eating for two or three months.

Q: What should I do if my baby falls and bumps?

A: Generally speaking, there will be no big problem, ice compress. Observe whether there is vomiting, loss of appetite, lethargy and listlessness within 24 hours. If yes, seek medical attention in time to prevent cerebral hemorrhage. Some babies hit the steps, etc., and the soft tissue is damaged and grows back with scars, resulting in dents outside, which are not easy to remove.

Q: What if you pick up what you want to eat and chew your hand if you don't?

A: Don't stop. Babies explore the world through their hands and mouths. The baby eats his fingers, which shows that he has noticed his little hands, which is a great development of hand-eye coordination. Keep small hands and toys clean and let him chew. If you don't chew enough when you are young, you may chew your hand when you grow up.

Q: Do you recommend toys and activities for 6 months-/kloc-0 years old?

A: Stacked towers, six-sided houses, Manhattan balls, toys, pull-back carts, rocking horses, plucking pearls, study tables and hand bells.

Q: 6 months-1 year-old picture book recommendation?

Answer: hole books, touch books (such as Billy Rabbit).

Q: Is the early education course necessary?

A: Don't go to the early education class to develop the brain, that is, socializing+taking the baby for a walk (it is not suitable for taking the baby for a walk outdoors in summer and winter), broaden the baby's contact surface and teach parents how to get along with the baby better.

Q: What clothes do you recommend for a 6-month-/kloc-0-year-old baby?

A: At this stage, the focus is on toddler shoes, and mikihouse is recommended. You can start trying to separate. You'd better not wear a hat for your coat. It's easy to slide in le neck. It's best to lower your pants to your crotch to avoid strangling your diaper. Some fast fashion brands of children's wear can be worn (Uniqlo, Zara, gap).

3. 1 year-1 year and a half

Q: How to wean?

A: Please don't do the old-fashioned "separation of mother and child" weaning, it's cruel! ! !

Weaning should be gradual and gradually reduce the number of meals. Weaning at night, then weaning during the day, and finally weaning in the morning and evening. Going to bed at night is the hardest thing. You can feed the baby milk powder before going to bed, then let the baby lie down, turn off the lights and sit and tell the baby a story. The story must be cadenced to distract the baby from wanting to drink milk. Slowly, slowly, he was sleepy and fell asleep. When you really want milk, tell him that Nene's mother left, drank it up and disappeared.

Q: How to choose baby milk powder?

A: You can drink milk after one year old. Buy big brands that can be seen in the market and choose whole milk with only "raw milk" in the ingredient list.

Q: 1 year-old-1 year-old toy recommendation?

A: Fisher's lion Walker, Globo, building blocks (building blocks are needed for physical examination at the age of one and a half) and so on.

Q: 1 year-old-1 year-old and a half recommended picture books?

Answer: Chicken ball series, bear busy series, zoo, my parents, good night moon (for sleeping)

4. Other Wulin cheats

Q: What are the baby's sleep needs at all stages?

Answer: 1-3 months, taking 4-6 naps during the day, for a total of 14- 17 hours; 4-6 months, take a nap 3-4 times during the day, for a total of 13- 15 hours; 7-9 months, take a nap 2-3 times during the day, for a total of 12- 14 hours; 10- 15 months, daytime nap 1-2, total1.5-13.5 hours; 16-24 months, daytime nap 1, total 1 1- 13 hours.

Q: What is the development of babies at all stages?

A: Check after 2 months; 4 months, turn over; 5-6 months, support for sitting; 6-7 months, sitting alone; 7-8 months, crawling; 8-9 months, help the station; 10- 1 1 month, supporting the movement; 12- 15 months, learn to walk and talk; 15- 18 months, say sentences.

Every baby has its own growth curve, so don't be too nervous if it doesn't deviate too much. Looking up, sitting alone and standing are big sports that need to be focused on.

Q: How to care for children with acute rash?

A: I remember that I suddenly had a high fever for no reason and it lasted for three or four days. After the fever went down, I began to have a dense rash. After the rash subsided, I was completely cured.

Almost every baby will get it, some are not obvious, some are serious, and the focus is on nursing, antipyretics+drinking more water.

Q: What are the parenting recommendations of the official WeChat account?

A: Dr. Pei, one-hour dad, Zhuo Zheng clinic, Dr. Lilac, mother of rice cake, pediatrician Kong, little earth and big orange, etc.

Q: What parenting apps do you recommend?

A: Pro-baby, education park.

Q: What parenting books do you recommend?

A: American Academy of Pediatrics Encyclopedia of Parenting

Q: What are the parenting products that pay IQ tax?

A: Full moon sweating, baby water and so on.