After Angie married Jiang Defu, Antai was very satisfied with her brother-in-law, flattering Jiang Defu everywhere, and seemed to look at Jiang Defu's face when talking and doing things. In Ouyang Yi's words, Antai looks like a brother-in-law, although he is a big uncle. Brother-in-law Ouyang Yi was very unhappy when he came back from Jiang Defu to settle down. He gave Jiang Defu a hard time and competed with Jiang Defu by hosting a banquet to watch Jiang Defu make a fool of himself. Later, he gave birth to twin daughters in Jiang Defu. Interestingly, however, Jiang Defu's attitude towards Antai and Ouyang Yi is quite different. Although Jiang Defu gave this big brother everything he wanted, he didn't approach Antai from the bottom of his heart. On the contrary, Ouyang Yi, who has always opposed Jiang Defu, is very close to Jiang Defu.
Every time Jiang Defu and Ouyang Yi are in the same box, they all have a feeling of speaking out, so why does Jiang Defu treat them differently?
As we know, Antai is the eldest brother of Anjie's family and the only male in Anjie's life. Although his parents died early and left a lot of money, in that special era, these did not bring them stability and happiness, but brought discrimination and criticism from others. As the eldest son of the family, Antai said that the eldest brother is like a father. Antai has two sisters and a small family needs protection and care. In order to survive, Antai became cautious, cautious in every word and deed. Antai is inevitably suspected of being a snob when doing things.
Ouyang Yi is not. Although this person doesn't like Jiang Defu embarrassing Jiang Defu everywhere, he likes Ouyang Yi's arrogance. Maybe Jiang Defu is a lout. Jiang Defu thinks that intellectuals should have their own pride. Ouyang Yi's family background, knowledge and pride in his bones are like the male version of "An Jie". Jiang Defu appreciates Ouyang Yi's frankness and sincerity. When he was old, Jiang Defu became more attached to his brother-in-law who seemed to have problems all over his body. Ouyang Yi seems to be a guest in Jiang Defu, drinking good wine and tea. Jiang Defu also learned to wear a hat and pajamas with Ouyang Yi. The two old people together are like meeting an old urchin, and the picture is very harmonious and loving.
Moreover, Jiang Defu is a kind man, so-called birds of a feather flock together. Knowing that Ouyang Yi's family was in trouble, Jiang Defu asked Anjie to visit Ouyang Yi's family without saying anything, and helped them continuously for more than ten years, regardless of whether he would be affected or not. Jiang Defu said that we should pay attention to this influence, but we can't deny it. This is the loveliness of Jiang Defu, which touched Anjie and let Ouyang Yi put down her prejudice against Jiang Defu.
Especially after Ouyang Yi's rebellion, Jiang Defu gave a banquet, and Ouyang Yi wept bitterly in front of her relatives, crying over the years of sadness and injustice. Jiang Defu was very distressed to see Ouyang Yi, who became cautious and no longer proud. The next day, she offered to help her two daughters solve their future problems, which made Ouyang Yi grateful. From then on, she completely put down her prejudice against Jiang Defu and turned her contempt into her later "little brother".
Antai is different. Although this person is not a bad person, he is too utilitarian. With Jiang Defu's help, he helped his son and daughter get a bright future, but he still secretly looked down on Jiang Defu, and the set behind him was different. And Anxin Ouyang Yi's family suffered in Heishan Island for many years. Antai has never been to Angie's home. Almost all of them went to the door of big sister Anxin's house, but they didn't go either. It can be seen that Aetna is very fickle, which is too cautious.
Another important reason is that Angela is closer to her sister An Xin and farther away from her eldest brother and sister-in-law, which is also part of the reason that affects Jiang Defu. In a word, although Jiang Defu has no education, he likes kind and sincere people, but Jiang Defu doesn't like Antai, he is in favor of others. Why do you think Jiang Defu is far from Ouyang Yi and close to Antai? Welcome to share your thoughts with you in the comments section!