"Guangzhou Citizens' Etiquette Manual"
Guangzhou, it's polite (Preface) 1
Clothes - Clothing Etiquette 7
Men's Suits —Wear your style/8
Women’s suit—Show your temperament/8
Cheongsam—Outline your beautiful curves/9
Professional clothing—Create you Professional "business card"/10
Occasion clothing - role determines everything/10
Appearance - light makeup and heavy makeup are always suitable/11
Posture - the silence of the human body Language/12
Jewelry—adding or removing gifts to add the finishing touch/12
Accessories—one thing is used skillfully to make one’s style more romantic/13
Food—eating etiquette 15
Chinese food - start eating with the ceremony of lifting the chopsticks/16
Western food - why not be elegant when dancing with the knife and fork/17
Cuisine - inherit the style of the Tang Dynasty with respect and tranquility/18
Drinking—Fine wine to the “beautiful lady”/18
Tasting tea—Tea has its own true temperament/19
Coffee—Drink to reflect your taste/20
Buffet - Do as you please/21
House - Home Etiquette 23
Couples - Respect and tolerance are the beginning of love/24
Parenting - growing up with children/24
Respecting the elderly - every inch of grass reaps three rays of spring/25
Dorm - under the same roof/26
Neighborhood —Don’t Don't forget that a close neighbor is better than a distant relative/26
Traveling—returning to a home away from home/27
Traveling—travel etiquette 29
Walking—traveling through the bustling city/ 30
Take a plane - "return" a smile to the stewardess/30
Take a train - enjoy a mobile home/32
Take a ship - sailing can also be Comfortable/32
Take the subway - coming and going in a hurry but also show civilization/32
Take the car - a flowing city window/33
Take the elevator - close at hand There is still warmth in the world/34
Driving a car - hold the steering wheel in your hands/34
Riding a bicycle - you must also have traffic lights in your heart/35
Words - words Etiquette 37
Common title - salutation is the first step to successful communication/38
Honorary title - respect is the best greeting gift/38
Honorific title - sincerity And "speech" is external/39
Modest address - modesty is a gentleman/40
Politeness - politeness to many people does not offend/40
Elegant language - A winding path leads to a quiet and ingenious way of expressing one's feelings/41
Asking for help - A word "please" is worth a thousand pieces of gold/41
Thank you - thank you should be said out loud/42
Apologise—“I’m sorry” is never too much/42
Goodbye—parting can be beautiful/43
Rejection—rejection is also an art/44
Taboos - Customs and customs should be followed/44
Communication - Social Etiquette 47
Welcoming guests - Friends coming from afar/48
Visiting friends - There are "etiquette" Haodeng "Three Treasures Palace"/49
Introduction—show your personal charm/49
Handshake—communication starts with “hands”/50
Congratulations —Silence is better than sound at this time/50
Business card—There is a universe in a small space/51
Conversation—Words from the heart, speculation/52
Telephone—only You can also know someone by hearing their voice/52
Gift - the fragrance of roses on your hands/53
Hygiene - the agreement between people and the environment/54
Public welfare - charity Public morality is priceless/54
Courtesy - it is convenient for others and your own convenience/55
Shopping - will you be "God"/56
Online dating - not Virtual You/56
Foreign Affairs - You represent China/57
Entertainment - Leisure Etiquette 59
Theatre - Spring White Snow and Qu Gao/60
Visit—You can see the width of the universe by looking up/6
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Watching the game - Watching the "kind" speech of the true gentleman/61
Inviting to dance - dancing and making shadows in the world/62
Reading - for the source Living water comes/63
Traveling - Elegance and affection between mountains and rivers/64
Swimming and bathing - returning to simplicity and respecting nature/64
Conclusion Be a civilized Guangzhou citizen 65
Clothing - Clothing Etiquette
Red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple, who is practicing the sky dance with the colors? In the South, which has four distinct seasons, it is the forefront of reform and opening up, and the unique Guangzhou people are the first to play the role of spring The messenger, the colorful clothing fashion is vividly interpreted. People in Guangzhou are fashionable in their clothes and makeup, and they deserve to be the trendsetters.
Men's suits - show your style
① Men will appear solemn and chic when they wear a well-fitting suit.
②In formal occasions, men should wear suits.
③The buttons of suit jackets are also particular: they should be buttoned when standing. When wearing a two-button suit, you usually only button the upper button, but you can also button neither button or both buttons. Never button only the lower button. Wear a three-button suit, you can button it all or just the middle one or the top two buttons. Of course, you can also button it all or leave it unbuttoned. When wearing a double-breasted suit, all buttons should be buttoned. In this way, it will give people a chic feeling.
④ When sitting down, unbutton the bottom button and button it up again when you stand up to show off your suit style.
⑤ Wear a good shirt and less underwear to bring out the "connotation" of the suit.
⑥The length of the shirt sleeves and the height of the collar are slightly longer than the sleeves and collar of the suit jacket. This kind of shirt is the best match for the suit.
⑦The tie (bow tie) is the soul of the suit and plays the finishing touch in wearing the suit.
⑧Putting too many things in the pockets of a suit will make people feel cumbersome and inelegant.
⑨When wearing a suit, you must wear leather shoes. Shiny leather shoes will leave a good overall impression.
Remember to remove the trademark and pure wool mark on the outside of the suit cuffs.
Never wear white socks with black leather shoes.
Women's suits - show your temperament
① Women's suits are roughly divided into skirt suits, trouser suits, and three-piece suits. There is no fixed style for various suits, except for formal and solemn suits. Occasion, don't necessarily wear a complete suit.
②A well-fitting suit can show smooth and soft lines and show your temperament.
③Beautiful and elegant suits and skirts are often an elegant choice.
④ Pay attention to the matching of leather shoes, bags, hairstyles, makeup and suits. Women can make full use of their unique advantages.
When women wear suits, they must choose according to their body characteristics and try to maximize their strengths and avoid weaknesses.
Women’s suits often complement elegant manners.
Cheongsam - outlines beautiful curves
① Cheongsam is a traditional clothing for Chinese women. Its clear lines and close fit fully demonstrate the beauty of women's curves. Modern cheongsam is the most ideal dress for ladies.
② When choosing a cheongsam, you should consider many aspects such as age, body shape, season, etc.: it may be solemn, quiet, elegant and generous; or it may be rich, elegant, graceful and luxurious; or it may be gorgeous, graceful, lively and handsome.
③The noble cheongsam is best in a single color, and the fabric is preferably elegant, gorgeous, smooth and crisp brocade, antique satin and gold silk satin.
④The optimal length of the cheongsam is to reach the instep of the wearer, and the height of the slits should generally be above the knee and below the middle of the thigh.
⑤ Cheongsam is suitable to be worn with high heels, or cloth shoes with high-end fabrics and exquisite production.
The wearing of cheongsam and various accessories are very particular, and the matching must be harmonious.
Don’t let your walking style affect the beauty of the cheongsam.
Professional clothing - create your professional "business card"
① Clothing that is suitable for the characteristics of the industry, neat and crisp, and suitable for your identity is a wise choice for professionals.
② Women should choose "popular but slightly conservative" clothing when going to work, and should not wear fashionable or too feminine clothing.
Your clothing is the best interpretation of your professionalism.
Occasion clothing - role determines everything
① In grand official occasions, it is appropriate to wear formal and solemn clothing rather than casual clothes.
② In formal social occasions, it is appropriate to wear fashionable, elegant and unique clothes.
③In relaxed casual occasions, it is suitable to wear comfortable, casual and free casual clothes.
④ In warm home situations, it is appropriate to wear more casual, personalized, and even more private casual clothes.
⑤ On joyful and festive occasions, it is appropriate to wear correspondingly warm and bright clothes.
⑥In public places, remember not to wear casual clothes or casual clothes that are only suitable for wearing in the home.
⑦ When attending a wedding, the dress should not be too outstanding or dazzling, nor should the dress be too weird.
⑧In sad and solemn occasions, remember to only wear black or other dark or plain clothes. It is not suitable to wear red, green, or lace, embroidery or streamers. Decorative clothing.
Remember the role you are playing, and clothing is most appropriate when it blends in with the environment.
Appearance - Light makeup and heavy makeup are always appropriate
①Appearance is a person’s appearance. The basic standards are to be beautiful, tidy, hygienic and well-groomed.
② Before attending important events, you should comb your hair. Hair is often the first thing that attracts attention.
③A clean and refreshing face can give people a feeling of refreshment.
④ Women should wear appropriate makeup when going to work or attending various formal occasions, because this is also a sign of respect for others.
⑤ Men should pay attention to the cleanliness of details, such as eyes, nose, mouth, beard, nails, etc. You know, sometimes "details" can determine everything.
The weather in Guangzhou is hot, so women should pay attention to makeup in time.
Ladies should not wear makeup in public; and do not comment on other people’s makeup easily.
Posture - the silent language of the human body
① "Stand like a pine, sit like a bell, walk like the wind, lie down like a bow", this is the most common description and requirement for posture. .
②The best standing posture is that the upper body is upright, the head is straight and the eyes are level, the lips are slightly closed, the expression is natural, the chin and neck are retracted, the chest is lifted and the abdomen is retracted, the arms are drooped, the waist is straightened, the hips are retracted, and the legs are straight Stand up straight naturally.
③Dignified, generous, elegant and decent sitting posture shows a kind of stability.
④When taking a seat in social and official situations, you should politely invite others to take a seat first. It would be disrespectful to sit down first.
⑤ It is necessary to distinguish the order of seats and take the initiative to give up the seat to the elders.
⑥The best walking posture is to keep your upper body straight, your head straight and your eyes level, your abdomen straight and your waist straight, your arms swing naturally, your gait graceful, your steps steady, your movements coordinated and in a straight line.
Women wearing short skirts should keep their legs sideways and close together to avoid spreading their legs. Men should not raise their legs or have their legs shake.
Don’t point your finger at others, it would be rude.
Jewelry - adding or subtracting is the finishing touch
①Jewelry often has the finishing touch, but it should be just right and less is better.
② When wearing jewelry, strive for the same color and homogeneous texture, and also pay attention to the identity.
③Rings are generally worn on the left hand, and it is best to only wear one, and you can wear up to two. And wearing it on different fingers expresses different meanings.
④Earrings should be used in pairs. And it is not advisable to wear multiple earrings on one ear at the same time.
⑤You can wear only one bracelet or two at the same time. But it is not advisable to wear multiple bracelets on one hand.
⑥The bracelet should be worn on the left hand under normal circumstances.
⑦ Brooch, suitable for pinning on the left collar of the suit. When wearing a collarless top, it should be pinned on the left side of the chest.
When wearing multiple types of jewelry at the same time, the total amount should not exceed three types. Wearing multiple bracelets on one hand, wearing bracelets on both hands at the same time, and wearing bracelets and bracelets at the same time are generally not allowed.
Men should generally not expose their necklaces.
Purchase - one thing that makes you look stylish
① A lady's leather bag should give people a dignified and generous feeling whether it is carried, slung or held.
②Men’s briefcases are preferably in dark color. Don't overstuff it.
③When showing respect to the elderly or watching a performance, it is polite to take off your hat temporarily.
④ The polite way to take off your sunglasses is to take off your sunglasses when you enter a room or encounter a grand ceremony or greeting occasion outdoors, or when shaking hands or talking to others.
Food - Diet Etiquette
Have tea in the morning and supper in the evening. There are so many restaurants and a wide range of dishes. The people of Guangzhou, who “never tire of fine food and fine food”, have undoubtedly created something that is the best in China. It connects ancient and modern times, integrates Chinese and foreign cuisines, and integrates hundreds of cuisines into one. Guangzhou’s cuisine is world-famous. Eat in Guangzhou, eat all over the world. Guangzhou, what a feast that never ends.
Chinese food - start eating with the ceremony of lifting the chopsticks
① For social banquets, it is advisable to choose a restaurant or restaurant with an elegant environment, good hygiene, complete facilities and convenient transportation.
②When invited to a dinner party, arrive on time. If you are late, you should apologize.
③When ordering, you should live within your means, know what you are doing, and avoid ordering randomly or extravagantly. This shows both enthusiasm and reality.
④ When ordering, the invitee can express to the host that he has no special requirements and ask the other party to order whatever he wants, or he can seriously order a less expensive dish and ask others to order again. This is the most appropriate approach.
⑤ During the banquet, attention should be paid to arranging the tables and positions in order of age and seniority.
⑥When taking a seat, you should sit behind the host and guest of honor, or sit with everyone. It is obviously disrespectful to take a seat before others.
⑦When talking to others, you should politely put down your chopsticks temporarily.
⑧Wet wipes are only suitable for wiping hands, not for wiping face, mouth, or sweat.
⑨When eating, it is impolite to knock the tableware to make noise or point the tableware at others.
⑩When the guest and host are making speeches, listen carefully, which will leave a good impression on people.
⑩When picking up dishes, it is not advisable to turn over and over or pick and choose.
⑩The speed of eating should not be too fast or too slow. It is best to be basically in sync with other people at the same table.
⑩ Social activities can be carried out at appropriate times before and after meals.
It is best for ladies to wipe off their lipstick before eating to avoid lipstick marks left on the tableware.
Western food - why not be elegant when dancing with knives and forks?
①Behave elegantly, dress well, and respect women. This is the basic style of eating Western food.
② Unfold the napkin, fold it double or diagonally, with the fold edge facing you, and spread it on your legs.
③ Hold the knife in your right hand and the fork in your left hand. Use the knife and fork together at the same time. This is the basic skill for eating Western food.
④ You should not make any noise when drinking soup; if the soup is hot, you can test the temperature, but you should not blow it with your mouth, let alone fiddle with it with a spoon.
⑤When taking out knives and forks, you should change the set of knives and forks from the outside to the inside when eating one dish. You can hold the knife and fork when talking at the table, but you must put it down when making gestures.
⑥When cutting food, you should fork the food from the left side and eat it piece by piece without making a clanging sound.
⑦It is not advisable to use the knife and fork after it has been dropped.
⑧If you leave your seat during the meal, you should place the napkin on the chair or let it hang down at the edge of the table.
⑨ It is not advisable to use napkins to wipe sweat, wipe tables, wipe tableware, etc.
⑩When calling the waiter, it is not appropriate to shout loudly, but to signal with a wink or a raised hand.
Be quiet and in harmony with the environment when tasting Western food.
Cuisine - Hejing Qingji inherits the Tang style
① When eating in a Japanese-style room, if there is an alcove, the seat in front of the alcove is the upper seat; if not, the seat inside is It is the seat of honor; to the left of the host and guest is the second host and guest.
② Dishes served with small tableware can be eaten in your hands. Large tableware is suitable for placing on the table and eating between them. Food with juice should be eaten in a bowl.
③Japanese food, like Chinese food, uses chopsticks. However, it is not advisable to hold the chopsticks with the whole hand or cross the chopsticks.
Japanese cuisine emphasizes light dishes, and there is a custom of "not eating after lunch".
When pouring wine for guests, you should hold the pot in your right hand and hold the bottom with your left hand. The spout must not touch the rim of the cup.
Drinking - To toast the "beautiful lady" with good wine
① When the host or waiter pours wine, don't forget to say thank you. When necessary, you need to stand up or bow and nod in salute.
②When toasting, you should express your wishes and blessings.
③When others are toasting or delivering a speech, you should stop eating or drinking and listen carefully.
④When proposing a toast, you should stand up.
⑤ Men should not be the first to propose a toast to a woman, and juniors and subordinates should not be the first to propose a toast to an elder or superior.
⑥Toast should not be excessive, but should be done in moderation to avoid embarrassment.
⑦ If you cannot drink alcohol due to living habits, health, etc., you can explain to everyone the objective and practical reasons why you cannot drink; or you can take the initiative to substitute other drinks for alcohol; or you can entrust relatives, friends, subordinates, or juniors to drink on your behalf.
⑧It is not appropriate to refuse forcefully when others are pouring wine for you.
In Chinese meals, after the host toasts in person, he should return the toast.
At Western banquets, people often only toast but do not persuade others to drink. They only toast without actually clinking glasses.
Tasting tea - tea has its own true nature
① Before serving tea, the most sincere way is to ask the guests what their preferences are and prepare several kinds of tea for the guests to choose from. .
② When offering tea to a guest, you should stand up, hold the cup with both hands, hand it to the guest, and whisper: "Please have tea." At this time, the guest should also stand up, take the cup with both hands, and express gratitude. . If there are many guests, the order of serving tea should be strictly followed and tea should be served to the guests one by one.
③Be careful when serving tea. Do not bump the tea cup into the guest's hand or body; try not to serve tea from in front of the guest; try not to use one hand to drink tea.
④ When serving tea, guests should be served first, then the host; first the guest of honor, then the second guest; first ladies, then gentlemen; first elders, then juniors; first superiors, then subordinates.
⑤ Generally, the first cup of tea served to guests should not be too full. It is best to only pour it seven to eight minutes full.
⑥ Pour tea and refill water frequently for guests; when refilling water, do not refill it too full, and do not soil the teacup with your fingers, teapot or water bottle.
⑦ When the guest is treated with tea by the host, he should be respectful and stand up immediately, hold the tea with both hands, and say "thank you". When he refills his own water, he should reciprocate the gesture by nodding his head, tapping his fingers or bowing to express his gratitude.
⑧When drinking tea, taste the tea carefully.
When tasting tea, you should sip carefully and taste it carefully. It is best to let it stay in your mouth for a while after taking a sip of tea, and then swallow it slowly, so that your mouth will be filled with fragrance. Do not drink it all in one gulp. .
Coffee - drink to your taste
① When drinking coffee, you should not drink it in large gulps, but taste it carefully and behave elegantly.
② After adding sugar or ice cubes to the coffee, use a small spoon to stir it evenly around the perimeter. Then, place the spoon on the left side of the plate or horizontally close to the body.
③ If the coffee is too hot, you can gently stir it with a spoon to cool it down. It is not advisable to blow it with your mouth.
④ Do not drink coffee with a spoon, but drink it from a cup.
⑤ Desserts and coffee should not be enjoyed at the same time. When having a snack, you should put down your coffee cup first and then continue drinking after finishing your meal.
Generally, in social situations, the amount of coffee consumed ranges from one to three cups.
It is not advisable to put the spoon in the cup when drinking coffee.
Buffet - Do as you please
①After entering the buffet restaurant, you must first find a seat, rather than rushing to find where the dining table is.
② When going to pick up a meal, you should open the napkin and place it on the chair or the armrest of the chair to indicate that someone is already sitting in the seat.
③ Take only one kind of food at a time, and do not mix multiple kinds on the same plate.
④ When taking meals, be careful to avoid dropping food on the table and spilling soup outside the soup bowl.
⑤ Use a new plate for each meal. Never use a used plate to take the second or third course.
⑥ The diners at the same table may not necessarily know each other, so you may wish to take the initiative to introduce yourself to show friendliness, and the conversation should be light and humorous.
⑦ It is best not to have too big a gap between the speed of eating and other people at the same table.
It is not advisable to take too much at one time to avoid waste.
You can take care of others appropriately, but as the name implies, it is "self-help", so it is not appropriate to overstep others.
Accommodation - Home Etiquette
Thanks to the gift of nature, Guangzhou is one of the few cities in the country that is blessed with mountains and rivers.
The beauty of Baiyun Mountain, the aura of the Pearl River, the rows of modern high-rise buildings and the ancient Xiguan houses in the narrow lanes and deep alleys not only constitute the living space of Guangzhou people, but also create their living homes.
Husband and wife - respect and tolerance begin with love
①The most important thing between husband and wife is respect for personality. Regardless of differences in social status, occupation category, education level, economic income, etc., everyone should treat each other as equals and respect each other's personality and dignity.
②Respect each other’s wishes, choices, personality, living habits and interests.
③Respect each other’s parents, relatives and friends.
④ Respect each other’s privacy and be good at giving each other appropriate space.
⑤ Husband and wife should trust each other and "know each other well and never doubt each other."
⑥ Face the other party’s friendship and interaction with the opposite sex calmly. Accept the other person’s previous emotional journey calmly.
⑦ Tolerate the other party's faults, the weaknesses in the other party's character and the lack of ability.
Even if husband and wife have conflicts, they must not accuse each other of personality.
It is often unwise to go through each other's things in private.
Parents and children - growing up with their children
① Parents should treat their children with care, education and behavior.
②Respect the child’s personality and dignity. Particular attention is paid to the privacy of children. Neither pampering nor corporally punishing children.
③ Help children develop good study and living habits. Let children learn to care for others, respect others, be kind to others, and be courteous to others.
Children are also members of the family, so you might as well listen to their opinions.
Remember, only communication can lead to family education.
Respect the Elderly - An inch of grass will give you three rays of spring
① Children should respect their parents’ personality more. Especially respect their rights and choices.
② Respect and be willing to listen to the opinions of elders, although you may not necessarily act according to their opinions.
③ Children should have more emotional communication with their parents, because this is what they need most.
④ Discuss major family matters with your parents, and communicate more about small matters in life.
⑤ The habits of the elderly, such as work and rest habits, dietary preferences, consumption characteristics and emotional needs, have been developed over many years. Young people should be more accommodating and considerate.
Elderly people tend to think about problems very complicatedly. Therefore, it is best to discuss with the elderly whether big or small matters in life to avoid misunderstandings that may affect your relationship.
Modern society has more and more nuclear families. Young couples should remember to "go home often."
Dorm - under the same roof
① Whether it is an agency, school, barracks, factory or construction site, in the same dormitory, getting along day and night, every member needs to learn how to get along.
② Obeying the collective rules and regulations is the basic etiquette requirement of the dormitory.
③Respect each other’s different habits and actively create a harmonious collective atmosphere.
④Be good at resolving various life conflicts. Group life requires mutual understanding and care.
⑤ Cleanliness and tidiness are the "passport" to enter collective life.
⑥When others are resting, remember that everything should be done "gently".
⑦Personal belongings should not easily occupy public space.
"Living together" is also a kind of fate. Although it may not last long, you should cherish this time.
Neighbors - Never Don't forget that close neighbors are better than distant relatives
① To create a harmonious community, you must first have a good desire to get along with your neighbors.
② A greeting between neighbors will create a mutually contagious living atmosphere.
③Exchange what you need and be good at building relationships with neighbors.
④ Watch and help each other and try your best to help neighbors who are in difficulty or in crisis.
⑤Keep the environment in front of your home neat and clean.
⑥Respect privacy and it is not appropriate to "check the household registration" of neighbors.
⑦Be kind to others and should not be a mouthpiece for "gossip".
⑧In the dead of night, be careful not to disturb your neighbors.
⑨Public land is not suitable for private ownership.
When renovating your home, try to avoid causing damage and trouble to your neighbors.
When drying clothes or watering flowers, be sure not to scatter flowers.
Staying in the hotel-returning to a home away from home
① Respect the hotel service staff and express gratitude in a timely manner for the various services they provide.
② It is not appropriate to make loud noises in the lobby, restaurant, corridor or guest room, and do not turn on the TV too loudly to avoid disturbing others.
③ Please take more care of the various items in the guest room when using them, and take the initiative to compensate for any accidental damage.
④ Waste should be thrown into the trash can. Keeping the room tidy means maintaining your image.
Using things in the hotel sparingly is also a manifestation of virtue.
Never damage carpets, furniture, etc. due to smoking.
OK - Travel Etiquette
If you know that China’s first expressway extended from Guangzhou after the reform and opening up, then you will never be surprised by the rise of the new airport , the design of new train stations, the rise of motorcycles from popularity to decline, and the miracle of rapid progress in subway construction. There is a lot of traffic and a constant flow of traffic. People in Guangzhou should be polite when traveling with cars.
Walking - walking through the bustling city
① The streets of the city are busy and busy. You must abide by the traffic rules when you go out. This is not only public morality, but also harmful to life. respect.
② Sidewalks, crosswalks, overpasses and underpasses are all specially designed for pedestrians. Please don’t forget their purpose.
③When men and women walk together, men should usually walk on the side of the road. That is also a kind of demeanor.
④If you meet a pedestrian asking for directions, answer him enthusiastically and thoroughly. If you can't answer the question, ask others for help.
⑤It is rainy in Yangcheng. When walking with an umbrella in hand, you must pay attention to the pedestrians around you.
⑥ Consciously queuing up is also a reflection of a person’s good qualities. Queuing especially requires patience.
⑦ There should be appropriate intervals when queuing, and it is best to keep one step between people.
⑧When going up the stairs, men should walk behind women; when going downstairs, the opposite is true. Men should walk in front so that women can help them if they fall.
Remember not to cross road isolation facilities for a shortcut.
Take a plane - "return" a smile to the stewardess
① When taking a plane, you should go to the airport some time in advance to avoid confusion and accidents.
②When queuing for check-in, pay attention to the yellow line under your feet.
③ You must comply with relevant requirements when accepting security inspections. This is also for your safety.
④When entering or exiting the cabin door, you should express your gratitude or nod to the crew members who warmly greet you.
⑤After entering the cabin, you should put away your luggage as soon as possible, and then sit down immediately to avoid disturbing other passengers in the aisle.
⑥You cannot put down the tray table and your seat back before the plane takes off.
⑦ The seats on the airplane are adjustable, but people in the front and rear seats should be considered. If the seat back is suddenly lowered, or pushed back to the original position, or the legs are crossed and swaying, it will cause resentment to others.
⑧When spending the night on the plane, please try to be gentle and do not disturb other people’s sleep. It is also best not to turn on the lights at this time.
⑨ Before getting off the plane, put garbage such as newspapers, magazines, paper, candy and chewing gum wrappers into the bag in front of the seat. This is a considerate approach for the cleaning staff.
⑩After stopping the plane, please get off the plane in order. It is not appropriate to rush in the narrow aisle.
During the flight, mobile phones, personal computers and electronic toys are not allowed to be used.
It is impolite to take pictures on an airplane or change seats with others to see the scenery outside the window.
Take the train - enjoy a mobile home
① When boarding the train, you should take the initiative to show your ticket and take your seat (seat).
② When getting on and off the train, you should observe order and go in order.
③When placing luggage in the luggage rack, pay attention to courtesy and convenience.
④Try not to disturb passengers who are reading books or magazines or closing their eyes to relax, or sleeping passengers on the berth.
⑤ When traveling long distances by train, you can chat with your neighbor (seat) about topics that both of you are happy to talk about, but try to avoid involving each other’s privacy.
You must also look elegant and decent when talking, eating, dressing, and resting on the train.
Taking a boat - sailing can also be pleasant
① When taking a boat, pay attention to the class of your ticket and check in to the cabin (seat).
②Generally, cruise ships have larger space, complete entertainment facilities, and plenty of time. You may wish to get to know your shipmates, and you may gain unexpected rewards.
③If you bring medicines to prevent seasickness, you can often help people in need.
④Don’t rush to take photos at scenic spots. This is also a safety requirement.
⑤The water supply on board is limited after all, so attention should be paid to saving water.
When traveling on a boat, women generally should not wear too little clothing. Going up and down, especially wearing skirts or shorts, will look unsightly.
If you experience seasickness and discomfort, you should go to the bathroom as soon as possible.
Taking the subway - coming and going in a hurry is also civilized
① As a fast and convenient modern means of transportation in the city, you should comply with various "instructions" when taking the subway.
② Follow the various signs and guidelines when entering and exiting the subway station. When going up or down the escalator, you should "stand firm on the right and pass on the left."
③ Please queue up and pass the ticket gate in order.
④ Pay attention to the arrows on the ground of the platform, and exit first before entering.
⑤ When there are many people, do not place luggage and items on the seats to avoid affecting others’ seating.
When the bell rings to remind you to close the door, you can no longer risk entering the screen door.
Taking a bus - a mobile city window
① Develop a good habit of queuing to get on the bus, and do not rush to be first.
②Be courteous and considerate to each other after getting on the bus. Special care should be taken of the elderly, the weak, women, and children.
③When riding on a rainy day, you should put away your rain gear to avoid disturbing others.
④ Take good care of your children and do not let them cry or play in the car.
⑤ When getting off the bus, if you need others to give way, you should politely say hello first, such as "borrow the light", "excuse me" or "please give way".
⑥After getting on the bus, you should put your belongings in the appropriate place. Be careful not to let it occupy a seat, block the road, or hinder the safety of others.
There are often bumps and bruises in the car, so you might as well take the initiative to say "I'm sorry."
Take the elevator - there is still warmth in the world so close
① When taking the elevator, you must pay attention to the etiquette of entering and exiting. When waiting for the elevator, stand on both sides of the elevator door and do not prevent people in the elevator from getting out. When the elevator door is opened, people inside should be allowed to come out first and then enter in turn. If it is an automatic elevator, the elderly, children, ladies or guests should be allowed to enter first, and the young people, men or owners should stand next to the elevator button to provide services.
②When the elevator door is closed, it is not advisable to force your way in. When the number of people is overloaded, you should actively exit.
③When your destination floor is about to arrive, it is best to wait by the elevator door in advance instead of waiting for the elevator to open before rushing out.
Keep the elevator quiet and clean, and lower your voice.
Self-driving cars - hold the steering wheel in your hands
① When driving a vehicle, you must strictly abide by traffic rules. Your steering wheel is your image.
② When the road is crowded or the vehicles are blocked, you must have the patience to wait. This is also a kind of self-cultivation.
③When driving through crosswalks or busy streets, reduce your speed and give way to pedestrians. In case of rainy days, prevent water from splashing on pedestrians.
④ If there is a bump on the road, you should deal with it rationally. As the saying goes, the sky is brighter when you take a step back.
⑤ When driving at night, switch between far and near lights in a timely manner to avoid disturbing other drivers.
⑥When entering and exiting a car, opening (closing) the door for a woman is the proper demeanor for a man.
Keeping your car tidy also adds color to the city.
For your safety and the safety of others, never drink and drive.
Cycling - you must also have traffic lights in mind
① When riding a bicycle, citizens must give way to pedestrians, pay attention to traffic ethics, and abide by traffic regulations.
②When traveling by bicycle, you must go your own way. On undivided roads, keep to the right, but do not drive on the sidewalk.
③ Remember that driving in the opposite direction, walking shoulder to shoulder, taking your hands off the handlebars, climbing on other vehicles, etc. are all violations of traffic rules and a lack of self-cultivation.
④ Please park your bicycles in permitted or designated areas.
For your safety and the safety of others, check your bell and brakes frequently.
Speech - Speech Etiquette
As the saying goes, "We are not afraid of heaven or earth, but we are afraid of Cantonese speaking Mandarin." In fact, after 20 years of cultural integration between the south and the north, the Mandarin of Guangzhou people has already made great progress. Moreover, the vocabulary created by Guangzhou people with unique charm and rich modern connotations has quietly become popular, and even leads the way.
Common names-calling is the first step to successful communication
In communication, in order to show the degree of familiarity or respect with the other party, you can call different people by their names, Position, professional title, academic title or occupation; for general colleagues, classmates, friends and acquaintances of the same generation, you can directly address them by their first names.
① The elders can address the younger ones by their names, but the younger ones cannot address the elders.
② You can add the words "老", "大", and "小" before the other party's name, such as "Lao Li", "Da Chen", "Xiao Wang", etc. to avoid calling them its name.
③For those with higher positions and professional titles, you can only call them their positions and professional titles.
④ For those with higher positions and professional titles, you can also add the surname before their positions and professional titles.
⑤In a very formal venue