Editor's introduction: Men lose their tempers differently from women. Women often lose their tempers for men, and most of them can be coaxed, but once a man's temper breaks out, it will be overwhelming. Even a cow can't be pulled back. How to deal with your husband's bad temper. Normally, he is a good husband, he is considerate, gentle, and has enough patience with his children. But he will occasionally be stubborn, and when he is stubborn, you will be so depressed that you want to scratch the wall - when he becomes paranoid, he often cannot listen to any good advice. It's okay to lose your temper occasionally, as long as you accommodate him, he'll do it. But if a man often has such a "cow temper", he will suffer a lot on the road ahead. As a wife, no matter how much effort you make, in the end he still fails in his own way? Such a man, even if he is motivated, will not achieve great success. Another question is, when a woman is with a stubborn man, should she always accommodate him, or should she fight him to the end? How can you live in harmony with your stubborn husband and deal with his "coward temper"? 100% Stubborn Husband’s special skill: Never say the first thing after an argument. If you are not a Cold War endurance master, then you will definitely lose a lot of points in the “Who says the first thing first” aspect. In normal days, reading books and surfing the Internet are quickly passed away, but time during the Cold War always passes very slowly. Even if there is only a few hours of cold air, it is a huge drain on you. You bitterly recall the quarrel, feeling aggrieved and angry so much that you want to scratch the wall. On the other hand, questions such as "Does he love me or not?" and "Will this experience have any sequelae on our relationship?" are playing in your mind. If you don’t go away... In your opinion, it is better to either have another big fight or discuss the problem calmly than to be driven crazy by the suffocating silence. Wife takes the trick: A small note saves the country from the cold war. When the two of you get along in harmony, please sign a "family covenant" with him - each person takes turns being the one who speaks first within 24 hours after an argument. Hang it in a conspicuous place, and it will increase your awareness during normal times. When there is a real quarrel, it can remind the two of you to act "according to the rules". However, since he is a 100% stubborn husband, it is not surprising that he does not fulfill the contract. Then your note must play its role as an "emotional mediation ambassador". Write a letter of complaint to him. Complaining that he is sulking alone when the quarrel does not come to an end, leaving you waiting alone on the battlefield. Immoral and uncivilized things. The next challenge in the letter is to ask him to discuss the unfinished issues with you clearly. The rule of the quarrel is that you are not allowed to leave midway. For a stubborn person like him, since he promised to argue with you to the end, he will definitely fulfill his promise. You can take this opportunity to exchange ideas with him and study solutions.