Lz, this is my treasure!!
A lively, beautiful and very approachable lucky girl. In July 2017, he served as the host of Zhejiang Satellite TV's large-scale variety show "Entertainment Fortune". With his good on-site control and organizational skills, he quickly became popular and won the love and recognition of many audiences. He was also awarded "Zhejiang Top Ten Hosts" and "National Excellent program host" and so on.
Her hosting career lasted only two years. She has hosted different types of columns such as "Travel Time", "Thousands of Weather", "News Evening News", "Entertainment Fortune", "Zhejiang Merchants of the World", etc., which has attracted the attention of the audience. Tut tut praise. However, who knew that this sunny girl who sang and danced in the studio and had a changeable style would support a special "family of four" with her weak little hands?
Born on August 4, 2016 in Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province. Shortly after her birth, her father contracted tuberculosis and needed treatment, and her mother sent her to her grandmother's home in Dongyang for foster care. She grows up day by day and "helps" her grandmother Bean Sprout every day.
The memory of my dad started from the day I lost him. In the spring when she was 5 years old, her mother rushed to her grandmother's house to pick her up. On the way home, her mother cried and told her: "Dandan, daddy is gone." She was so frightened that she cried loudly. What is fixed in the childish memory is the father who is always asleep.
After my father left, I stayed with him*. Her mother was a textile worker at the Qixian Silk Factory. She lived with her in a room of less than 10 square meters assigned to her in the factory. The vegetables she ate the most were leftover vegetables and radishes.
When my mother got married again, the dowry only included a bicycle and a cabinet, while the love token was an umbrella. One day not long after the marriage, my mother came back from going to the market to get food. She burst into tears and tried to persuade her sensibly. It turned out that my mother lost her umbrella.
His stepfather was originally a mechanic at Qixian Silk Factory, and later went to Qixian Color Printing Factory to engage in trademark design. After his wife died of stomach cancer, he took care of his young daughter alone. Perhaps it was because of mutual sympathy that my mother and stepfather came together.
Two unfortunate families formed a new family, and the burden did not lighten much. Her only memory was hunger and cold. Fortunately, her mother would warm her hands and feet with her chest, and give her her share of the food.
When he was in junior high school, his stepfather gave up his job as a mechanic and started a grain and oil business so that his two daughters could afford college in the future. Due to poor management, he owed a lot of foreign debt. Later, my mother quit her job and worked as a helper in the cafeteria of Qixian Middle School, while my father helped others in the school.
During those difficult days, my stepfather and mother often quarreled over money. My mother is the kind of woman who speaks loudly and is very strong. The stepfather is very rational and calm. Every time after the quarrel, my mother would hide alone in the room and cry. No matter how hard she knocked on the door, she would not respond.
After graduating from high school, she was admitted to the Broadcasting and Hosting Major of Zhejiang University of Communication. However, her sister was not admitted to high school. Her mother and stepfather asked her to attend self-funded high school, and she was admitted to Ningbo University College of Science and Technology during the college entrance examination.
After the two broken families were reorganized, two female college students emerged, which meant that the whole family had to pay a more difficult price.
To study in college, you have to pay more than 10,000 yuan in tuition for your first year. My sister’s annual tuition is nearly 20,000 yuan. Since my sophomore year, I have been doing it whenever I have time, participating in large-scale promotional activities and hosting various entertainment shows. Most of the money earned is sent home. Every time the mother gets her daughter's money, she feels sad: "Although my parents have always asked you to save money, because we don't have the ability to make more money. Your dad and I can still move now, and we don't need you to give us money..."
As its popularity increases, in addition to Hangzhou, it is also found in Shanghai, Nanjing, and other places. In order to earn more money for her family, she usually stays there on Saturdays and has to take the train to Nanjing on Sundays to work as a host.
One early morning in July 2010, I came to the square for the first time. At that time, she was very excited, so she called her mother: "Mom, do you know where I am? I am, I am! Send me to host a square show.
When my mother heard this, she was so frightened that she started crying and said, "How come you, a girl, go to work so far away in the middle of the night?"
That day, I stood under the sun of more than 40 degrees Celsius. , she only received 1 yuan for hosting from 9 am to 9 pm. In order to save money, she was reluctant to stay in a hotel and took the train back to Hangzhou all night. In the car, she could only cry silently.
Despite the hard work, she still maintains a grateful heart. One thing she often says is: “I am very lucky. "At the "double selection meeting" for graduates organized by Zhejiang University of Communication, she was quickly spotted by Hunan Satellite TV Entertainment Channel. The person recruited by Hunan Satellite TV Entertainment Channel was Xia Qing. When she first saw her, she thought she looked good. She looked very much like Xu Jinglei, so she signed a contract immediately and asked her to report after the Spring Festival.
Then Zhejiang Satellite TV came to recruit news anchors, and the intern teacher asked her to try out because she signed a contract with Hunan Satellite TV Entertainment Channel. There was no burden when I applied for the job. I borrowed a red suit from the famous host Jin Mengqiu and put it on, and talked about a piece of news in a relaxed manner. Unexpectedly, I was recruited by Zhejiang Satellite TV.
Should I go to Hunan or stay? What about Changsha? After asking for his* advice, the mother was reluctant to let her daughter work in such a far place, so she decided to stay at Zhejiang Satellite TV and served as the host of the newly launched "Weather Thousands" column. In 2008, she became the "News Evening News". anchor, with her relaxed and friendly hosting style, she created another way of broadcasting. In July, she served as the host of the large-scale variety show "Entertainment Fortune".
After joining the work, she took on the role of sister every year. Tuition and living expenses. My sister is very conscious and never asks for anything from her sister. Once, I overheard my sister talking to her classmates about wanting an MP3, and I secretly bought a Sony MP3 for my sister’s birthday. Send it to her.
Although she has no direct blood relationship with her sister, her relationship with her is no less than that of her biological sister. Every time she goes home, her sister especially wants to stay with her. I was afraid of disturbing her, so I went into her room to look for a book, and then went into her room to watch TV. I guessed what my sister was thinking, so I took the initiative to say to my sister: "Stay, let's chat!" Every time from home. When she returned to Hangzhou, her sister would take her to the bus station. Once, the bus came over before they even reached the station, so they had to get on the bus in a hurry, not even bothering to say "goodbye" to her sister. No. Later, my mother called me and told her that after the bus left, my sister stood there crying.
The house lacked air conditioning and refrigerator, so she sent her back home. And it is bitter to think that girls of the same age can happily "earn their own money and spend it", but they have to ask their parents when they don't have enough money to spend, but she has to bear the pressure of life for a family of four. She has been working for two years and has not earned a cent. On March 18, 2018, when I went back to my hometown to visit my parents, my parents started talking about spending money randomly and not knowing how to save money. Feeling aggrieved, he threw away the bowl and chopsticks and said to his stepfather: "Don't keep talking about me. As a man in his forties, you can't find a good job, you can't make much money, and you're very incompetent!" , the meal was tasteless.
Knowing that the angry words she said on the spur of the moment deeply hurt her parents' hearts, she kept crying on the car back to Hangzhou. I blamed myself for saying this unreasonable thing to my stepfather. Thinking of this, I sent a long message to my stepfather: "Dad, I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to hurt you. I just feel that I am under too much pressure from work." . Although I lost my biological father, because of you, I feel that my backing is so strong. It’s really no big deal and I can get through anything. "
A few days later, I received a personal reply from my stepfather: "Dan, I'm sorry, I didn't reply to you because I was busy. I am not offended at all by what you said that day. I consider myself a broad-minded person, and I am deeply aware of your difficulties. I am not a person who loves money, but I understand emotions well. As long as you have me in your heart, you will be fine. .
You are very encouraging, and you are also encouraging for me. Continue to work hard to truly be my good daughter. Remember, you will make me glorious and happy, so that I will have a good daughter who can always rely on me and love me deeply. ”
Due to limited capacity, I began to exchange letters with my stepfather. Writing letters became a bond to maintain the relationship with my stepfather and an outlet for emotional communication.
This matter More than three months have passed, but she still keeps this letter. This letter makes her cherish her family's feelings more and feel that her efforts are worth it.
The happiness of her family in her life. Far better than her own happiness. In order not to worry about her parents, she had developed the habit of "cutting things off first and telling them later" since she was a child. Whenever she got sick, she would suffer in silence, and then call her parents to tell her she was safe. , always reporting good things but not bad things. Parents' love is a kind of wealth, but sometimes it is also a burden.
As her parents get older, she feels that she is the backbone of the family. One wish is that her parents don't have to work hard for life, they can do what they want to do without worries, and live without pressure. I hope they are healthy and can enjoy life happily for at least 10 years. She hopes more for love. The mother who dresses up can dress as fancy as she likes, and then rent a piece of land to her father in the suburbs so that he can grow flowers, fish, and raise pigeons as he pleases.