I had a crush on the top student in my grade, and then we became roommates. During the most stressful senior year of high school, he confessed that we were together. Then my academic performance improved by leaps and bounds because he gave me tutoring. Later, after graduation, we broke up because of some minor issues. My classmates said that I was with him just to get into college.
Falling in love with a high school student is relatively happy in comparison. Although learning does not equal character, academic qualifications do not equal experience, and talking about it does not mean doing it. But wisdom must be better than ignorance. This is the inevitable result of human evolution over thousands of years. But please also remember: only the love that suits you is the best. The appearance of optical fiber can never replace the experience of life. Whether the shoes are good or not can only be known by your own feet, not by the trademark on the shoes.
I have always believed in the law of conservation of energy. Pay and gain are directly proportional, gain and loss are directly proportional, but they are expressed in different forms. When you have the material things he brings to you, you will definitely have to pay emotionally. When you have the benefits of his success, you must be paying for him in life.
The longer I get to know you, the more I feel that you are a refreshing lake in my life. I have wanted to forget each other several times, but we always meet again quietly at the end of the mountains and rivers, which is a kind of reluctance. I also really feel that in this world, there will always be that one person who will appear in your lackluster life with a light that illuminates the depression in your heart.
It makes people feel that my humble and insignificant life has become meaningful because of your existence. However, you can only be a light in my life, appearing in my barren life and shining forever. Although you are intangible, your mere existence is the greatest gift in life to me.
In fact, it is also a good thing. If the person you like is a top student, then you will be motivated to study like a top student and have a sense of self-motivation. Nowadays, young people lack such a kind of self-motivation. After we are motivated, we will work hard and study hard, so we should be with people full of positive energy, encourage them to study alone, and move closer to them. We often say that if we often stand by the river, how can we not get our shoes wet? Of course we can learn a lot by standing next to top students. So we should be full of positive energy in our lives.