It's amazing that she can suddenly emerge in such a talent show that looks at her face and figure.

In the face of so many younger and more beautiful opponents than herself, she is not inferior, but strong and optimistic, unassuming but not artificial, and goes all out for her dreams.

Many people are attracted by her unique personality.

Look at those who can stand at the top. Most of them are maverick people. They are radiant and winners in life.

Indeed, who is born to like mediocrity, and who doesn't want to gain fame and fortune while living their own lives?

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In fact, there are always maverick people in life.

When I was in college, walking on campus, I often saw a little girl wearing Hanfu. From a distance, her dress is particularly conspicuous, with long hair bands and long skirts covering her feet, such as ebb and flow.

However, under the evaluation of public aesthetics, she is not beautiful and does not give people a feeling of being a fairy. Many people just think that she is strange, and there are always many boys following her and pointing at her unscrupulously.

On the campus advertisement wall, people often tease her, but she still walks alone, and Hanfu has changed one after another.

Once, a classmate around me said that she actually liked Hanfu, but she was afraid to wear it. She is afraid that others will spray herself like this girl.

"If you think you look good and look beautiful, I can wear whatever I want. If you feel that your appearance is lacking, it will not work. "

This is the general idea of most people, and the feeling is, "It takes conditions to follow your inner thoughts. Good can show people, bad can't. "

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About from the age of 1 1, 30% girls will try to go on a diet, and 60% girls will give up what they love because they care about other people's opinions.

Recently, with the fire in Tik Tok and the popularity of the aesthetics of online celebrities, girls nowadays pay more attention to their appearance, but they also become more inferior.

Give up learning, spend most of my energy on dressing up, wear clothes that I don't like very much but are very popular, learn online celebrity makeup, lose weight with hunger, take pictures, choose casting+beauty, and stay indoors for fear of tanning. ...

Many people try their best to decorate themselves just to cater to the "beauty" in the eyes of the public.

The more you flock to the place, the more blind and useless you are. It is under the influence of this long-term "mainstream" thought that many people have quietly disappeared from their excellent qualities.

On the contrary, those who really don't care about other people's opinions and have strong hearts are even more valuable.

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Dare to be yourself is the beginning of a better life.

When I was a soldier, I had a comrade-in-arms in the same year who painted very well.

How good is it? A photo of the Red Army's Long March, the brigade commander couldn't open his legs at first sight, and he liked it so much that he hung it on the wall of the office.

But when he arrived at the company, perhaps because he was busy, he never painted again. However, as a soldier, he is not excellent. He is fragile inside and can't stand criticism. He likes to ask me for help.

Training results are at the bottom, and the more you are criticized, the less motivated you are. After a long time, no one remembers his good painting.

Up to now, we have been discharged from the army together for two years, and we haven't had much contact until I was shocked by his circle of friends a few days ago.

He even sent some photos of falling in love with his boyfriend. After being a comrade-in-arms for two years, I didn't even know he was gay, so I chatted with him curiously.

After returning from the army, he studied oil painting for half a year and began to sell paintings from the Internet. He actually made a lot of money and made many friends and a boyfriend.

Later, several of them discussed it and started a painting class in partnership. Now with a monthly income of tens of thousands, he said:

Nothing is happier than doing what you want, loving me and loving.

I silently gave him a thumbs-up sign. I didn't expect him to be so different from the man I used to know.

I feel that in today's era, there is no such thing as "being incompetent" and "frustrated", but many people dare not take that step, and the door to a better life is firmly locked by timidity.

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A truly outstanding person will shine from the inside out.

The movie hacksaw ridge released on 20 16 touched countless people.

The hero Dawes, after the outbreak of the US-Japan War, resolutely chose to join the army and become a peace-loving medical soldier, but he refused to touch the gun.

Everyone treated him like an alien, humiliated him and beat him. Even though he was dealt with by military law, he still didn't pull the trigger.

At the battle of hacksaw ridge, the American army was wiped out, but he didn't leave. He rushed into the bullets single-handedly, dragged back one wounded person after another from less than ten meters away from the Japanese position, and saved the lives of 75 comrades-in-arms by himself.

Counting those awesome people in history, there is no one who is not as opinionated and maverick as Dawson.

They put aside the secular world, went through hardships and endured disputes, but still persisted in their original intention and finally created a miracle.

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Of course, following one's heart and daring to be independent is not "curiosity", let alone selling ugliness.

Selling ugliness, the first thing I think of is Xifeng.

What impressed me the most was 20 1 1 year, when the Wenzhou bullet train had an accident and the whole people were mourning the victims, she sent such a Weibo:

"I haven't been watching the news. I learned that 35 people died in Wenzhou today. I believe they all heard of the famous Xifeng before their death. So they die a fair death. "

This is not human talk. She really dares to say anything, scolding and hyping anyone. She thought what she got was attention, but in fact it was just disgust.

Even today, when she wants to be an inspirational model to beautify her "American dream", she still can't escape the vulgar essence of herself.

There are many bottomless "Internet celebrities".

Some people, without real skills, take off their clothes to gain eyeballs; Some people, unable to find any new ideas, treat their children as toys. Recently, the "big V" banned by all walks of life shows that:

For the immediate interests, regardless of the moral bottom line grandstanding, the outcome is sad.

Marc levy said, "Everyone is different. It is important to find the difference that suits you best. "

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The book "reinventing yourself-how to be a very happy person" says:

Stop self-criticism and accept yourself completely, which is divided into three processes: covering up, apologizing and accepting.

For things that are not confident, we will cover them up first and dare not face them; Then we will slowly admit it itself, and then balance our hearts with apologies; In the end, we will find it unnecessary to cover up and apologize, but what we should do is to accept ourselves and tell the truth.

In the face of others' one-sided words, try to laugh them off. This is the best way to avoid self-criticism and realize self-acceptance.

If you want to live a wonderful life and appreciate the beautiful world outside the secular world, in the final analysis, you should get rid of the interference of public opinion, do your own thing high one heart and find confidence in it.

What you have done is out of place, in fact, you stand out from the crowd. I hope everyone can live a good life and create their own wonderful things.

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