1. Happiness is not the trademark of life, but the quality of life. The complexity of social connections is beyond your imagination. A good friend should be one soul and two bodies, not much in mind, and know how to find your soulmate instead of flooding your friendship. Put your best friend in a boat and your life will be happy. Don't expose your inner fragility easily, learn to bear everything you should bear; don't easily talk about the embarrassment of life, and learn to face the messy and disorderly reality.
2. Slowly I understand that there will always be a heart-warming encounter in a person's life. There are many things that we are reluctant to throw away and many things that we are reluctant to forget. It is because of these reluctances that we become fragile. Loving someone is more than just giving them something. To love or not to love is not for outsiders to see, but for one's own heart to see. Please always pray for him in your heart and never stop. Because if you really love him, you will let him live in your heart first.
3. Life, after all, is about living a state of mind. People may have to learn to be strong. Even if their strength is broken by reality one day, they must continue to run wildly with the fragments of strength. The road to dreams is destined to be bumpy, full of ups and downs, and full of wind and rain. But on the road to reality, we are destined to be exhausted, scarred both physically and mentally, and with tears in our eyes. But what can you do? When you live in this world for a day, you must learn to bear the burden of longing for the future.
4. All the setbacks, pains, and experiences in life are meant to build you up and train you. If there are few things on the body, there will naturally be less suffering; if there are few words in the mouth, there will naturally be fewer disasters; if there is less food in the belly, there will naturally be fewer diseases; if there are few desires in the heart, there will naturally be fewer worries! Great sorrow has no tears, great enlightenment has no words. Cherish fate when it comes and let go when fate is over. Only when you have a calm mind can you hear your own voice; only when your mind is clear can you see the true nature of all things. What you guard to the death is not necessarily what you own.
5. The farthest distance is when you are sitting next to me, but I still feel uneasy. Life is composed of memories accumulated over time, experiences generated by memories, and emotions composed of experiences. These are the teachers in life, and these teachers will suddenly make us question the value of our lives at a certain age, and in our hearts we will be forced to answer it unabashedly for ourselves, because this is a question of the value of our lives. A kind of responsibility.
6. The most important value in life is the happiness of the soul, and the heart should have a natural shedding process. I don't think about whether there will be cold wind and rain behind me. Since the target is the horizon, all that is left to the world is my back. I don’t think about whether the future will be smooth or muddy. As long as I love life, everything is expected. In a person's life, there should be at least two moments of impulsiveness: a desperate love, and a spontaneous trip.
7. Life is about practice, and practice is about understanding. The first thing that causes us to age is not our appearance, but our reckless ambition. After you really work hard, you will find that you are much better than you thought. The greatest failure is to give up. Today is cruel, tomorrow will be even crueler, and the day after tomorrow will be beautiful. Most people will die tomorrow night and will not see the sun the day after tomorrow.
8. All people or things are easily forgotten. When you miss someone, miss him as much as you want. Maybe one day, you will never miss him so much again. When you love someone, love with all your heart and let him know that you love him so much. Maybe one day, when you grow up, you have too many disappointments and too many worries, and you will no longer love someone so passionately.
9. Life is ever-changing, just like destiny. Which way to go is your own choice. Life is a kind of confusion, a blur, you can't tell whether you understand it, you can't tell it clearly, you are muddle-headed, and you are vague. See clearly, trouble, understand, sad. Things in the world are too difficult to deal with, and people in the world like to be entangled. Can't see clearly, a kind of relaxation, a kind of peace. What's more, there are so many things in life that we can't stand, and if we see them clearly and understand them, we are asking for sorrow.
10. If you want to understand life, you must first understand yourself. The farthest distance between people in the world is not the distance between them, but the distance between hearts. Nothing lasts forever, nothing can never be lost. What I once had, I gradually lost; the people I once had, gradually left. Friendship and love also lost to the great time. We were separated in the wind of time, and in the end, we disappeared.
11. Facing the sea, spring flowers are blooming. Never give up on something you really want. Life is a kind of endurance, we must learn to support ourselves. Happiness is seeing the magic in the ordinary; happiness is tasting the true taste in the ordinary.
Happiness is not a gift of life, but a realization of the heart. Happiness is not a gift from others, but the indifference of the heart. Only by being willing to be ordinary, not fighting, not persevering, and not caring can you feel more happiness.
12. Contentment is not only a kind of sobriety, but also a state of mind. There is no real perfection in life, only imperfection is the most real beauty; life is not smooth sailing, only by overcoming thorns and thorns can the road be smooth; open your eyes and open your heart, and you will find that beauty is everywhere. Learn to adapt and make your environment brighter; learn to adjust and make your mood no longer sad.
13. Know how to give up what you can’t own, and how to hide what you can’t touch. Instead of dwelling on the past, it’s better to take a sunny shower, throw away sadness and loneliness, get rid of helplessness and indifference, no longer be afraid of the unknown, and don’t have to be blindly confused. Tell yourself, I can. From a physiological point of view, the so-called childish means that one cannot hold back both peeing and talking; the so-called immature means that one can only hold back peeing but cannot hold back talking.
14. No matter how sincere you are, you will still be hypocritical when you meet someone who doubts you. No matter how pure your love is, if she thinks complicatedly, you are still scary and scheming; no matter how much you give, in the heart of someone who is unwilling to accept, if you just want to make a deal, they will definitely reject you. When you encounter someone who doesn't recognize you in love, the best way is to bite the bullet and give up and be yourself. It is beauty and happiness to let go of people who have no intersection or fate.
15. Only by letting go of pain can you bathe in the sunshine. Life is like a passer-by, who comes happily and leaves happily. Most importantly, be in the moment! Learn to cherish the people and things in front of you. We must cherish everything so that life will be full of flowers.
16. In the ordinary years, two hearts cling to each other and two hands support each other. Respect each other, leave space, understand each other and be tolerant. Share the joy and share the sorrow. With the truth, coarse clothes and plain cloth will be beautiful; with understanding and interpretation, light rice and tea will be warm. Staying together in plainness is the most precious; possession in simplicity is the most peaceful.
17. An indifferent attitude is the maturity of life. Being strong does not mean facing sadness without shedding a single tear, but wiping away the tears and facing the future life with a smile. Everything is over and everything is about to begin. There is no person in this world who is not hurt. On the road of life, if you know how to be considerate and tolerant, your life will be very warm and peaceful. Start every morning with a smile and keep smiling until the day is over.
18. Fate is the scariest thing, I give you my sincerity, but you give me disdain; feelings are the most painful, I want some attention, but you give me indifference. The more you pay, the more miserable you will lose; the more you take seriously, the more painful it will be in the end. If I can't see your goodness, why bother to exchange my sincerity for sadness, and in the end I will only be left with a cold heart; I was just a passing guest, so why bother to pay attention to withdraw my indifference, and in the end I can only ignore you.
19. Don’t waste your time on worthless things; don’t pour your feelings into people who don’t know how to cherish them. People who care about you will be willing to be the warm air for you when you are most helpless; people who care about you will silently pay for you, but rarely let you know the sacrifices behind them. The most true feelings depend only on cherishing and managing.
20. In the past, it was just an experience, but now it is an attempt. Life is limited, life is short, and flowers blooming is only beautiful for one season. Whether it is a surprise, an encounter, or a legend, when the flowers bloom, bloom to your heart's content. Only when the flowers fall will there be no regrets. Therefore, please cherish when you meet, and realize what you have thought of. This is the grasp of time, fate, and life. .