Emotional intelligence should be more about interpersonal communication. People with high emotional intelligence are probably the kind of people who take others into consideration and are more comfortable together. If a girl talks to you, you need to consider your relationship with this girl. If it is a special relationship with your girlfriend, you want to pay more attention to her and care more about her feelings. If they are just ordinary friends, you also need to analyze the context to distinguish whether it is advice or slander. If you have any suggestions, communicate more with this girl or friends around you. Through specific incidents, you can find out what kind of awareness or actions you lack when doing things, which makes you seem to have low emotional intelligence, and correct it. If the person who comes is not kind, just teach him a lesson. Then your emotional intelligence is not very high. You don’t need to affect your emotions just because of someone’s words. Sometimes, be more open-minded and natural, and slowly get along with your friends. In this model, you can find sincerity and friendly behavior that makes you comfortable and make others comfortable. If you stick to it, your emotional intelligence can be slowly cultivated in a more relaxed environment.