Maturity can be both a physiological indicator and a psychological indicator. Psychological maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but they are related.

when it comes to psychological maturity, I think that a mature person has strong independence in thought, emotion, action and economy, and is less dependent on others. Understand what life is, know what you want to do, have a clear goal in life, and take practical actions. Can control their emotions, and have the ability to observe and insight into things, have a good attitude towards real life, and have considerable tolerance and resistance to setbacks and difficulties. Everything is no longer credulous, and practice is emphasized.

In short, a mature person means that he has found himself and handled the relationship between himself and the outside world well.

Whether you have a self and how to treat yourself are important criteria to measure whether a person is mature or not. Of course, this is relative, because people are constantly becoming mature. You can compare your present with the past to see if you are mature. This is a vertical comparison, and you can also compare yourself with the people around you. This is a balanced comparison.

1. Pay attention to promises: A mature man will never go back on his word. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled. If he can, he will never say it, but he will keep his words. Every word he says makes you feel at ease and trustworthy. A man who is full of address unknown, shooting at random, and can't take action, has nothing to do with maturity.

2. Don't talk big: A mature man never talks big casually. He will hold a proper silence and speak clearly but without shouting. Just drink a little wine and tell your own stories all over the table, which can be heard by half a room without speakers. This kind of man will make the audience laugh at most, and no one will take your various so-called "road to struggle" to heart.

Third, they are knowledgeable and reserved: they read books, accept new things and information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they don't make public, their talents are only displayed when necessary, and they will never deliberately show off to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more they taste, the more they taste.

fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet small advantages, don't care about eating small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" for small quarrels in the family.

5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "like me" have a typical little emperor temper and have not grown up yet.

6. Be brave in admitting mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses to prevaricate.

VII. Strong will: Mature men have the psychological quality that they will never be confused. Once they set their own goal, they will work towards it and encounter setbacks. They will analyze the reasons, learn lessons and correct their direction in time, but they will never give up easily. They will be tired, but after a rest, they will set off with confidence.

eight, clean and tidy: mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean without stubble, their faces are not greasy, and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like a courier. They will never wear black shoes with white socks and travel in suits.

IX. Respect for the elderly and love for the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the disaster-stricken areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood voluntarily ... They may not do all these things, but they will never do nothing.

1. Have hobbies: They are not robots who only know about work, but know how to adjust their tense nerves with hobbies, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: men with hobbies are not easy to go bad.

Second, the performance of maturity

Only a man who has been honed will be mature

1. Maturity shows honesty

Honesty is interpreted here as----------bravely and honestly facing anything. It's as easy to say as eating, but it's more difficult to do than you think. It's not as difficult as climbing Mount Everest. I remember that Bai Yang, a Taiwan Province writer, wrote an "Ugly China Man". I remember that there was a passage in the book: One of the ugliness of China people is that "when a person makes a mistake, he will cover up the first mistake with ten or even twenty mistakes". It sounds a little forgiving, but it seems that it is as common as air in our lives. To put it simply, someone lies for a wrong behavior. Most men lie to another woman that they are single outside, and their intentions and purposes are obvious. After his goal is achieved, he will be forced to confess to one side because of the painful life like a splint on both sides. At present, the society is advocating clear consumption, and consumers have the right to get a detailed notice of the products from the merchants before consumption. Here, it is difficult for consumers (women) to get a clear possibility of consumption. By the way, it is difficult to complain about this kind of fake and inferior.

Honesty, why don't you try to do it? !

2. Maturity shows two desires

A man must have desires, and if he has a strong desire, he will have a movement process to realize his desires. What excites girls most and makes them proud and excited is the pleasure of watching the man they love realize and reach the peak of his career step by step. Looking back, isn't the whole process of desire movement the growth process of a mature man? I have always heard a saying: man, it doesn't matter if you have no money, but you must have "talent". Believe this sentence is to express this meaning! Through this sentence, we can also see that every qualified woman wants to participate in the growth process of a mature man, if not qualified, but at least wants to watch him realize his desire. That's what women are willing to pay for. It will also be a moment for mature men to be proud of. Girls have a process of expectation for boys, and once expectation becomes reality, this process will be the greatest wealth in life.

3. maturity shows three tolerance

tolerance mentioned here refers to a kind of tolerance unique to mature men. This kind of tolerance and tolerance is reflected in the behavior of treating things and others. Tolerance is a virtue in itself, while tolerance extends from tolerance and is tailored for men. It's like men's cologne. You can also compare it to gentlemanly manners. If a man shows his tolerance when he is in trouble, it shows his familiarity with things and his personal charm to varying degrees. If a man shows his tolerance when meeting people, he will be recognized and respected by others.

combine the above three points to sum up.

A mature man is the dream of all women. If a mature man is compared to a diamond ring that women yearn for:

Tolerance-the ring size of a platinum diamond ring means whether his tolerance and tolerance can be accepted by her;

Desire-the carat of diamond ring means that his career is directly proportional to the carat of diamond;

Honesty-the intrinsic refraction of a diamond means that it is the inner shining point of a man.

adult men are not necessarily mature. However, every adult man does not want to be an immature role in the eyes of his female companion.

1. A mature man should have an economic foundation. Since people use gold to describe the harvest, women naturally use money to judge the maturity of men.

2. Mature men should have a career foundation. Maybe not every man can make a fortune, but if you feel that you have accomplished nothing, how can you stand up in women's minds?

3. Mature men know what they want, not everything. Know how to persist and know how to give up.

4. Mature men are brave enough to take responsibility, although some mistakes are not all caused by him.

5. Mature men are tolerant, and it is the most unforgivable mistake for men to care too much.

6. Mature men have great wisdom instead of small cleverness.

7. A mature man can let a woman learn a lot by his words and deeds, while a young man can only let a woman teach him.

8. A mature man knows how to cherish and take care of women. When going out for an outing, he must not be the one who runs ahead by himself.

9. Mature men don't quarrel with women in the street.

1. A mature man will not force a woman to wear clothes that he likes but she doesn't like.

11. Mature men don't play low-level jokes on women casually.

12. A mature man lets a woman know that she is wrong, but he won't make her lose face.

13. Mature men make women relax without making women nervous.

14. A mature man will turn his son into a real man.

Method: In fact, in the final analysis, maturity is about doing things and being a man, and there is no shortcut.

If you insist on finding a way, you should do more things and summarize and improve quickly;

Read more books, and be good at thinking and applying

Listen to people (experts) talk about their experiences and skills.

The above are some materials and personal summaries I have selected, hoping to help you.